When the bad guy is reborn in 60s

Lin Qiuxia has always known that the current environment is very bad, especially for women. When they are born with a blank slate, they accept the ideas instilled in them by people around them. Many of them are to be humble to their younger brothers, or to regard their natal family as their responsibilities. Damn it, the family gave birth to them and then despised them. In the end, they were raised as subordinate slaves of the family, from which they could never get rid of for the rest of their lives.

She has always been glad that she came here and met a family that did not favor boys over girls. Her sister also went to junior high school, but later her sister was unwilling to go to school. Maybe being sensible was a big part of the reason, and the rest was that she really For those who are not good at reading, in addition to those who are not allowed to read at home, there are also many people who don’t like reading and can’t continue reading, so they give up.

Her sister was originally not good at studying. If she was born in a family with good economic conditions, she could finish junior high school step by step. However, the family itself was facing difficulties and she was not good at studying. Her family tried to persuade her several times. They all refused to go, and finally let it go. After all, most of the people who dropped out of junior high school in later generations were old and young. Now that the family is willing to support her, she feels it is already very rare.

So she has always been very satisfied with the current family atmosphere and family, but now her mother is teaching her sister how to be a wife. She feels like someone has hit her head hard with a mallet, and she is a little bit My thinking is unclear.

"Dani, everyone in the family knows that you are sensible, and mom can rest assured. I think your dad has seen it too, and your mother-in-law and father-in-law should be easy to get along with. But as the old saying goes, teeth and tongues have a time to fight, and today is the same. I just happened to meet you, and my mom will stop by to chat with you.

No matter what you say, your mother-in-law is still an elder. If there is a conflict in the future, you should not directly talk back. There is still reason to talk about other things. It is difficult for an upright official to handle household matters.Just saying "elder" will suppress you. Just after you passed the door, I thought that decent people would not do anything that is not shameful. If they have any trouble later, just bear with it. When you give birth to a child, you will truly belong to them. The people of the Li family will be tough no matter what they do when the time comes.

Your man is also a hard-working man. You should care for her more in the future. Emotions are born from virginity. Five fingers are still as long as each other. He has older brothers and sisters who are all married. You should pay more attention to him and spend more time with her. After a long time, he himself knows that he and you are the same family.

Besides, you are married to a person who is not familiar with the place. Everything in the future will mainly depend on your man. You are just like your mother. Your natal family is far away. From now on, you will point to your own man. If the two of you work together, the day will come. The better the better..."

Her mother is still imparting experience to her sister. None of these words can be recognized by Lin Qiuxia. At this moment, she just feels like her mind is buzzing. There is a kind of pain of having her own understanding overturned, and it is only on her own that she can understand the nature of reality. a feeling of.

Or maybe it's because her grandmother died when her father was young, so her mother never had to live under her mother-in-law when she got married, so she can use the experience of her predecessors to teach her daughter directly?

How is this different from the ancient times when you directly told your daughter that after she gets married, she should be virtuous, gentle, honest, filial to her parents-in-law, and take her husband as the guideline.

It is said that women can hold up half the sky. Women have been liberated. Can't you love her child who was born in ten months of pregnancy and raised with so much hard work?

Lin Qiuxia discovered that her mother Wu Xiulian did not favor boys over girls, but in her understanding of women, she still believed that women should put family first, be virtuous, hard-working and capable. This has been her understanding for decades, and it is estimated that it will be difficult to change , the environment after she was born was like this, and the education she received was like this, so in her cognition, this is the right thing to do, and there is no chance to change a person's mindset.

Thinking about this, Lin Qiuxia felt a little better. It wasn't her mother who did this on purpose, it was just what she learned. If she was born in a family with a good atmosphere and upright views in the 21st century, and received a good education, she believed that she Mothers can also have a positive and correct outlook on life.

Now she can only use the remaining time to think of ways to prevent her sister from being poisoned by such thoughts.She was glad that the other two boys in her family were boys, but looking back, thinking about whether her mother would think the same way about her daughter-in-law in the future, she felt that she had been lucky too early.

In the end, the injured were all girls. For the first time, Lin Qiuxia felt a deep sense of powerlessness. This was the pain of this era, and she had no ability to change it all. Even her sister might not be able to help.

What else did her mother say to her sister later? She was no longer interested in listening to it. After all, she couldn't interrupt her. They wouldn't listen to her ideas or approve of her. Her mother would just put her aside. He pressed her down on the stool and spanked her butt with a bamboo stick.

During dinner in the evening, Lin Qiuxia changed her usual image of a rice cook and ate the sweet potato porridge in a dull manner. She only took a few bites and placed them on the bowl of wild vegetables in front of her, without using chopsticks to pick up the rest.

"Third sister, what's wrong? Are you feeling uncomfortable somewhere? Are you eating so quietly today?"

People who are usually noisy will be discovered as soon as they calm down. The family thought Lin Qiuxia was not feeling well. Wu Xiulian quickly touched the little girl's forehead. Fortunately, she didn't have a fever.

Lin Xinrong was also concerned. The little girl was in trouble, so she felt uncomfortable again:

"Yes, Third Sister, what's wrong? You're listless. Are you feeling uncomfortable? Or if there's something else, please tell your family!"

Everyone else in the family also looked at Lin Qiuxia with concerned eyes, waiting for her answer.

Lin Qiuxia raised her head and didn't know what to say, so she could only find an excuse to block the house:

"It's okay. I'm just a little thirsty in the afternoon. I drank several bowls of boiled water and my stomach was bloated. Now I feel a little uncomfortable and can't eat. It's okay. I'll be fine after I urinate."

Lin Donghai looked at the third sister strangely. When did the third sister drink too much water? Why didn't he know? Now that the third sister can walk slowly, there is no problem. She still likes to instruct him to help her do anything. He was just about to speak. , and saw her sister’s ferocious eyes.

Although he didn't know what was going on, he understood the meaning, which was what her sister meant to tell him to shut up.Ahem, it's also possible that when he went to the fields to call his parents, he didn't know that her sister drank water. Yes, that's it.

Then Lin Donghai stared at Lin Qiuxia, then buried his head in eating obediently.

After hearing this, the other people in the family felt relieved and knew that there was nothing wrong with them:

"You are stupid. You are so old. You can hold yourself up even if you drink water. Remember to squat before going to bed. Don't be such an adult and wet the bed at night. Then the whole team of adults and children will laugh at you. .”

Wu Xiulian looked at her little girl and said speechlessly, "I don't know if I can finish elementary school. I don't know if I'm full even if I drink water. What will I do if I get married in the future? It's even more worrying."

Lin Qiuxia felt that her heart was filled with congestion, but she had no choice but to eat silently. It was not okay not to eat. People are like iron rice and steel. If you don't eat, you won't be hungry at night.

Unexpectedly, when her father opened his mouth, she became even more confused.I have the urge to yell, want to vent, want to argue with family members, want to question, want to cry...