Reborn in 70s to marry a big man, Jiaojiao has one child after another

Xu Ningyan didn't care what others thought, although she knew that in the eyes of outsiders, she was truly blessed when she married Jiang Zhiyuan.

But to her, isn't what Jiang Zhiyuan did what a mature man should do?

Otherwise, why would he marry a wife and have children? Forget about being single forever!

For Jiang Zhiyuan, he is willing to do this! If you don’t care for your own wife or your own baby, then why would you marry her if you don’t love her?

What's more, he loves doing this from the bottom of his heart.

Whether he is walking with Xu Ningyan or reading to the child in his belly, it always makes him feel calm and satisfied, and he can temporarily forget about the heavy work and the current chaotic and frustrating reality.

It also allows him to draw more strength and courage and be able to face the current predicament calmly.

So no matter what outsiders think, the couple is very satisfied with the current situation.

By the beginning of October, everything for the children was ready.

Xu Ningyan's belly was swollen, which looked a little scary.

Especially at night, when lying on the bed, you can see every blood vessel on the exposed belly. The child inside occasionally makes a little noise, and the little feet are clearly visible on the belly.

Jiang Zhiyuan was frightened every time he saw it, fearing that if the child in his belly got stronger, he would burst Xu Ningyan's belly.

You can only see it once, so you can gently coax the child in your belly once, gently and slowly.

The weather was cold and snowing, and Xu Ningyan had such a big belly, let alone Jiang Zhiyuan and the others, they were worried about her going to work again.

Even Director You of the library dare not let Xu Ningyan come to work with such a big belly. If something happens along the way, they cannot bear the responsibility.

Xu Ningyan was simply asked to take a leave of absence at home. It wouldn't be too late to go back to work after the baby was born and she was in confinement. Anyway, she was not missing in the library.

Xu Ningyan was also afraid. No matter how rich his theoretical knowledge was, he would still be afraid if it was his turn!

She stayed at home honestly and walked around the yard a few times every day, supported by Sister Mei or Jiang Zhiyuan.

I dare not go out of the yard for fear of being accidentally hit by some child.

The dog-legged boy used to go to work with Xu Ningyan every day, but now he suddenly stopped going to work and stayed at home every day, but he was not impatient at all.

Instead, he stayed in the main room every night. Whenever there was any movement, he would be the first to get up.

When Xu Ningyan was walking in the yard, it followed him every step of the way, as if Xu Ningyan had something to do.

In November, Sister Mei, who had taken care of several pregnant and postpartum women, said with experience that Xu Ningyan would probably be gone for the next few days.

As soon as these words came out, Jiang Yuan, Jiang Zhiyuan and Jiang Zhixing's nerves were all tense these days.

The delivery bag for going to the hospital to prepare for the birth has already been packed, and you can take it to the hospital at any time as soon as you start.

Jiang Zhiyuan couldn't care so much and sent the person directly to the obstetrics and gynecology department of the hospital.

The family is not short of that little money at all. What if it is started at night, in the dark, and there is snow and ice on the road? Who is to blame if something goes wrong?

When we arrived at the hospital, there were not many people in the obstetrics and gynecology department giving birth.

At this time, even in Beijing, most ordinary families gave birth to children at home, and those who could be given birth at home.

Or he was sent to the hospital after being activated.

It's rare for someone to be admitted to the hospital in advance before this happens.

Because of Jiang Yuan's relationship, he was given a single room to stay in so that he wouldn't be disturbed.

Even so, Xu Ningyan couldn't sleep well at night.

Some pregnant women were brought here late at night. Because they were not yet ready to give birth, they were asked to walk in the corridor so that the cervix could open quickly.

For mothers who give birth for the first time, the period from onset to delivery may take as little as one night or as many as one day and one night.

In the wards in the corridor, pregnant women were either crying or moaning, or they were crying loudly during delivery.

Xu Ningyan's previous understanding of production was from books and television.

After truly witnessing the pain of childbirth, she was frightened and began to wonder if she could survive it.

I want to inquire about cesarean section.

After all, in her previous life, her friend had been dissected half way, alive! The pain was so painful that it was excruciating!

It’s like giving birth to a baby and suffering twice! She suffered the pain of both vaginal delivery and cesarean section.

Afterwards, I regretted it and beat my chest, saying that if I had known better, I would have had a cesarean section!

Anyway, those who have given birth say that if it is not a painless delivery, it is better to have a cesarean section! At least you don’t have to endure the endless pain of opening your fingers. You can use a painkiller pump after the operation, which means that your body will recover more slowly, but compared to the pain of childbirth, it’s nothing.

She's afraid of pain, and she doesn't plan to have another baby, so a cesarean section should be fine, right?

Early in the morning, not long after the genius was bright, I asked the director of the obstetrics and gynecology department while he was making rounds.

As a result, the director of the obstetrics and gynecology department directly shouted back.

If it weren't for the fact that she was Jiang Yuan's daughter-in-law, she would probably have been scolded by the director of the obstetrics and gynecology department.

The general idea is that Xu Ningyan's condition is not bad and she can have a normal delivery, so why did she need a cesarean section? Those are surgeries that are performed only in emergencies! It's fine, what kind of surgery should I do? It’s not good for your body’s recovery! Not good for children either!

Especially at the end, it was emphasized that if a uterine rupture caused damage to the uterus, and you want to have a child in the future, you have to wait at least two or three years. Otherwise, if you don't recover well and the fetus becomes larger in another pregnancy, there is a risk of uterine rupture. .

Xu Ningyan was joking about her body!

After quarreling with Xu Ningyan, he angrily dragged Jiang Yuan, who was on duty last night and came to see Xu Ningyan early this morning, outside the door to complain. He felt that Jiang Yuan, the daughter-in-law, was too squeamish, but she was just afraid of pain. Going to have a cesarean section?

He muttered again, which woman didn’t come here like this? Although the first pregnancy is twins, which is more difficult than other mothers, you can't be so pretentious, right?

Of course, I didn't forget to make up for my complaint in the end, saying that it was for Xu Ningyan's good. After all, pregnant women can recover faster after giving birth naturally. They can get out of bed in three days and breastfeed faster.

After Jiang Yuan quietly listened to the words of the director of the obstetrics and gynecology department, the first words she uttered caught the director of the obstetrics and gynecology department off guard: "Director Zhu, my Xiaoyan is pregnant with twins. A natural birth will definitely be more difficult than other ordinary pregnant women. If Will a cesarean section be better for the mother? Don’t worry about breastfeeding faster. The baby will only need milk powder!"

"It doesn't matter if we have to wait two or three years to get pregnant again. People may not be able to have two babies in two or three years. Our family, Xiaoyan, got pregnant with two at once, which is already amazing! Whether or not we have children in the future will not matter! "

The director of the obstetrics and gynecology department really didn't expect Jiang Yuan, the mother-in-law, to be so open-minded, and was stunned for a moment.

Jiang Yuan slowed down and sighed: "Director Zhu, we are all women and have given birth to children. We have all experienced how difficult it is for the first child! This is only one child. Xiaoyan's first child is two. I am really worried! I'm afraid There was an accident along the way! As you know, giving birth to a child is like going through hell for a woman. I am also afraid. If something bad happens, how can I live with my heart——"