Quick Travel: From Beginner to Master

Ling Liang had never seen someone like Luo Zhaodi who was reluctant to eat, and who frugally scrimped for the sake of her children to the point of treating her parents harshly. In the past, Ling Liang had seen this.

What do they do?

Many times, it actually becomes a wishful self-impression.

It is okay and normal to love your children, but to love them too much, and even to give everything you have to give your children what you think is best, to be fair, this approach is not advisable.

As a parent, first of all, his essence is an individual.

As a human being, you will definitely have your own development needs.

There is no law that expressly stipulates that as a parent, you must give up all your previous problems, make constant concessions, sacrifices, focus on your children, and live only for your children.

If you give too much, the person receiving the gift will not only not be grateful, but will take it for granted, and may even develop some resentment.

This truth is very simple, but many people still don't understand it.

When their children are growing up, they keep giving but never accept any kindness from their children. No one can believe that they don't ask for anything in return for their efforts.

The heavier the sacrifice, the more it must be repaid hundreds of times. Otherwise, how can one be willing to do so?

But how can children who are supported by their parents take on important responsibilities?

The vast majority of them will only become mediocre people later on, or they will not even be mediocre.

A successful career is an unattainable fantasy for parents, but reality will eventually give them a hard blow.

In the hopeless waiting day after day, the rifts and conflicts between them and their children gradually developed.

Luo Zhaodi in her previous life was one of thousands of such parents.

When Jinbao was a child and a teenager, she loved him in every possible way. She held him in her palms for fear of falling, held him in her mouth for fear of melting, and cared for him so much that she was afraid that he would be wronged.

For this reason, he repeatedly reminded his two daughters to always remember to protect their younger brother and put his younger brother first in everything.

But when Jinbao grew up to 20 years old, her attitude changed somewhat. She often whispered in her son's ears, whose children in the village were promising and built a new house for their family, and whose children were particularly filial and married early. Holding two of them in three years...

The implication is that he wants his son to start a family as soon as possible.

Jin Bao was anxious after hearing this. He had no talent for reading and stopped studying after completing the nine years of compulsory education stipulated by the state.

When he was short of money in his pocket, he would go to the town to do odd jobs for a few days. Anyway, he could support himself, but if he had a few more mouths to talk to, he wouldn't have the ability to support himself.

But what his mother said is right. Almost all his peers have gone out to find work, or they are getting married and having children. He is the only one who has accomplished nothing. It is not a problem if this continues.

Jinbao made some mental plans and found four or five companions he knew while working in the town.

They were all the same people and in the same situation. They got together and formed a small group. They became local gangsters without any guidance and became successful in the business of stealing and collecting protection fees.

Luo Zhaodi was dumbfounded.

She hoped that her son would be able to make a fortune, but she never thought that it would be such a way to make a fortune.

He began to earnestly persuade his son to return to the right path.

But Jinbao's money came too easily, so how could he give up?

He didn't like to talk to his mother at all.

Later, he had a conflict with another group of people in the town who were collecting protection money. In a fit of anger, he stabbed the other party's boss. Although the man didn't die, he was seriously injured.

Jinbao hid in the deep mountains and forests and dealt with the police for two days. Finally, he was successfully arrested and sentenced to 20 years.

On the day when the verdict was announced, Luo Zhaodi almost shed tears for the rest of her life.

Perhaps only then will she truly regret her doting on Jin Bao and the many injustices she did to the two sisters.

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Before going to bed at night, Ling Liang stopped Da Ya who was walking to the room and handed her a package.

The package was heavy, "Grandpa, what's in this?" Da Ya asked in surprise.

Ling Liang smiled and asked her to go back to the room and take it apart for herself.

Da Ya entered the house with doubts.

She used a knife to cut open the kraft paper outside the package, and a stack of neatly stacked books with beautiful covers appeared in front of her.

Da Ya suppressed her excitement and read each book one by one. It turned out to be a series of classics that she had longed for for a long time, and they were all fully translated into Chinese and English.

These books exuded the pleasant scent of ink. She flipped through the pages carefully and without realizing it, an hour passed.

After she recovered from the profound and meaningful story, she couldn't help but exclaimed, quickly put the book back, turned off the lights and went to sleep.

Ling Liang specially went to major bookstores to find those dozen books as gifts for Daya. Although when Erya and Jinbao made requests one after another, she only smiled and stood quietly beside her, saying nothing. Didn't say.

But Ling Liang knew that she also had something she wanted.

At the dinner table two weeks ago, she once talked about the must-read series of books recommended by the school teacher for primary school students, but Jinbao's loud voice quickly covered her voice, and Luo Zhaodi muttered unhappily, "What are you buying books for?" You can still eat and drink.”

She lowered her head in loneliness, and then buried the matter deep in her heart, never uttering another word.

This child is really sensible, so sensible that it makes people feel distressed.

Da Ya is the eldest daughter in the family. She started helping her mother take care of her younger siblings at a very young age.

She's been doing great.

So good that people around her habitually forget the fact that she is just a little girl, and focus their attention on her younger siblings for a long time.

Ling Liang didn't like the word "sensible". On the surface it sounded like praise, but on the inside it was filled with the grievances and bitterness of the person involved.

Praising a child for being sensible also means that the child is precocious. So, why he knows the ways of the world too early is naturally a question worthy of further discussion.

But here in Ling Liang, Da Ya doesn't have to be so sensible. Like other children, she also has the right to be naughty and willful and have a little temper.