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"Why don't you go dancing." Lu Chenyuan asked Xiao Ou, wanting to know what the child was thinking.

"Why dance? We pretend to be ugly ducks to please the strange parents. We are basking in the sun, and the principal is sitting under the awning."

Lu Chenyuan tightened his grip on the steering wheel and moved his gaze towards Lin Yan.

They were all shocked that Xiao Ou would have such thoughts at such a young age. Such a young child has begun to not bow to the world.

"You can change your mind and think about it this way. Dancing is a way to participate in a group. You are not trying to please others, but enriching yourself."

Lu Chenyuan reasoned with Xiao Ou, not wanting him to only see the bad side of things.

Lin Yan asked: "Do you really dislike dancing?"

Xiao Ou nodded, "I don't want to do things I don't like. There are many ways to enrich myself, other than wearing doll clothes and jumping around on the stage."

Lin Yan compromised: "Okay, you have the right to choose, and I will communicate with your teacher."

Lu Chenyuan sighed slightly, "But everyone is doing it, but you don't go. Being a maverick does not require you to cater to it, but to be gregarious... People are not solitary animals. You can think clearly before going to bed at night. You Choosing to refuse will affect you, whether it will do more harm than good, or whether the good will outweigh the harm. Growing up is a process of gradual compromise."

Xiao Ou was confused. He couldn't understand what his father was talking about. He asked curiously: "What does it mean to be unique?"

Lin Yan laughed at Lu Chenyuan, how could a child understand what he said.

Lin Yan was the opposite of Lu Chenyuan. He supported Xiao Ou and said, "Just be happy and don't think about the people around you."

She was afraid that her please-pleaser personality, which she had spent too many years on, had not changed and was deeply rooted in her bones.

She always finds ways to cater to everyone, looks at other people's faces, and is always cautious in dealing with others.

Xiao Ou dragged his face with his hands, his eyebrows were twisted into knots, and he was thinking very seriously.

Should he listen to daddy or mommy?

...

"Why do you teach your son to cater to others like that? You know he won't be very happy."

Lin Yan waited for Xiao Ou to go home and go to bed before talking to Lu Chenyuan, not wanting to have an argument in front of the child.

Lu Chenyuan opened the window, stood at the window and lit a cigarette.

"I'm just giving you a suggestion. You're too excited. The final choice lies with him. I'm afraid that he will be isolated by other children. He will usually become special. The teacher will have any opinions."

Lin Yanren was shocked and looked at Lu Chenyuan without blinking. This was the first time she felt this.

His pillow person is so worldly.

It turns out that Lu Chenyuan is not immune to the earthly spirit, he will consider these worldly things.

"Do you think the teacher dares? Who wants to offend powerful people, but I certainly wouldn't do it."

"Ignoring the question of dare or not, let me ask you...all the children have gone to rehearse, and he is sitting alone. Do you think the child will feel comfortable like this?"

Lu Chenyuan's tone was quite gentle, and he discussed the matter with Lin Yan patiently.

When it comes to educating children, there is no big difference between the two of them because they are both first-time parents and have little experience.

This time there is a rare difference of opinion.

"But will he feel comfortable letting him do something he doesn't want to do?"

Lu Chenyuan pinched his brows and didn't understand why this incident aroused such a big reaction from Lin Yan.

"Let Xiao Ou make his own decision, okay?"

Lin Yan expressed his worries, "I just want Xiao Ou to be like me and watch people's emotions. No matter how wronged I am, others can be happy."

"What you said is too serious." Lu Chenyuan felt that something about Lin Yan was outrageously extreme.

It's such a small thing, no matter what the child thinks, how he does it well, it has to be so serious.

"Why not?" Lin Yan said in a low voice, "I've just done too many things that I don't like since I was a child."

Lu Chenyuan did not continue the discussion with Lin Yan, "As for going online like this?"

Lin Yan was furious. Originally they were just chatting normally, but the more they talked, the more they became angry.

Where does she have any clues?

"Let's stop talking and wait until he makes his own decision." Lu Chenyuan stubbed out his cigarette butts and put them in the ashtray. He held Lin Yan's shoulders and was very close to her, looking at her with lowered eyes.

Lu Chenyuan always ended the chat with these three words, not giving Lin Yan a chance to reason with him.

Lin Yan pushed Lu Chenyuan's hand away, "If you don't want to dance, you won't dance. I hope my son can live a free and spontaneous life, be happy and do whatever he wants."

Lu Chenyuan said calmly: "In this world, no one can do whatever they want, including me. Logically speaking, I have reached this position and I can't do it, let alone most people."

Lin Yan did not have high expectations for Xiao Ou. She only hoped that her child would be safe, healthy, and be happy forever.

There was a crack left in the bedroom door, and Xiao Ou, who had already changed into pajamas, stepped sideways in through the crack.

He was wearing a gray homecoat with an avocado pattern on it, which looked very cute.

"It's so late, why haven't you slept yet?"

Xiao Ou ran to the bed, pulled back the quilt and climbed onto the bed, resting his head on his arms and looking at the ceiling.

"I've thought about it, I'd better participate."

Lin Yan said, "If you don't like it, don't force it."

Xiao Ou sighed, "Oh, Daddy is right. If I don't participate and I am alone in the classroom and they all go to rehearse the show, I will be very lonely, and no one among the little girls will like me."

Lu Chenyuan raised his eyebrows, leaned over Lin Yan and whispered, "You are too nervous. There is no need to make the world of children so complicated. Don't think so far ahead. How can our son be able to please and cater to you when he grows up?" , you can’t hit me with a generalization, a trivial matter that is full of irritation.”

Lin Yan ignored Lu Chenyuan and was thinking in her mind. Since it was Xiao Ou's own decision, she had nothing to say.

"Go back to your room and sleep." Lu Chenyuan patted Xiao Ou's butt to drive him away.

Xiao Ou hugged daddy's pillow and held it in his arms, "I don't want it. I want to sleep with daddy and mommy."

Lu Chenyuan directly picked up Xiao Ou and put it on his shoulders, "You are old, you have to sleep in your own room."

Xiao Ou struggled like a loach fish, "Daddy is already very big, so why does he still sleep with mommy? Is daddy because he is afraid? Or mommy is afraid, but I am afraid too."

After Mrs. Huai was hospitalized, the little guy obviously lost his sense of security. Before, Mrs. Huai waited for him to fall asleep before leaving the bedroom.

Now that he is alone in the room, he will have dreams, in which monsters want to take him away.

Lin Yan held Xiao Ou's little hand and said, "Mommy, go protect you."