After the parent-child variety show became popular, the whole network recognized me as a mother
Chapter 381 Accepting Mediocrity
Chen Huifen felt that she had found someone who had the same thoughts as her, and she was also excited that this beautiful and rich woman in front of her could have the same thoughts as herself.
See, such a rich young man thinks the same as himself.
Jiang Sui curled his lips lightly, "You're right, all parents hope that their children can become a very good person. But it's not good to impose your own imagination on children too much."
Chen Huifen: "I don't quite understand what you mean."
Her eating movements also stopped in place, and she didn't quite understand.
Jiang Sui looked at Lu Xuanxuan in front of the ring and said slowly: "Even children are independent individuals. We can try our best to cultivate their excellence and make them a better person. But this kind of thing can't be forced. It's good that she can go that step happily, but if she doesn't, we as parents don't need to force it."
Chen Huifen shook her head, "You are wrong. If you don't force them, how can they work hard? If you don't exert pressure, how can they be better. Many children are like toothpaste, they only move when you squeeze it. If you don't squeeze it, they will It might just be that lazy."
Jiang Sui: "There is indeed such a situation as you said, but what if she really can't do it or is unwilling to do it?"
Chen Huifen was stunned for a moment, "Of course he was forced to do it, what if he doesn't want to do it?"
Jiang Sui smiled lightly, "But when you force her to do what you want her to do, to achieve the excellence you imagined, have you ever thought about it, as her mother, you may not necessarily achieve it. What is the imagination in her mind? Does she want a mother like you? Or is it a better and more perfect mother."
She looked at Chen Huifen.
Chen Huifen was startled for a moment by Jiang Sui's words.
And Jiang Sui's eyes and her breath at the moment also made Chen Huifen sink her heart and start to think seriously.
"No, she is my daughter, we are different. Parents want their daughter to be better than themselves." She retorted.
"What's the difference?" Jiang Sui asked back, "You are also your parents' daughter, you are all the same, children and parents should be equal."
Chen Huifen frowned, and her expression darkened.
"It's not like this..." She felt that there was no way to refute Jiang Sui's words, but she felt that it shouldn't be like this.
Jiang Sui continued to speak slowly: "I also hope that my child will be better than me. However, if he is not willing, or... there is still a long way to go before the deadline. I will not force him."
Her eloquent tone made Chen Huifen involuntarily listen to what she said carefully.
"I accept my child's mediocrity, just like he accepts my mediocrity. In this world, there are always parents who are better than us, and there are parents who children like more than us.
Since none of my children have high demands on me, why should I impose what I want on him? "
She continued to say unhurriedly: "After all, if my child encounters difficulties, the big reason may be that our family is because her parents are not as good as others. Since I can't help her With better protection, my children also accept this kind of me and this kind of parents. Then, why can’t I accept his mediocrity.”
See, such a rich young man thinks the same as himself.
Jiang Sui curled his lips lightly, "You're right, all parents hope that their children can become a very good person. But it's not good to impose your own imagination on children too much."
Chen Huifen: "I don't quite understand what you mean."
Her eating movements also stopped in place, and she didn't quite understand.
Jiang Sui looked at Lu Xuanxuan in front of the ring and said slowly: "Even children are independent individuals. We can try our best to cultivate their excellence and make them a better person. But this kind of thing can't be forced. It's good that she can go that step happily, but if she doesn't, we as parents don't need to force it."
Chen Huifen shook her head, "You are wrong. If you don't force them, how can they work hard? If you don't exert pressure, how can they be better. Many children are like toothpaste, they only move when you squeeze it. If you don't squeeze it, they will It might just be that lazy."
Jiang Sui: "There is indeed such a situation as you said, but what if she really can't do it or is unwilling to do it?"
Chen Huifen was stunned for a moment, "Of course he was forced to do it, what if he doesn't want to do it?"
Jiang Sui smiled lightly, "But when you force her to do what you want her to do, to achieve the excellence you imagined, have you ever thought about it, as her mother, you may not necessarily achieve it. What is the imagination in her mind? Does she want a mother like you? Or is it a better and more perfect mother."
She looked at Chen Huifen.
Chen Huifen was startled for a moment by Jiang Sui's words.
And Jiang Sui's eyes and her breath at the moment also made Chen Huifen sink her heart and start to think seriously.
"No, she is my daughter, we are different. Parents want their daughter to be better than themselves." She retorted.
"What's the difference?" Jiang Sui asked back, "You are also your parents' daughter, you are all the same, children and parents should be equal."
Chen Huifen frowned, and her expression darkened.
"It's not like this..." She felt that there was no way to refute Jiang Sui's words, but she felt that it shouldn't be like this.
Jiang Sui continued to speak slowly: "I also hope that my child will be better than me. However, if he is not willing, or... there is still a long way to go before the deadline. I will not force him."
Her eloquent tone made Chen Huifen involuntarily listen to what she said carefully.
"I accept my child's mediocrity, just like he accepts my mediocrity. In this world, there are always parents who are better than us, and there are parents who children like more than us.
Since none of my children have high demands on me, why should I impose what I want on him? "
She continued to say unhurriedly: "After all, if my child encounters difficulties, the big reason may be that our family is because her parents are not as good as others. Since I can't help her With better protection, my children also accept this kind of me and this kind of parents. Then, why can’t I accept his mediocrity.”
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