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Li Ruobing also knew that it was actually wrong for her to do this. She could not only consider herself and not consider Cao Feng's parents, that is, his father-in-law and mother-in-law. After getting married, his father-in-law and mother-in-law would definitely want to have grandchildren.

This is the expectation of every old man for his descendants.

The same goes for her parents. They also hope that Li Ruobing will have children sooner. They feel that her parents are not very old now and can help Cao Feng and Li Ruobing raise their children.

It's just a generation gap between the two generations. It's all for this family. Considering Li Ruobing's idea, it's not that it's completely wrong.

Because she wanted to do well in her career before having children, and their parents were not wrong either.

"You can just give birth to the baby, my mother said, and he will help take care of it."

"But, I'm really afraid that I will be stupid for three years after being pregnant."

"How is it possible? How can my wife, who is so smart, be stupid for three years after being pregnant?"

However, for Li Ruobing, this matter does not mean that he will be stupid for three years, and it has nothing to do with whether he is smart or not.

Because as a woman, she still knows this truth very well.

She saw this happen to many of her colleagues, so she never wanted to have a child so early.

He was afraid that he would be stupid for three years after getting pregnant, and he was also afraid that having a child would delay his career.

"This matter has nothing to do with being smart or not."

As a man, Cao Feng may not understand. He believes that the phrase "one pregnancy makes you stupid for three years" refers to the fact that a person is not very smart before giving birth to a child, which is why things like one pregnancy and three years of stupidity happen. .

"Really? I don't understand."

However, when Li Ruobing saw Cao Feng saying that her mother-in-law wanted them to have a child as soon as possible, she also felt that the feelings of the two elderly people should be considered.

This matter cannot be too selfish.

So I thought I could only talk about it then.

It depends on the situation. Everything is planned rather than planned.

So deciding on something prematurely may not necessarily be a good thing.

If two people really have children after getting married, in that case, it is impossible not to have children. Li Ruobing is still a relatively considerate person.

"Let's talk about this later. Of course I understand the feeling of being a parent."

When Cao Feng saw Li Ruobing say this, he felt a lot more confident.

Thinking.As long as Li Ruobing can understand the mood of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, there should be no big problem, and he should not be too shy about having children.

"It's okay, my wife, this matter is decided between the two of us. I think it's better for the two of us to discuss it."

"That's not possible. Why should we consider it for our parents?"

When he saw Li Ruobing say this tonight, he deliberately said this. He thought that his wife has a considerate side and needs others to care about her, so Cao Feng pretended to be considerate of Li Ruobing. .

At this time, Li Ruobing felt that it was not easy for Cao Feng's parents to bring Cao Feng to such a young age. Therefore, people should not only do things for themselves, but also for others.

"Oh, I think marriage is for two people. Two people can live happily as long as they want. They don't need to care too much about what others think."

"How is that possible? There will be a day when we grow old and a day when we need the respect of our children. We must consider the issue from the perspective of our parents. We can't be so selfish. It's just that I think it's still a little early to have children."

Li Ruobing believes that both of them are still young and need to continue to work hard to give their children a better life.

I really don’t want to live as a family of three too early.

I can't say that I have any misunderstandings about the life of a family of three. I'm just afraid that having children will delay my career.

"That's not okay. You can't think like that. My idea is that if I have a child, I will try to take as much time as possible to take care of the child."

"No, my parents said they would help take care of it, so just leave it to them."

However, Li Ruobing, who had never received father's or mother's love since childhood, felt that there was something wrong with Cao Feng's idea.

Because his parents were very busy at work and had no time to take care of her since he was a child. Therefore, Li Ruobing, who has lacked father's love and mother's love since she was a child, especially wants to get the care of her parents. She also doesn't want her children to be like her again, without parents. of care.

"I think it would be better for me to take care of my child after the child is born. However, if I really don't have time due to work, I should take more time to spend with my child."

In fact, what Li Ruobing said is really right. Children still need their parents' care.

Because parents' love cannot be given by others, and parents' love is the only love in the world that does not ask for anything in return.

"It's okay. Why are you still worried that my mother and father can't take care of you?"

"No, I don't have that idea. I just think that children need the care of their parents."

This makes Cao Feng, who grew up with his parents, still not understand. He doesn't understand what his wife is saying.

In his opinion, his grandparents would definitely not treat his grandson badly, because he had not grown up around others.

He grew up with his parents, who gave him enough security and care, so of course he couldn't understand Li Ruobing's mood at this moment.

"Ah, actually it's all the same. There are many children who grew up with their grandparents."

Cao Feng actually said these words so that his parents could have something to do when they retire, and also to reduce the burden on Li Ruobing.

He is always thinking about Li Ruobing, because he also knows that raising children is not an easy task, and he knows even more that Li Ruobing may not give up her career.

Since he still has to take care of the children without giving up his career, he feels that his wife will be too tired.

Therefore, if you want to bring your child to his parents, try to bring him to his parents as much as possible.

Cao Feng knew that his parents had retired and had nothing to do. He happened to take care of the children and pass the time.

In this case, Li Ruobing wouldn't be so tired.

"No, I don't think so, because I grew up with my grandparents. Maybe you really can't understand that feeling."

"Ah, what I think is that we will try our best to take care of the children when we have time. But when we don't have time, let the grandparents help take care of them."

In fact, Li Ruobing did not understand what Cao Feng said.

In her opinion, for some reason, Cao Feng insisted on letting his grandparents take care of the children.

She really didn't understand Cao Feng's actions and remarks.

But what Cao Feng said was really for Li Ruobing's sake, in order not to make his wife so tired.

But Li Ruobing knew that her husband would not harm her, because she also knew that no matter when, her husband would always consider this matter for her.

But I don't know why, but in this matter, Cao Feng was not on her side, which made Li Ruobing feel a little uncomfortable.