A max-level boss is reborn and just wants to slap the face and abuse the scum.

Thinking of the good things He Wanwan had done, Li Sicheng became furious.

A person will meet many people in his life. Some people will make you feel warm and powerful when you get close to them. Others will make you restless and even make you feel powerless as long as you get close to them.

People need nourishment just like plants need nutrients.

In life, the closer you are to the people who nourish you, the more you will have success and your life will have meaning.

It feels comfortable to get along with people who speak warmly.

Have you ever felt this way in your life?

Sometimes you receive a phone call and the other person says a few words, which makes you feel like a basin of cold water has been poured from head to toe. When you hang up the phone, your mood cannot calm down for a long time;

Sometimes you send a few WeChat messages, and the other party only replies with a few words, which can make your inner unhappiness disappear instantly, and a warm current surges into your heart.

We all want to be close to the "person who replies to WeChat" and stay away from the "person who calls."

There is an old saying: "One word can harm the harmony of heaven and earth, and one thing can ruin a lifetime's happiness."

A good tone is a person's inner accomplishment and can also leave a good impression on others.

This reminds people of Dong Qing's rescue scene which was on the hot search.

It was when she was hosting the "Poetry Conference" that a farmer uncle came to compete. It was the first time that the uncle stood on such a big stage. He was very nervous and looked awkward.

She said gently:

"Because that poem, like a bit of green in the desert, always brings him some hope and some desire. He uses limited water to water it, slowly breaks the ground, and grows again, until today.

So even if you get the answer wrong, it is the most beautiful mistake in this scene. "

A few short words relieved the uncle's nervousness and relieved him of a heavy psychological burden.

In life, people who speak warmly always have a warmth in their words. Being with them is like a spring breeze, and bad moods disappear instantly.

Moreover, people with warm words are humble, know how to put others at ease, and always have the right amount of warmth and kindness in their words.

When you are with such a person, he will give you warmth and strength, and you will also be affected, giving each other a comfortable response, warming each other, and healing each other.

Walk with people who are emotionally stable, and you will be happy

In recent years, due to the impact of the general environment, many people's rhythm of life has been disrupted, making them unable to sleep and eat well, and feeling restless.

Think about whether there is someone like this around you:

Whether it’s work or housework, if something doesn’t go your way, you’ll start cursing;

My mood is inexplicably irritable. One moment I was fine, but the next moment I started complaining and blaming;

It was originally a trivial matter, but I had to make use of it, which made the chickens and dogs restless...

Mr. Lin Yutang once said:

"A person without unnecessary emotions and delusions will give people a sense of security, because he does not hurt others or himself. To a certain extent, this is a kind of discipline."

The older you get, the more you like to get along with emotionally stable people, because they can take into account the feelings of others and maintain the dignity of others at any time.

In life, a person who knows how to regulate his emotions and can provide emotional value to others must have a smooth life.

Yueyue is a famous soprano singer, but living with a career-focused scientist like Sen is destined to not get much company.

On their first day in the United States, Sen had to rush to work after breakfast.

Every time after dinner, Xuesen made a cup of tea and went back to his cabin to read, completely ignoring his wife's loneliness.

However, Ying did not lose control of her emotions because of this. On the contrary, when Xuesen encountered bottlenecks in his research, she would play the piano and sing for him, teach him music knowledge, and help him change his mind.

Xuesen is also very grateful for this: "It is precisely because I have been influenced by these arts that I can avoid being stubborn and mechanical materialism, and think about issues more broadly and lively."

A person with stable emotions has a kind of strength in him, exudes a magnetic field all over his body, and brings a sense of security and relaxation to those around him;

On the contrary, people who are overjoyed and often get angry will make people around them fearful and live cautiously.

A good mood can make you happy and also infect those around you.

When you are with someone who is emotionally stable, your mood will become increasingly peaceful; when you are with a moody person, your mood will become unstable.

Walk with people who are emotionally stable, feel at ease, and be able to solve unexpected problems in life without haste.

Associate with people with a good mentality and nourish your heart

One time when I took a taxi, the driver placed flowers and some small decorative items in the car. The driver was smiling the whole time.

At that time, there were very few people taking taxis, the entire market was sluggish, and most drivers looked sad.

Yu Qianyue was very curious, and the driver said: "If you have a positive and optimistic attitude, you will have good luck. Just like the last customer just got off the bus, I picked you up and you have business immediately."

This reminds me of a saying: People with a positive attitude always see hope; people with a negative attitude always see crisis.

There is a saying in "Cai Gen Tan": "Everyone takes pleasure in good times, but a gentleman takes pleasure in adversity."

Working with positive and optimistic people is like walking with light, and your heart will be illuminated.

She works in a state-owned enterprise, and there is a female colleague beside her who is very negative. She either gossips about people in the unit, complains about her husband and children, and occasionally scolds the leader.

She is a sensitive and introverted person. Under the influence of her colleague, she gradually learned to push the envelope, be lazy, and just get by.

Until a new young man came to the office.

He is full of energy and is very positive in everything he does.

One time, the department received a promotion task, and she and Ah Hui went on a business trip to contact partners and decorate the booth.

When she got off the train, it was raining in the city where she was on a business trip. She blurted out that she was really unlucky.

Ah Hui said with a smile that spring in the north is dry and it rains, and the air is fresh and moist, which is good for the skin.

In the following week, they set up booths at the venue every day, and their backs and legs ached from exhaustion.

She couldn't help complaining: The leaders gave us all the dirty work and were clearly bullying the young people.

Ah Hui said, I think it's pretty good. I've learned a lot these days. If something like this happens again in the future, we'll have experience...

Then, he began to tell her his dream, his eyes shining.

Later, they completed the task brilliantly and were praised by the leadership conference for the first time.

She said that the business trip was the most tiring and happiest time she had worked in several years.

It turns out that being with positive people really nourishes you.

Yu Qianyue said:

The best relationship is one where people can nourish each other. In this way, these very important relationships can accompany you for a long time.

In life, some people are living in quagmire, but they can still live life in a colorful way; some people are full of flowers, but still feel that life is boring.

People with a positive attitude do not complain when things go wrong, do not get angry when encountering setbacks, and do not feel humble when they are in a low position. Even if their hearts are turbulent, they can appear calm and calm on the outside.

When you are with such people, you will become optimistic and open-minded; when you associate with such people, your will will become strong, you will be calm and calm when faced with problems, and you will live elegantly and transparently.

Confucius said: "Living with good people is like entering a house of orchids. If you don't smell the fragrance for a long time, you will be transformed into them. Living with bad people is like entering a house with abalone. If you don't smell the smell for a long time, you will be transformed into them." .”

Interacting with different people will give us different feelings and bring us different changes.

Get along with people who speak warm words and you will be in a good mood every day;

Walking with people who are emotionally stable will give you a sense of relaxation in life;

When you associate with people with a good attitude, you will become positive and optimistic.

Being nourished by others is the greatest happiness; nourishing others is the highest cultivation.