The ex-wife of a period novel villain who died young is reborn
Chapter 484 There is no right or wrong in preferences
Wen Yue opened her mouth and her face became more serious, but she still asked a little doubtfully: "Can this cultivate a child's character of low self-esteem? Can't it?"
Although she asked this question, she began to think slowly in her heart. Wen Yue never took the child's emotions seriously, but what Zhou Yu said made her have to think about Jiejie's reaction after hearing her words.
"Yes." Zhou Yu held Wen Yue's hand, "You are the person Jie Jie cares about most. After Jie Jie's grandparents moved away, you are the only person Jie Jie can express his favorite feelings to. You want to Pay attention to your children's feelings. It doesn't feel good to be denied by the people you are closest to. We are all people who have been through this. Haven't you been confused for a while?"
Zhou Yu's words made Wen Yue's heart tighten.
She thought of her ex-husband Robin.
When she had just given birth, she was told by him that she was worthless. Her ex-husband was the closest person to her at that time. Of course she believed his words to be true. She suffered from constant anxiety and low self-esteem every day, and even fell into deep depression. She almost fell into despair, and even I came up with the idea of taking my children with me to die.
Wen Yue suddenly felt fear.
But she still said in a negative tone: "But shouldn't boys be corrected if they like pink? Boys should be more masculine and shouldn't like these things that girls like all day long."
After hearing this, Zhou Yu patted Wen Yue's hand and said angrily: "Are there right and wrong preferences? It's not illegal to like pink, so why should we correct it? This is the nature of children, you can't just do it Without it, who stipulates what girls should do and what boys should do? Have all men in the world done what they should do?"
After she asked this question, she answered by herself: "Since there is no such thing, why should I say something about a child's preferences?"
Wen Yue was speechless.
Because what Zhou Yu said was right, she really had nothing to refute.
Zhou Yu saw Wen Yue's expression relax and knew that what she said had an effect. She lowered her voice and comforted Wen Yue: "And what a child likes changes every day. Yue Yue said before that she likes to eat pork ribs the most. Now that you like chicken wings the most, why do you really need to take it seriously and argue with a three-year-old child?"
Wen Yue was completely convinced. She looked at Zhou Yu with a smile and said, "Okay, I can't talk to you. You really can talk. But, it's also because what you said makes sense. I really shouldn't talk to Jiejie." He's just a kid to be so harsh."
Zhou Yu felt relieved, well, this time she successfully fulfilled the little guy's request.
She glanced at her watch and prepared to leave, "I have something to do later, so I'll go over there first. I'll have a good time with you next time."
Wen Yue knew that Zhou Yu was a busy person and had no intention of staying. She just laughed and said, "You came here just to talk to me about this, right? What? Did Yue Yue tell you?"
Zhou Yu admitted generously, "Yes, Yueyue doesn't want Jiejie to be unhappy. The relationship between the two of them is very good, and they are still worried about this matter at night!"
Wen Yue laughed loudly after hearing this, "Okay, that's really wronging the little girl. Next time I have to thank Jiejie properly. Thank you Yueyue 1"
Zhou Yu nodded thoughtfully, "Then I'll go back and tell her that you can't break your promise!"
Wen Yue said "tsk" in embarrassment, "How could I! You're so annoying!"
Zhou Yu smiled, got up and went to Jiejie's room to call Yueyue. Yueyue said she wanted to play for a while, and Zhou Yu told Yueyue that she would be back when she had dinner.
Yueyue nodded, then asked with her eyes wide open: "Mom, did you tell me what I asked you to do?"
After hearing this, Jiejie also looked at Zhou Yu expectantly.
Zhou Yu looked at the two pairs of big, dazzling eyes and couldn't help but smile, "I told you, Jiejie's mother said she knew, don't worry."
Yueyue happily wanted to high-five Jiejie, "Yeah! I told you that my mother would never break her promise!"
Jiejie shyly clapped his hand up, "Yes, thank you."
Then he smiled sweetly at Zhou Yu and said, "Aunt Zhou, thank you too!"
He also said sweetly: "Auntie, the puffs are delicious!"
Zhou Yu was very happy when she heard this. She touched the heads of the two little guys and left.
Wen Yue sent Zhou Yu out before hesitatingly entering Jiejie's room. As soon as she entered, the two little ones immediately stopped talking, both expecting and worrying.
Wen Yue also couldn't laugh or cry. She also realized in her heart that an adult's words may not seem important to her, but to a child, an adult's words are very important. Some words are said casually, but fall into the child's heart. It can make people sad for days.
She knelt down and looked at Jiejie and Yueyue, and asked gently: "Would you two like to accompany me to the mall? I'll treat you to KFC!"
Yueyue smiled and agreed readily: "Okay! But auntie, I want to go back and talk to my mother!"
Jiejie remembered what happened yesterday, and he felt awkward again. He pouted and said, "No."
But Wen Yue looked into Jiejie's eyes and asked seriously: "Do you really not want it? Didn't someone say that he likes pink shirts? I'm going to take him over to change them!"
Jiejie looked up instantly, "Really, Mom!"
No matter how precocious he is, he is still just a child over three years old. When Jiejie heard her mother say this, she quickly forgot about the quarrels she was still having.
Wen Yue smiled and said: "Of course, keep your word!"
Jiejie threw herself into Wen Yue's arms, "Mom, you are so kind."
Wenyue put her arms around Jiejie's small shoulders and suddenly felt a lot of emotions in her heart.
If Luo Bin had given her a hand like this at that time, how could she have given up on herself?
Wen Yue became even more determined that she could not hit her child like her ex-husband hit her.
Yueyue looked at the scene between mother and son and smiled happily, feeling a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction in her small chest.
This is the first time that she has really helped a friend through her own efforts!
Although she asked this question, she began to think slowly in her heart. Wen Yue never took the child's emotions seriously, but what Zhou Yu said made her have to think about Jiejie's reaction after hearing her words.
"Yes." Zhou Yu held Wen Yue's hand, "You are the person Jie Jie cares about most. After Jie Jie's grandparents moved away, you are the only person Jie Jie can express his favorite feelings to. You want to Pay attention to your children's feelings. It doesn't feel good to be denied by the people you are closest to. We are all people who have been through this. Haven't you been confused for a while?"
Zhou Yu's words made Wen Yue's heart tighten.
She thought of her ex-husband Robin.
When she had just given birth, she was told by him that she was worthless. Her ex-husband was the closest person to her at that time. Of course she believed his words to be true. She suffered from constant anxiety and low self-esteem every day, and even fell into deep depression. She almost fell into despair, and even I came up with the idea of taking my children with me to die.
Wen Yue suddenly felt fear.
But she still said in a negative tone: "But shouldn't boys be corrected if they like pink? Boys should be more masculine and shouldn't like these things that girls like all day long."
After hearing this, Zhou Yu patted Wen Yue's hand and said angrily: "Are there right and wrong preferences? It's not illegal to like pink, so why should we correct it? This is the nature of children, you can't just do it Without it, who stipulates what girls should do and what boys should do? Have all men in the world done what they should do?"
After she asked this question, she answered by herself: "Since there is no such thing, why should I say something about a child's preferences?"
Wen Yue was speechless.
Because what Zhou Yu said was right, she really had nothing to refute.
Zhou Yu saw Wen Yue's expression relax and knew that what she said had an effect. She lowered her voice and comforted Wen Yue: "And what a child likes changes every day. Yue Yue said before that she likes to eat pork ribs the most. Now that you like chicken wings the most, why do you really need to take it seriously and argue with a three-year-old child?"
Wen Yue was completely convinced. She looked at Zhou Yu with a smile and said, "Okay, I can't talk to you. You really can talk. But, it's also because what you said makes sense. I really shouldn't talk to Jiejie." He's just a kid to be so harsh."
Zhou Yu felt relieved, well, this time she successfully fulfilled the little guy's request.
She glanced at her watch and prepared to leave, "I have something to do later, so I'll go over there first. I'll have a good time with you next time."
Wen Yue knew that Zhou Yu was a busy person and had no intention of staying. She just laughed and said, "You came here just to talk to me about this, right? What? Did Yue Yue tell you?"
Zhou Yu admitted generously, "Yes, Yueyue doesn't want Jiejie to be unhappy. The relationship between the two of them is very good, and they are still worried about this matter at night!"
Wen Yue laughed loudly after hearing this, "Okay, that's really wronging the little girl. Next time I have to thank Jiejie properly. Thank you Yueyue 1"
Zhou Yu nodded thoughtfully, "Then I'll go back and tell her that you can't break your promise!"
Wen Yue said "tsk" in embarrassment, "How could I! You're so annoying!"
Zhou Yu smiled, got up and went to Jiejie's room to call Yueyue. Yueyue said she wanted to play for a while, and Zhou Yu told Yueyue that she would be back when she had dinner.
Yueyue nodded, then asked with her eyes wide open: "Mom, did you tell me what I asked you to do?"
After hearing this, Jiejie also looked at Zhou Yu expectantly.
Zhou Yu looked at the two pairs of big, dazzling eyes and couldn't help but smile, "I told you, Jiejie's mother said she knew, don't worry."
Yueyue happily wanted to high-five Jiejie, "Yeah! I told you that my mother would never break her promise!"
Jiejie shyly clapped his hand up, "Yes, thank you."
Then he smiled sweetly at Zhou Yu and said, "Aunt Zhou, thank you too!"
He also said sweetly: "Auntie, the puffs are delicious!"
Zhou Yu was very happy when she heard this. She touched the heads of the two little guys and left.
Wen Yue sent Zhou Yu out before hesitatingly entering Jiejie's room. As soon as she entered, the two little ones immediately stopped talking, both expecting and worrying.
Wen Yue also couldn't laugh or cry. She also realized in her heart that an adult's words may not seem important to her, but to a child, an adult's words are very important. Some words are said casually, but fall into the child's heart. It can make people sad for days.
She knelt down and looked at Jiejie and Yueyue, and asked gently: "Would you two like to accompany me to the mall? I'll treat you to KFC!"
Yueyue smiled and agreed readily: "Okay! But auntie, I want to go back and talk to my mother!"
Jiejie remembered what happened yesterday, and he felt awkward again. He pouted and said, "No."
But Wen Yue looked into Jiejie's eyes and asked seriously: "Do you really not want it? Didn't someone say that he likes pink shirts? I'm going to take him over to change them!"
Jiejie looked up instantly, "Really, Mom!"
No matter how precocious he is, he is still just a child over three years old. When Jiejie heard her mother say this, she quickly forgot about the quarrels she was still having.
Wen Yue smiled and said: "Of course, keep your word!"
Jiejie threw herself into Wen Yue's arms, "Mom, you are so kind."
Wenyue put her arms around Jiejie's small shoulders and suddenly felt a lot of emotions in her heart.
If Luo Bin had given her a hand like this at that time, how could she have given up on herself?
Wen Yue became even more determined that she could not hit her child like her ex-husband hit her.
Yueyue looked at the scene between mother and son and smiled happily, feeling a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction in her small chest.
This is the first time that she has really helped a friend through her own efforts!
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