After rebirth, he used the system to counterattack and become a god

Before going to bed, Su Yu browsed the forum and found a very strange question: My husband gave money to my mother-in-law behind my back, should I break up with her?

faint!What kind of three views are these!Su Yu couldn't help but reply:

"Do you want to break up over just such a small thing? You said it very seriously. Your husband was born and raised by your mother-in-law. It is natural and natural for him to give money to his parents.

If you usually have a good relationship and you are reasonable and understanding, I believe he doesn’t need to give money behind your back, right?Maybe even give the money directly to you to give to your mother-in-law.It's so honorable to have such a filial wife, why would she still go behind your back?

The law stipulates that it is a legal obligation for children to support their parents.

If a man gives no money to support his parents, will such a person have good character?Questionable.

However, if the amount is relatively large, you really need to explain it clearly to your wife and let her know.After all, the wife is an important member of the family, and the money given to the parents is the joint property of the couple.

Everything will be prosperous when the family is in harmony, and wisdom is needed to deal with problems. Be more understanding and tolerant of each other, and don't quarrel with each other at every turn.What good does it do you to break up? "

After the fight, Su Yu felt so good!

Next, another question came up: My wife earns 9 a month, but is very lazy and doesn’t do any housework. What should I do?

Seeing such a strange question, Su Yu couldn't help but typed a reply:

"I'm thinking: Why would this wife who earns 9 yuan a month be willing to continue living with this man?

I don’t know what the man’s monthly income is?If the man has a high income, it shouldn't be difficult to hire a nanny to do housework.If your income is low and you are reluctant to hire a nanny, shouldn’t you hurry up and do housework?I'm sorry to ask this question.

It must be very sad for a woman who can earn 9 yuan a month to be described as lazy by her husband.

With such a high income, it doesn't just fall into the sky. The husband must not have thought of how much effort it takes. Isn't that all effort?I don’t know how many people can’t make so much money despite working hard.I have earned so much money by working hard outside, and when I get home, I still have to do housework and be a nanny for the man. It’s a shame that the man can’t figure it out.

I have a female friend who went back to her husband’s house for the first time to celebrate the Chinese New Year. Because of the mask incident, she could only work from home. She worked on the computer from morning to night for nearly ten hours, sometimes longer.The man was laid off at that time and was unemployed at home. Her parents-in-law were not working, so her mother-in-law basically did the housework.

One time when my husband had a conflict with my friend, he actually said this to her: "I have never seen such a lazy woman who doesn't do any housework." He also said that his sister did all the housework at her husband's house. Take the initiative.At that time, my friend was almost furious and burst into tears.

She works hard to earn money to support her family, but in the eyes of others she is lazy!I can imagine how upset she was.It's been a long time since the incident happened. Even though the man apologized many times and said that he was just angry, his words "I've never seen such a lazy person before" still hurt her heart.

A happy family requires a reasonable division of labor and cooperation. Husband and wife should understand and be considerate of each other.You want the woman to be able to earn money and take care of the housework diligently. A person's energy is limited, but you want her to be a hard-working person who can keep running. Only a hard-hearted person would think so, right?You think all the good things are going to be yours, but the question is, do you deserve it?

If you really don’t know what to do, divorce may be a more suitable option for the man in question.

A woman who can earn 9 yuan a month should not worry about finding a better family even if she gets divorced. "

Of course, the female friend Su Yu mentioned was actually her best friend in her previous life.

It's really too much. In this era, there are still men who have this idea of ​​making people squirt.

She looked at the hot news again, and one piece of news simply made her angry!

There was a man who released harmful fish "Scavenger Icon" into the reservoir. He cried bitterly afterwards: "I was wrong! I am willing to take responsibility for it!"

Su Yu thought to herself: The question is, can you afford it?

Scavengers are native to rivers in South America. This fish has no natural predators in the country because its skin is very hard and it is easy to survive. It reproduces in large numbers and crowds out the living space of native fish.If they reproduce in large numbers, they will eat other fish eggs and lead to the extinction of other fish.In some places in the south, this fish has become so overrun that native native fish have been wiped out in entire rivers.Experts call for prevention of spreading into natural water systems, let alone free release.

There is nothing wrong with some practitioners having the virtue of loving life and releasing lives for their own beliefs.But releasing animals requires rationality. If you don’t care about the harm to the animals you release, then release them. Is this releasing animals or killing them?I had heard before that some people were releasing venomous snakes, which was simply unbelievable.

It is everyone’s responsibility to care for the ecological environment and build a home for life together.Please do not bring disaster to the ecology or other people because of your foolish behavior.

After browsing around online, Su Yu felt a little sleepy.

She immediately realized that she was being distracted by these meaningless things and was consuming her mind.

Just think of it this time as accumulating writing materials, and pay less attention to these messy issues in the future.

Only with good intentions and shielding negative energy can we pave the way for a happy life.

Go to sleep.

When I wake up in the morning, it’s New Year’s Eve.

Su Yu wrote a chapter of the novel and logged into QQ to see if Qin Han was looking for him.

Sure enough, there was a message from Qin Han last night: We are setting off fireworks here tonight, they are beautiful.Although we are hundreds of miles apart, we can enjoy it together with you.Good night!Tucked.

Next are a few pictures of gorgeous fireworks.

Su Yu replied: "The fireworks are so beautiful! Happy New Year's Eve and family reunion!"

Surprisingly, there was also a message from my cousin Chen Meixia, also from last night. It was quite a long one:

"Xiaoyu, when I got home, I heard a piece of news and felt very complicated.

My sister-in-law's and I's due dates are less than two months apart.How should I arrange this time?so tangled.

I am the first child, and my sister-in-law is the third child unexpectedly.My sister-in-law lived with her parents-in-law after she got married. She said that when she gave birth to her first and second child, her husband mainly took care of her during the confinement period.She felt that her mother-in-law did not take good care of her and her relationship with her was not very good.

She got married earlier than me, and we live under the same roof. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is inherently complicated, so I won’t comment on what is right and what is wrong.But to be fair, with her mother-in-law cooking, cleaning, and taking care of the child to sleep at home, the couple would be more relaxed.She had not originally planned to have three children, but the baby came unexpectedly and her husband said he would not have any more children.She was reluctant to abort the baby, and her parents-in-law also persuaded her to give birth.

It was fate that the child came, and it was really unbearable to abort it. Both of them were hard-working, and they would eventually get over it if they endured it.I am also full of blessings for the arrival of my child.

But when I was pregnant, my mother-in-law said that she would take care of me and help me take care of the baby when she was about to give birth.In the words of my friends, it is my mother-in-law’s turn to help my children.

But, I might start working when she gives birth. If my mother-in-law stays here to help me take care of the child, then my sister-in-law will definitely be sad or even angry.

If my mother-in-law goes back and my mother's health makes it inconvenient to help me take care of the children, I will have no choice but to go home with my mother-in-law in advance. Such a delay in work will put a lot of financial pressure on us.

It is such an important thing for my sister-in-law to give birth. If my mother-in-law does not go back because she helps me take care of the child, I will feel bad inside.Even if her mother-in-law only goes back to help her take care of her two children, she feels relieved.I sure hope she doesn't have it so hard.But I really need my mother-in-law’s help here.

This can only be said to be God’s will.How should I arrange my time when I arrive?It’s really confusing.My sister-in-law's mother is still relatively young. I wonder if she will take care of my sister-in-law during her confinement period?If that were the case, I would feel more at ease, but this matter is beyond my control.

Let’s take it one step at a time. If it’s really difficult to get the best of both worlds, maybe I’ll ask for leave and go home with my mother-in-law in advance. After all, everything will be happy with my family and I’ll work hard to earn more money in the future.It’s just that our pressure will definitely be greater.But I believe the boat will straighten out when it reaches the bridge, and we will all get better and better.

Thank you, Xiaoyu, you have given me a lot of strength during this time.

I feel much better after writing so much.Good night! "

Su Yu thought for a while and replied to her:

"Sister Xia, I understand how you feel. I think anyone who encounters such a thing will be confused.

I'm glad that you are willing to talk to yourself and I'm even more glad that you regard me as a close friend.

You can tell me anything in the future, whether you are happy or sad.I'm willing to listen.

I think you already know the answer in your mind.As you said, the boat will be straight when it reaches the bridge.

The most important thing for you now is to take care of yourself and the baby in your belly. Don't worry too much about other things for the time being.

Today is New Year’s Eve, be happy!

I wish you all the best in the new year in advance! "

Dad Su and his two brothers were already busy at work, killing chickens and geese, going to the old and welcoming the new and posting Spring Festival couplets.

After Su Yu finished drying the clothes, she went into the kitchen to help Su's mother.

She suddenly remembered something and said to Su's mother: "Mom, I will go and deliver some rice, oil, noodles and nutritional supplements to Grandpa Chen Hui later."

"Okay, the stuff is quite heavy. I'll ask your brother to go with you later and bring some vegetables grown by our family."

"Okay, I'll give him a red envelope for the New Year."

"need."

Chen Hui is a veteran of the Anti-Japanese War and is now in his 70s.When he participated in the Anti-Japanese War, he lost a leg.

He returned to his hometown to recuperate and married a woman from the next village.His wife failed to conceive for ten years, and they adopted a daughter.

When the girl was born, she contracted a disease that left her blind in one eye.

Chen Hui and his wife raised their daughter as their own child.

When her daughter was in her 20s, she married to a neighboring county dozens of miles away, where her living conditions were average.

A few years ago, Chen Hui's wife passed away, and his daughter said she would take him to her husband's house for retirement.

After all, the two places were dozens of kilometers apart, so it was inconvenient for her to often go back to her parents' home to take care of her father. She was worried.

Mr. Chen Hui refused. He said that he could still take care of himself now and just wanted to guard his hometown.

In fact, he was afraid of causing trouble to his daughter and son-in-law. After all, their lives were not well off.If the young couple had conflicts because of providing for him in old age, he would never want to see it.

After decades of retirement, he has always maintained his military spirit and pride.Although he is physically disabled, he insists on farming by himself and is always eager to help others.

He also listens to the radio and reads newspapers every day and knows a lot of new things.

Everyone in the village respects this old man.

Some children like to pester him to tell stories. When he talks about the war years, he is always impassioned.

The villagers would often give him food and other things, but he would always refuse: "I don't lack anything for food and clothing, so I don't want to cause trouble to everyone. You don't live well either, so take it back and you don't have to send it here in the future." ”

How could anyone who came to deliver something be willing to listen to him?Just put your things down and leave.The old man has difficulty moving, so how can he catch up?

His daughter would visit him every year and festival, but she didn't have time to come on New Year's Eve.I usually come back to see him on the second day of the new year.

At the time of family reunion on New Year's Eve, without the company of his relatives, he would inevitably feel a little lonely.

"Grandpa Chen!" Su Yu shouted while standing outside the fenced yard of Chen Hui's house.

Because Chen Hui's wife liked to raise chickens and grow vegetables when she was alive, he specially built this yard.Every procedure is done by his own hands with his wife.

There are still chickens in the yard.

He was very willing to feed chickens and raised them very well. People from the county who bought chickens from him even drove to his house to buy them from him!

"Xiao Kai and Xiao Yu are here! Come in and sit down!" Chen Hui came out with a cane, a smile on his wrinkled face.

Su Kai and Su Yu walked into Chen Hui's living room carrying large and small bags and placed them next to a wooden box.

The living room and yard were kept neat and tidy, and the piles of firewood were stacked neatly.As expected of a soldier, he is very meticulous and rigorous in his work.Su Yu thought to herself.

"Grandpa Chen, we will bring you some food. It can be stored for a few days. You don't have to cook tonight. I will bring it to you in the evening." Su Yu said sweetly.

"You are so thoughtful that you brought so many things to the old man. Your parents often bring me food! I can't eat so much by myself. You keep the money to sell it, which is all grown with hard work.

Now people from the village come to work on your farm, which has increased their income. You have done a great thing! "

When Mr. Chen Hui saw the brother and sister, he was extremely happy and started chatting.

Su Yu helped Chen Hui sit down, "We are developing well, and thank you for your support. Grandpa Chen, please remember to drink these nutritional supplements! Don't be reluctant to drink them, I will send them to you after a while!

You made such a great contribution to the country when you were young, and we as juniors all admire and are grateful.

Now that our life is getting better, wouldn't it be appropriate to give you something?You must accept it! "

Su Yu asked Su Kai to go home to help prepare the New Year's Eve dinner, and she chatted with Grandpa Chen for a while.

"Xiaoyu, you are such a lovable kid. That winter vacation class you held a while ago was well done. I heard many people praising you young people!

We also built a library. When did our village have such a good reading atmosphere? I borrowed books and came back to read them.Your little girl is amazing! "

"We are also slowly exploring. Young people are inexperienced and need more experience. We plan to continue to hold these activities. You are welcome to come to our studio to give lectures and tell us about history when you are free in the summer!"

"Okay! Then my old man can use some of his spare energy!"

"Haha, more than just a little! Grandpa Chen, your body is so strong, you can still continue to shine!"

......

When Su Yu went back, she stuffed a 200-yuan red envelope into Chen Hui's pocket and ran out of the yard, not forgetting to tell her: "Grandpa Chen, remember that you don't have to cook at night!"