After being urged to marry, the heir of a wealthy family dragged me to get the certificate

Here, Jiang's mother also received a notice from her father-in-law and ran over to insinuate. She dragged her daughter-in-law into the house, and said straight to the point: "Have you and Xiaoli quarreled in the past two days?"

Lu Mingyue froze for a moment, as if surprised how she knew.

Jiang's mother smiled and pulled her to sit down by the bed, pinched her daughter-in-law's face and joked: "Your child, you have something to write all over your face. I haven't seen this little face for a few days. You look thinner. It's no wonder if you don't come out. No, grandpa called me in a hurry and asked me to ask what's going on."

"Tell Mom what's going on. Did Xiaoli bully you?"

Lu Mingyue had never had the experience of being intimate with female elders like Jiang's mother, so she seemed a little at a loss for a while.

Mother Jiang was not in a hurry, and looked at her with a gentle expression, with complete love and relationship in her pupils.

Seeing Lu Mingyue, her eyes suddenly turned red, she lowered her eyes in embarrassment, and said softly:

"It's not a quarrel, it's just... Actually, I didn't mean that, I just..."

At the end, Lu Mingyue's voice choked up, "Actually, I also know that it's contradictory for me to think this way, but I can't control myself."

She really doesn't seem to be a qualified love partner, and she is messed up emotionally.

Hypocritical and sensitive, it's not like her at all.

Mother Jiang quietly listened to Lu Mingyue's incomparable narration, her eyes were full of distress.

In fact, she can sympathize with Lu Mingyue's contradictory thoughts now. The environment in which she grew up has created her sensitive and suspicious personality, which cannot be changed overnight.

In this relationship, it's not that she distrusts and doesn't invest, but she is naturally guarded and can't easily open herself to the other half.

After all, in her past 20 years of experience, there are too few things that she can fully trust and rely on.

Because he was afraid of not being able to bear the consequences of pressing the wrong chips, he could only try cautiously every time.

It's not her fault, nor is it Xiao Li's fault.

This is due to the differences and differences brought about by the environment in which they grew up and the education they received, and they can only get used to it slowly in the process of getting along.

Patting Lu Mingyue on the back comfortingly, Mother Jiang's voice was soft.

"Mom understands what you mean, Mingyue, you want to say that you don't look for Xiaoli because you are afraid of causing trouble for Xiaoli, and it's not that you don't treat him as one of your own, right?"

Lu Mingyue nodded with red eyes.

Jiang's mother reached out and touched her head, and said in a gentle voice, "But Yueyue, you have to understand that what you think in your heart is one thing, and what the other party feels is another. If you don't say it, no one will say it." It can't be the roundworm in your stomach who guessed your mind so accurately."

"Actually, Xiaoli said it himself when he was angry. It's my fault that you didn't tell him about it immediately. If you think you want to solve it on your own and don't want to trouble him, you can communicate with him, right? Mom thinks Xiaoli It shouldn’t be the kind of person who doesn’t make sense.”

"So the point of his anger is that you didn't share with him what happened to you in the first place, but went to a friend for help first, which made him very hurt and felt that he was inconsequential to you."

Lu Mingyue hurriedly defended, "But I never thought about it that way, it's not like this."

Mother Jiang patted her reassuringly, "I know you definitely don't think so, don't worry, just listen to me."

"Let's talk about whether to trouble or not."

"Mingyue, you have to know that it is impossible for anyone to live alone in this world.

Between people, it's not always you who bother me, and I who bother you. The more exchanges between each other, the deeper the relationship will naturally be.

If you are like you and carry everything by yourself, don't talk to others or share your thoughts, and the two of you come back from work, except you have eaten and slept, there are no such polite words, and there is nothing to talk about, so What's the point of living your life. "

"Husband and wife, only those who support and accompany each other are called husband and wife. He should treat you well, and you should not feel as if you owe him anything. Don't have this kind of psychological burden. This is what he should do. "

Speaking of this, Jiang's mother smiled and took Lu Mingyue's hand and joked: "Marry such a sensible and beautiful wife and go home. He will make a lot of money. You deserve it for treating you well."

"Just like me and your dad, have I troubled him less? I haven't seen him getting impatient with me. Don't put such a burden on yourself. If you like you, he likes whatever you do. If you don't like you, you don't like anything. If you don't do it, he will think you are an eyesore."

"I think Xiao Li is right in one point. You really have to think about how to change your mentality and open yourself to the people around you."

Jiang Muyu said earnestly:

"Don't be afraid of losing, the more you are afraid of losing, the easier it is to lose."

"..."

Until she sent her away, Lu Mingyue was still thinking over and over again what her mother-in-law said just now, and felt that every word pierced her heart deafeningly.

Sitting in the room, she asked herself, did she really not have the slightest distrust of Jiang Li when she contacted Sun Wenjie?

Yes there is.

Because I don't want to make myself too dependent on him, so as not to be too hurt when we separate in the future, so——

Lu Mingyue was suddenly startled by the thoughts in her heart, it turned out that she had always had the idea that she would be separated from Jiang Li sooner or later!

Jiang Li did not blame her at all, it was indeed that she was not sincere enough or frank enough!

Lu Mingyue was suddenly overwhelmed with guilt, and sobbed while holding her face.

I feel sad for the twists and flaws in my character, and I feel sad and sorry for Jiang Li.

……

After walking out of the gate, Mother Jiang immediately called her son.

"I know everything about you and Mingyue, son, Mom has something to persuade you."

"Mingyue is different from all the girls you have come into contact with. She is naturally defensive. This is a subconscious instinct carved in her bones. There is no way to change it just by saying it."

"Since you chose to be with Mingyue, you have to tolerate her and slowly influence her. I'm afraid that forcing her like this now will make this girl feel even more insecure."

Mother Jiang sighed, "You don't know, when I saw her today, when I chatted with her, I almost felt like a different person."

"When I first came to our house, she was so confident, but now she is timid when she says a word, and it makes people feel distressed."

Jiang Li was silent for a moment, "Is she okay?"

"Not too good." Jiang's mother thought of Lu Mingyue who was crying like a tearful person this afternoon, and felt a little helpless, "The tears are almost drowning me, so don't force her, go back and coax her, otherwise I won't be able to stop your grandpa going to the company tomorrow to beat you up."

Jiang Li: ...