Reborn in 70s to marry a big man, Jiaojiao has one child after another

Gu Zhiyuan finished washing, bought breakfast, and ate breakfast alone. Sure enough, Xu Ningyan hadn't come back yet.

Seeing that it was getting late, I had no choice but to leave for work.

Pushing the bicycle, he met Di Xu Ningyan who was about to come in with a smile on his face.

When he saw Gu Zhiyuan, he showed him the basket in his hand.

There are tender cucumbers with yellow flowers and thorns all over, purple eggplants, and a few peppers. Especially at the bottom, there is actually a strip of pork belly two fingers wide and one weighing one pound. Big carp, that big carp is still jumping around and waving its tail.

Xu Ningyan was still sighing: "Sure enough, the supplies in the capital are abundant, and Aunt Wang is also very powerful. Following her, we grabbed these things without much effort! You come back for lunch, and I will make braised carp and stir-fried pork."

In the current weather, fish and meat cannot be kept overnight for a long time. The two of them are not short of supplies. They can eat some meat every now and then in Jingshan County. Xu Ningyan is used to it.

Gu Zhiyuan didn't think it was a waste. He knew that Xu Ningyan had no other hobbies, so he just had a better appetite and liked to eat delicious food. This was not a problem.

What kind of man is he if he can't satisfy the requirements of the woman he likes?

What's more, he was also coveting Xu Ningyan's craftsmanship, so he naturally had no objection. He just said to cook more food at noon, and hurriedly rode to work. If he didn't leave, he would be late.

Xu Ningyan was thinking about going to the Gu family in the evening, but she didn't know if she would have the appetite to eat after seeing the people in the Gu family.

No wonder Gu Zhiyuan asked him to do more at noon, probably because he was afraid that he would lose his appetite when he went back at night.

Put away the vegetables you bought, throw the fish into a basin and add some water to keep it alive.

I washed my hands and went to eat the breakfast left by Gu Zhiyuan. Today was the special breakfast in Beijing, fried liver and Qingfeng's steamed buns.

After eating slowly, I washed my lunch box and washed and dried the clothes I changed out of yesterday.

Seeing that it was still early, I turned on the radio, listened to the red model opera, and read for a while under the pomegranate tree in the yard.

Aunt Wang next door came over with a bench and her own dishes.

They said they were picking vegetables together, but in fact they were just chatting.

The few dishes Xu Ningyan bought didn't require much cleaning, but the ones Aunt Wang bought took time.

A big handful of water spinach and half a bag of edamame.

Aunt Wang is a diligent and thrifty person. She can eat water spinach in two ways. Pinch off the tips of water spinach and stir-fry, pinch off the leaves from the stem, then cut into small pieces, stir-fry with black bean and millet, and serve with rice. Appetizing.

The edamame has to be peeled one by one, and the edamame rice inside is used to stir-fry pickles, which is also a must-have. Especially today, she grabbed a pound of fat meat, refined the oil, and burned the edamame with the oil residue, which made it even more fragrant.

Xu Ningyan helped peel the edamame, but for some reason she mentioned that she was going to meet the groom's parents in the evening.

Aunt Wang perked up. She knew that Xu Ningyan was the child of a martyr, so she thought there was no adult to tell her about this. Otherwise, why would she be able to just sit here and help peel the edamame?Not allowed to choose clothes to wear when meeting future parents-in-law at night?

Can't you pick out some generous door-to-door gifts?

To be fair, in her family, if her capable son had to marry a girl from a rural county, I'm afraid she would have a hard time with Lao Ma.

Seeing that Comrade Xiao Gu has his own ideas, his parents are unhappy and want to find fault with him if they can't protect him.

Otherwise, why would this little Gu live outside instead of living with his parents?

Maybe it was because of the falling out with the family about this marriage that they moved out.

Little Xu girl is going to meet the man's parents this time. Can her parents look good on this girl?Don't you pick your nose and your eyes?

After thinking about a lot of sad dramas such as "The evil mother-in-law picks on the weak and innocent country daughter-in-law who can't take care of herself", "The ruthless breaking up of a loving couple" and "The miserable mandarin ducks are kicked out of the house".

Aunt Wang looked at Xu Ningyan, and the more she looked at him, the more pitiful she felt. At this time, she naturally needed justice and took action.

He stopped picking the dishes and said, "Comrade Xiao Xu, this is the first time for a lesbian to go to the man's house. You have to be more reserved, you know? We just can't rush in! You have to know that when you marry a wife with your head down, you marry a girl with your head up! If you The first time I went to the man's house, I was teased, and I will be teased for the rest of my life, you know?"

"Listen to the aunt, this aunt has experience! Just remember, you go to the groom's house as a guest, but you go to serve as a servant! In some families, when the prospective daughter-in-law comes to the house for the first time, they will If you want to intimidate me, you must hold on!"

"Remember, if the old man in the family wants to try your cooking, or if Comrade Xiao Gu says that his parents and sisters are too busy and wants you to help in the kitchen, don't pay any attention to it! Whose guests are there? It’s your first time visiting the house and you want to help in the kitchen?”

"And don't be too diligent after the meal. Just help carry the dishes to the kitchen! Don't be stupid. Just roll up your sleeves and wash the dishes! After a woman gets married, she has to wash the dishes for the rest of her life. , it’s not too late to do it after you get married! We can’t get used to their bad habits!”

"Remember, if someone who really understands etiquette and values ​​their son knows that it is your first time to come to the door, he should have prepared everything properly. That is what a decent person does! If something goes wrong, then it will definitely It’s just that people are not satisfied.”

"Girl, you are the child of a martyr, you have a healthy root and a job, what are you afraid of? Even if you don't have the support of your parents, you have to support yourself! At this time, you can't lower your head and let others do it. You’re being underestimated! Do you know?”

Xu Ningyan really had no experience in this area. Although her visit to the Gu family was not technically her first visit, it was considered to be a visit to rescue Jiang Yuan.

But rounding it off, in the eyes of the Gu family, it was probably her first time visiting.

You really have to listen to Aunt Wang.

At that moment, I wanted to take out my notebook and write it down. I blinked my big eyes and looked at Aunt Wang: "Auntie, I remember it! What else should I pay attention to?"

That’s called a person who is thirsty for knowledge!

It fully satisfied Aunt Wang’s desire for teaching.

All the children in the family were sons, and they had a lot of experience in taking care of their daughter-in-law. Seeing that Xu Ningyan had truly listened, she became more energetic and wished she could impart all her experience to her.

After muttering for a long time, he passed on his experience and lessons, and finally concluded: "Comrade Xiao Xu, you only need to remember one thing. If anything happens, you should ask Comrade Xiao Gu! You are his partner, and he took you back. Naturally, he will do anything for you." Come forward! If his family likes his son and knows that his son is resolute, then his family will smile at you regardless of whether they are happy in their hearts! "

"Anyway, don't feel bad for Comrade Xiao Gu. You're afraid that he will be caught in the middle, so you have to swallow your anger for him! It's him who wants to have sex with you, and he wants to marry you. His own parents can't get along with each other, so why should he marry a wife? Besides, , we are a family of flesh and blood, even if the parents really argue with their son, they won’t really get angry. But you are an outsider, if you want to get involved, then it will be your problem! "

"Do you remember what my aunt said?"

Aunt Wang finally asked.

Xu Ningyan made the final summary: "Remember, when you go to the man's house, you have to be reserved and don't take the initiative to do the work. Don't let others look down upon you! Be generous and generous. Whatever the other person's attitude is, you will have the same attitude! If you have anything to do, let the man follow you. Communicate with his family, don’t feel bad for the man, remember that you are an outsider and don’t get involved in the man’s family affairs! Am I right?”

Aunt Wang slapped her thigh and beamed with joy: "You girl is so smart, that's what I'm talking about! It seems that you young people are very smart after you study. I've been nagging you for a long time, but you can do it in just three sentences. !”