Traveling through the 1980s: I had a flash marriage with a wealthy man

After talking on the phone with Wen Chun, the two carried their things to the parking lot.

After getting in the car, Gu Yan asked Su Tang: "Tang Tang, you just mentioned postpartum depression. Is this a term for a disease that will appear in the future?"

Su Tang nodded, "Yes! In fact, many mothers now suffer from postpartum depression after giving birth, but people don't understand this and think it's just a person with a bad temper.

Because of this, family members may feel that the mother is being unreasonable. Over time, the mother's condition will become more and more serious because she cannot get care and understanding from her family members.

In the news I heard, many mothers committed suicide, or committed suicide while holding their babies.

Some women begin to experience postpartum depression weeks or even months after giving birth. "

When Gu Yan heard about such a disease, he took it very seriously.

"Many mothers already have postpartum depression, but their families don't know about it, thinking that women are particularly pretentious after giving birth. So, how should we get rid of postpartum depression?"

Su Tang tried hard to dig out the memory of this piece of knowledge from his previous life.

She organized her words before answering.

"Postpartum mothers should take more rest and recover as soon as possible. Proper outdoor exercise can help relieve depression. For example, take a walk or go to a surrounding park to breathe fresh air.

Families should take on more of the work of taking care of children and build a sense of family responsibility.

Some husbands are used to the role of sons and being taken care of.After having children, I still don’t share the housework and adapt to my father’s work.Leave breastfeeding, changing diapers, wiping buttocks, bathing, coaxing to sleep, etc. all to your wife.

In fact, it is wrong for the man to do this. The woman is also a mother for the first time, and she also has to figure out how to take care of the child.If the man cannot grow up here, then the woman will have to take care of two children at the same time.

In this way, she will be stressed and burdened, and feel that life is full of difficulties. In addition, she will be mentally isolated and helpless, and depression will appear.

In the final analysis, for this disease, the most important thing is the care and care of the family, as well as understanding and sharing of childcare.

If the mother is in a good mood, how can she still suffer from emotional illness? "

Gu Yan nodded heavily.

"You're right! When a woman gives birth to a child, a man should be responsible.

After a woman has been pregnant for ten months and worked hard to give birth to the baby, the man should take the initiative to take care of the baby.

Let the woman rest and recover. "

Gu Yan opened the car door, "Get in the car! Let's go home."

"it is good!"

As for the Gu family, Father Gu and the others got off work early and tacitly agreed to go home for the reunion dinner.

Because Gu Yan and Su Tang went out for a trip, they did not cook in person today.

However, Gu's mother became interested today. Although the dish she made didn't look very good, it still tasted very good.

Father Gu was very happy to eat, half of the dishes went into his stomach.

Mother Gu was very happy to see everyone applauding her.

At that time, she said that she would try to cook whenever she could in the future.

Father Gu was very happy to hear this.

At such an old age, of course I am happy to finally be able to eat a meal cooked by my wife with love.

After the meal, the family sat and drank tea and chatted. At 9 o'clock, they left on time.

Gu He and Gu Li handed Su Tang a big red envelope in tacit agreement.

Su Tang raised his eyebrows and asked with a smile: "Are you going to give my sister-in-law money for her private house?"

The customer and Gu Li smiled and shook their heads, "How can this little private money be enough? When we earn more in the future, we can save more private money for my sister-in-law.

This is our gift for my sister-in-law to enter a higher education.

We don’t know what my sister-in-law likes, so we give red envelopes in a tacky way. She must accept them and use the money to buy whatever she likes. "

Mother Gu smiled and said, "Tangtang, take it! This is their little wish.

Although you are the sister-in-law, they are all older than you, and they all have income.

Just accept it with confidence. "

Gu Yan also nodded.

Su Tang accepted it with a smile, "Okay! I'll keep it then, and my sister-in-law will send you winter clothes later."

Gu Li asked: "Did my sister-in-law design it herself? Is it tailor-made?"

Su Tang nodded, "That's necessary."

Hearing this, Gu Li said, "That sister-in-law has lost money."

"Hahaha!" Su Tang laughed loudly, "What does the family lose? Your sister-in-law and I still can't earn enough to make clothes for the two brothers-in-law? Let's go back to the room and rest.

You all know my phone number, you can call me if you have anything.

However, not during the day.

I have to go to class during the day. "

Gu He and Gu Li responded with a smile.

Gu Yan waved his hand and asked his brother to leave, "Let's go, let's go back to the room."

Gu Lilan looked at Gu He's shoulder and teased Gu Yan with a smile, "Third brother, you need to be more discerning in the future. The eldest brother needs to be alone with his sister-in-law. They need to be affectionate. We can't be a big lightbulb."

Gu He pushed him away, "You are who you are, don't drag me along. I am the most discerning, and I will never be a light bulb for the elder brother or sister-in-law."

After saying that, he went upstairs first.

Gu Li caught up with him in three steps at a time, "Boy, you know how to joke now, that's incredible."

Gu He looked at his second brother with disgust.

I didn't think so before, but today I feel like my second brother is stupid and foolish.

……

Su Tang had breakfast the next day and left in the car driven by Song Xiaomei.

Gu Yan and her separated right in front of the house, one went to Yangcheng and the other went to Qiao An's studio.

Qiao An had just made coffee. When she saw the assistant leading Gu Yan in, she gave her cup to Gu Yan and went to make another cup.

"My sister-in-law returned to Yangcheng today, and you came directly to my place. You really can bear it. You try the coffee I brewed first, and you don't know what's going on? In the past six months, we have opened many coffee shops in Hong Kong City. .

They not only sell brewed coffee, but also coffee beans and coffee machines.

Don't say it!This painful black thing is actually very popular!You ask someone to go out to talk about something, but as soon as the other person opens the door, they make an appointment to a coffee shop. It seems that if you don't go there to talk about things or drink a cup of coffee, you are afraid that others will say that you have no taste and are a country bumpkin. "

Gu Yan picked up the coffee cup and took a sip.

“The taste is average!”

"!!!" Qiao An stared at him with wide eyes, her fists hardened, and she wanted to hit the ignorant 'bumpkin' in front of her.

Do you understand?

These are imported coffee beans he bought from [Corner Coffee Shop], and he even learned how to make coffee from the master there?Just thinking that when a customer comes to consult, he can make a cup of coffee by himself.

As a result, this 'country bumpkin' said the taste was average!

It’s really irritating!

"The master at [Corner Coffee Shop] shouldn't be able to teach apprentices of this level. You definitely didn't study hard. You only learned the basics and you feel like you're a master."

Qiao An was surprised: "How do you know I learned from the master at [Corner Coffee Shop]?"

Did this guy secretly study the detective profession?

Gu Yan smiled faintly: "That's the shop opened by my wife. The most delicious dessert there is the soufflé cake, which was developed by my wife."

Qiao An: "Damn!"