"Brother Fang, my sister-in-law has given birth to two children before, is this the same?" Su Muchen asked.
Fang Bingkun waved his hand, "Although there were times when I was unreasonable with the two I was pregnant with, they didn't react as big as this one."
He took a sip of wine and continued: "Ah Shen, you are not married yet and don't have a wife. I don't know what this woman will be like after pregnancy. If there are changes, there will definitely be some differences. Your sister-in-law is pregnant this time. People have become very sensitive, and she can misinterpret even the slightest careless words into other meanings, and then she will cry in frustration!"
"Huh? Really?" Su Muchen was startled, feeling that it sounded familiar, "Brother Fang, is there a possibility that you really said something that you shouldn't have said?"
Fang Bingkun was very aggrieved, "Ah Shen, you don't know that once this woman is pregnant, she will be the queen of the family. Who dares to say something that shouldn't be said? You say, let's eat together, and I will pick up food for her and say "Eat more, and the child will be nutritious. Do you think I was wrong? But after hearing this, your sister-in-law threw the chopsticks away with an 'ouch' and scolded me!"
"Why are you scolding you?" Su Muchen asked in confusion, "You are right."
Fang Bingkun was so aggrieved that he almost cried, "She scolded me for farting, saying that I only have the child in my heart and not her. Don't you think this is unreasonable? Is it because I don't have her in my heart? She eats less and is not in good health. ?"
Su Muchen was glad in her heart that fortunately, it was her secretary who got her pregnant. Fortunately, she did not dare to curse at herself.
"You don't know, after you're pregnant, your heart becomes fragile, sensitive, and especially prone to crying." Fang Bingkun didn't notice Su Muchen's contemplation, and continued: "It's only been three months. In this way, how will I live my life in the future?"
"Brother Fang, is it abnormal to have such symptoms for three months?"
"It's not abnormal, it's just that everyone is different. I heard that some people become particularly irritable right after pregnancy, as if they were opening a blind box." Fang Bingkun smiled bitterly and shook his head, looking helpless.
Su Muchen thought about the little temper Gu Fanxing had with her when she came back just now. According to Brother Fang's words, her sensitive reaction should be caused by pregnancy.
He just said that Gu Fanxing would not make trouble with him unreasonably without knowing the right measures.
He thought for a moment and then asked: "Brother Fang, will my sister-in-law's symptoms disappear in the future?"
"Maybe, maybe not." Fang Bingkunsheng shook his head helplessly, then looked at him pitifully and said, "Everything depends on my brother's fate."
Su Muchen smiled and said, "Don't say that. My sister-in-law has made great contributions to this family. You should be more tolerant. At worst, you can just bear with her for ten months. She will be fine as soon as she is born."
"It'll be fine after birth?" Fang Bingkun smiled bitterly again, "You are still young. There will be more troubles after the child is born. Have you ever heard of postpartum depression? After my last two babies were born, your sister-in-law had a problem all day long. I am not suffering from postpartum depression because of my temper. On the contrary, I am tortured day by day. On the one hand, I take care of your sister-in-law’s emotions, and on the other, I have to participate in taking care of the baby so that the baby can feel the father’s love and mother’s love. Your sister-in-law is sitting here During the month of confinement, I was almost sick.”
Su Muchen didn't know what to say. He felt sympathy, pity, and admiration for this good brother.
Why is there so much trouble after the birth of a child?
"Come on, seeing that you are scared, I can't tell you any more. If you don't dare to have children in the future, I will be guilty of a big sin." Fang Bingkun picked up the wine glass, clinked it with him, and said jokingly.
He added supplementaryly: "However, listen to me, it's not without its benefits. Looking at the little one that your sister-in-law and I have carefully raised together, we still feel a sense of accomplishment."
It wasn't that Su Muchen was frightened, but that he really didn't expect these follow-up questions.It’s not that a pregnant woman will be fine after giving birth, nor is it that everything will be fine after just throwing the baby to the confinement nanny. He is the father of the child and should be involved in taking care of the child. Even simply learning to change diapers is good, right?
At this moment, he was a little worried about Gu Fanxing.After giving birth to the child, she can get 2000 million, but can this 2000 million repair a wounded heart?Can it soothe a heart that misses a child?
Brother Fang just said that he would participate in taking care of the baby so that the baby can feel the love of his father and his mother.He thinks this is right. Parents take care of their children, creating mutual dependence in love and creating a stronger family affection.
But if Gu Fanxing leaves, where can Xiao Long Bao make up for the maternal love he cannot feel?Where is the nanny?Or grandma's place?Nowhere can it be as pure as the love she gives as a mother!
He thought that he had done something wrong. He wanted the best for Xiao Long Bao after he was born, but he ignored the most essential maternal love, which was the best for Xiao Long Bao.
"It's not easy to raise a child, and your family has three." He said quietly.
Fang Bingkun said nonchalantly: "It's not easy, but I have to thank your sister-in-law more. It's not easy for her. It's no exaggeration for a woman to give birth to a child, it's like going to hell. The eldest and second child in our family are both It was a natural delivery. Your sister-in-law was in pain at the time. She held my fingers and almost broke them. The third child in the back had a caesarean section because of her age. She had to get out of bed and go for a walk the day after giving birth. Your sister-in-law was very good at it. Holding the wound, I moved forward with my waist bent, and cursed me. After that, it was breastfeeding. No matter how late it was, when the baby cried, I had to get up, and I woke up six or seven times a night. It happens every time.”
As Fang Bingkun was talking, he stopped talking, looked at Su Muchen with red eyes, sighed "Hey", then covered his eyes with his hands, and said with a choked voice: "I'm so inhuman, I'm trying my best to save my life." You’ve given me three children, so what if you lose your temper? Why do I have the right to be so unhappy? I’m not a human being!”
After scolding himself, he wiped his face and said seriously to Su Muchen: "I have to go back to coax your sister-in-law. Thank you, Chen. If I don't talk to you like this, I haven't realized it yet! Let's go. Now, when the child is one month old, come over and support him."
Su Muchen watched him leave quickly, feeling filled with emotion. Just after listening to Brother Fang's ramble, he imagined Gu Fanxing's pain during childbirth, and his heart tugged at him.
Spending time with her day and night naturally gave rise to some feelings, he knew that.He is not a heartless person. When the two of them did ridiculous things, he was also at fault, and there was no reason to treat her like that.
Since he doesn't hate her and he has no requirements for his wife, Secretary Gu is a good choice. At the very least, everyone in the family likes her.Moreover, she is Xiao Long Bao's biological mother. Although her status is not as good as that of the Su family, her biological mother's identity is unshakable!
At this moment, he changed his previous mind and chose to spend his life with Gu Fanxing.
Fang Bingkun waved his hand, "Although there were times when I was unreasonable with the two I was pregnant with, they didn't react as big as this one."
He took a sip of wine and continued: "Ah Shen, you are not married yet and don't have a wife. I don't know what this woman will be like after pregnancy. If there are changes, there will definitely be some differences. Your sister-in-law is pregnant this time. People have become very sensitive, and she can misinterpret even the slightest careless words into other meanings, and then she will cry in frustration!"
"Huh? Really?" Su Muchen was startled, feeling that it sounded familiar, "Brother Fang, is there a possibility that you really said something that you shouldn't have said?"
Fang Bingkun was very aggrieved, "Ah Shen, you don't know that once this woman is pregnant, she will be the queen of the family. Who dares to say something that shouldn't be said? You say, let's eat together, and I will pick up food for her and say "Eat more, and the child will be nutritious. Do you think I was wrong? But after hearing this, your sister-in-law threw the chopsticks away with an 'ouch' and scolded me!"
"Why are you scolding you?" Su Muchen asked in confusion, "You are right."
Fang Bingkun was so aggrieved that he almost cried, "She scolded me for farting, saying that I only have the child in my heart and not her. Don't you think this is unreasonable? Is it because I don't have her in my heart? She eats less and is not in good health. ?"
Su Muchen was glad in her heart that fortunately, it was her secretary who got her pregnant. Fortunately, she did not dare to curse at herself.
"You don't know, after you're pregnant, your heart becomes fragile, sensitive, and especially prone to crying." Fang Bingkun didn't notice Su Muchen's contemplation, and continued: "It's only been three months. In this way, how will I live my life in the future?"
"Brother Fang, is it abnormal to have such symptoms for three months?"
"It's not abnormal, it's just that everyone is different. I heard that some people become particularly irritable right after pregnancy, as if they were opening a blind box." Fang Bingkun smiled bitterly and shook his head, looking helpless.
Su Muchen thought about the little temper Gu Fanxing had with her when she came back just now. According to Brother Fang's words, her sensitive reaction should be caused by pregnancy.
He just said that Gu Fanxing would not make trouble with him unreasonably without knowing the right measures.
He thought for a moment and then asked: "Brother Fang, will my sister-in-law's symptoms disappear in the future?"
"Maybe, maybe not." Fang Bingkunsheng shook his head helplessly, then looked at him pitifully and said, "Everything depends on my brother's fate."
Su Muchen smiled and said, "Don't say that. My sister-in-law has made great contributions to this family. You should be more tolerant. At worst, you can just bear with her for ten months. She will be fine as soon as she is born."
"It'll be fine after birth?" Fang Bingkun smiled bitterly again, "You are still young. There will be more troubles after the child is born. Have you ever heard of postpartum depression? After my last two babies were born, your sister-in-law had a problem all day long. I am not suffering from postpartum depression because of my temper. On the contrary, I am tortured day by day. On the one hand, I take care of your sister-in-law’s emotions, and on the other, I have to participate in taking care of the baby so that the baby can feel the father’s love and mother’s love. Your sister-in-law is sitting here During the month of confinement, I was almost sick.”
Su Muchen didn't know what to say. He felt sympathy, pity, and admiration for this good brother.
Why is there so much trouble after the birth of a child?
"Come on, seeing that you are scared, I can't tell you any more. If you don't dare to have children in the future, I will be guilty of a big sin." Fang Bingkun picked up the wine glass, clinked it with him, and said jokingly.
He added supplementaryly: "However, listen to me, it's not without its benefits. Looking at the little one that your sister-in-law and I have carefully raised together, we still feel a sense of accomplishment."
It wasn't that Su Muchen was frightened, but that he really didn't expect these follow-up questions.It’s not that a pregnant woman will be fine after giving birth, nor is it that everything will be fine after just throwing the baby to the confinement nanny. He is the father of the child and should be involved in taking care of the child. Even simply learning to change diapers is good, right?
At this moment, he was a little worried about Gu Fanxing.After giving birth to the child, she can get 2000 million, but can this 2000 million repair a wounded heart?Can it soothe a heart that misses a child?
Brother Fang just said that he would participate in taking care of the baby so that the baby can feel the love of his father and his mother.He thinks this is right. Parents take care of their children, creating mutual dependence in love and creating a stronger family affection.
But if Gu Fanxing leaves, where can Xiao Long Bao make up for the maternal love he cannot feel?Where is the nanny?Or grandma's place?Nowhere can it be as pure as the love she gives as a mother!
He thought that he had done something wrong. He wanted the best for Xiao Long Bao after he was born, but he ignored the most essential maternal love, which was the best for Xiao Long Bao.
"It's not easy to raise a child, and your family has three." He said quietly.
Fang Bingkun said nonchalantly: "It's not easy, but I have to thank your sister-in-law more. It's not easy for her. It's no exaggeration for a woman to give birth to a child, it's like going to hell. The eldest and second child in our family are both It was a natural delivery. Your sister-in-law was in pain at the time. She held my fingers and almost broke them. The third child in the back had a caesarean section because of her age. She had to get out of bed and go for a walk the day after giving birth. Your sister-in-law was very good at it. Holding the wound, I moved forward with my waist bent, and cursed me. After that, it was breastfeeding. No matter how late it was, when the baby cried, I had to get up, and I woke up six or seven times a night. It happens every time.”
As Fang Bingkun was talking, he stopped talking, looked at Su Muchen with red eyes, sighed "Hey", then covered his eyes with his hands, and said with a choked voice: "I'm so inhuman, I'm trying my best to save my life." You’ve given me three children, so what if you lose your temper? Why do I have the right to be so unhappy? I’m not a human being!”
After scolding himself, he wiped his face and said seriously to Su Muchen: "I have to go back to coax your sister-in-law. Thank you, Chen. If I don't talk to you like this, I haven't realized it yet! Let's go. Now, when the child is one month old, come over and support him."
Su Muchen watched him leave quickly, feeling filled with emotion. Just after listening to Brother Fang's ramble, he imagined Gu Fanxing's pain during childbirth, and his heart tugged at him.
Spending time with her day and night naturally gave rise to some feelings, he knew that.He is not a heartless person. When the two of them did ridiculous things, he was also at fault, and there was no reason to treat her like that.
Since he doesn't hate her and he has no requirements for his wife, Secretary Gu is a good choice. At the very least, everyone in the family likes her.Moreover, she is Xiao Long Bao's biological mother. Although her status is not as good as that of the Su family, her biological mother's identity is unshakable!
At this moment, he changed his previous mind and chose to spend his life with Gu Fanxing.
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