Reborn in that autumn

"The other thing is that when he grew up, he played like buddies with the girls in school. When he saw her holding hands with another boy, he ignored her again. This is what your mother secretly told me. "Father-in-law Wang Hongyu said.

Wang Hongyu looked sad when he mentioned his daughter-in-law.

Ye Junsheng said: "Leave the matter to me. I will go to the town to investigate tomorrow. I have friends and two cousins ​​there. I am still worried about not being able to find out anything about that woman."

Wang Hongyu patted the third son-in-law on the shoulder and said, "I'll leave this to you."

"By the way, when will you go back? The child still has to go to school?"

Ye Junsheng said: "There's no rush. I want to wait for my mother to complete her grave in three days. Otherwise, when I get home, Xiuyan will know that I'm the one to blame. After all, she didn't come back."

"Besides, the first-grade classwork is not tight now. I can just go back and find someone to make up for it. Besides, we still have Ye Qiu at home. She has already studied the third-grade courses by herself."

Wang Hongyu asked: "Ye Qiu, that granddaughter of mine?"

"Is she so powerful now? Ye Ran also praised her last night."

Ye Junsheng also started to show off his girls to his father-in-law.

While chatting, the two returned home. On the way, Wang Hongyu said to Ye Junsheng, "Wait until I finish burning Qiqi for your mother before I go there. You should hide it from Xiuyan first."

Generally, there is a custom after a person dies, which is called memorial ceremony.There are sayings for offering sacrifices: one seven, three seven, five seven, and seven seven.

That is, after a person dies, there is a seven-day sacrifice every seven days. The first seven-day sacrifice is called the "first seven". By analogy, the 7th day is the "two sevens", the 14st day is the "three sevens", and the 21th day is the "three sevens". It is the "four periods", the 28th day is the "five or seven", the 35nd day is the "six or seven", and the 42th day is the "last seven" which is the seven or seven.

Seven days after a person's death, his soul will return to his home, so his family should prepare a delicious meal for him beforehand, and then go back to the house to sleep. Do not let the soul see his family, in case the deceased misses his family and is late. His unwillingness to leave this world will affect his reincarnation.

There is also a folk saying of "passing the seven disasters", which means that the king of hell will interrogate the souls of the dead every seven days within seven periods.During this period, family members of the deceased should hang white lanterns at the door of their homes to show their filial piety.During the first sacrificial period, a memorial tablet should be set up for the deceased, incense should be burned, and wine should be offered to worship. After that, paper should be burned in front of the tombstone to express condolences.

We usually hold more grand ceremonies on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Relatives and friends will come, and our children will also cry to express filial piety. On Double Seventh, relatives and friends do not need to come, and you only need to burn paper to express your longing for your loved ones. Therefore, We also refer to double periods as "empty periods".Among these seven-seven periods, the "three periods" and "seven periods" are particularly important. During these two periods, relatives and friends at home will come to the home to pay homage to the grave. In addition to being called the "final period", the "seven periods" are also called the "expiration period". The reason why they are called this is because family members, relatives and friends will chant sutras, and will also send ghost coins, incense watches, gold and silver buckets, etc. as memorials.

Wang Hongyu said: "I want to be at home. I don't want your mother's spirit body to feel that no one is waiting for her at home every time she comes back to visit. After Qiqi is finished, I can spend more time with Xiuyan. Don't bother me then." "Don't leave"

Ye Junsheng replied: "Then I can't dislike it, what do I want? You are going to go and I will have a lot of free labor to look after the children? Those three little guys are enough for you, and I don't have to pay you a salary. .”

"You brat, you still want to take advantage of me, an old man." Wang Hongyu said.

"I don't dare." Ye Junsheng shook his head.

"Dad, I will leave my son to you tomorrow. That boy is enough for you to do alone. Thank you for your hard work." Ye Junsheng said.

"Tch, it's hard to take care of him when he has your brother-in-law," Wang Hongyu said unconvinced.

Ye Junsheng said: "They say that my nephew is like my uncle, but he is much older than his uncle."

"That's easy to handle. If he teases me, he will have a reason to beat his uncle. Didn't you say that my nephew looks like my uncle? He will suffer a hopeless disaster." Wang Hongyu said.

Ye Junsheng mentally mourned for his brother-in-law for three minutes. He was really sorry.

While talking, the two returned home. After dinner in the evening, Ye Ran and his grandfather fell asleep holding each other in their arms.

The next morning, Ye Junsheng packed up and went to town, taking Liu Li with him of course.

After all, Liu Li was familiar with the schools and people they had stayed in. When they arrived in the town, Ye Junsheng went to find his cousin Liang Yi and then his friends, so that he could investigate from two aspects, the campus and the society.

The movement was very fast, and the two materials in the afternoon were placed in front of Ye Junsheng and Liu Li almost one after another.

Liu Li had a look of admiration on his face, and Ye Junsheng gave the two people doing the work money and neither of them asked for it. Ye Junsheng said that he must accept the gift I brought.

After that, I took out the small ginseng that the girl had given me before from the car. It was well packaged, with five ginseng in each one, as if it had just been unearthed.

The two of them were excited when they saw it, thinking that this thing would be good for brewing wine. They also knew that Ye Junsheng didn't want to owe a favor, so they accepted it.

They were right. Ye Junsheng really didn't want to owe favors. As the saying goes, debts are easy to repay, but favors are hard to repay. It's not like he would bring trouble to his daughter Ye Qiu's future life.

After all, the daughter married into a big family in Kyoto.

On their way back, Liu Li and Ye Junsheng looked at Ye Junsheng with envy and said to Ye Junsheng: "Third brother-in-law, you are so amazing. In just half a day, you checked so many things about that woman Sun Yuexiang."

"Now, it's time for Jidong to give up on her."

Ye Junsheng drove the car and replied, "I don't know. Let's go and see! Who knows the feelings of people? It depends on man-made things. Anyway, we stopped it."

At this time, Liu Li remembered what his wife Baozhu said last night and said to Ye Junsheng: "Third brother-in-law, if you can't go to the county to buy things tomorrow! My wife said that it seems that the son of a forestry bureau leader in the county is also chasing Sun Yuexiang. , they happen to go to the market tomorrow, these are what Sun Yuexiang and her mother preached."

Ye Junsheng replied: "That's okay, I just want to buy something for my mother-in-law to use for Panax notoginseng and let him see it with his own eyes!"

"Seeing nothing with your own eyes can make you give up quickly. You will act accordingly tomorrow."

Ye Junsheng asked: "By the way, Liu Li, do you want to work with me in the city next spring? I just lack talents like you."

"Third brother-in-law, what can a person like me do?" Liu Li asked.

"I will make my own arrangements then, just tell me whether you will come or not," Ye Junsheng asked.

"Then I will go home and ask my wife and parents about it next year," Liu Li replied.

Ye Junsheng said: "Okay, ask! He also said that your wife can come too. It just so happens that your third sister is short of manpower. Don't worry, your monthly salary will not be in vain."

Liu Li still replied: "Let's go home and discuss it! Respect your wife and respect your parents."

Ye Junsheng was even more satisfied. What he admired most was the man of the Gu family, who was honest and upright.

When the car arrived at home, Liu Li left first, and Ye Junsheng told his father-in-law that the matter was done.