Quickly dress up: Become a max-level boss and dress up as a poor kid

On October 1977, 10, "People's Daily" and other media officially announced that the college entrance examination was resumed!The entire capital was filled with an atmosphere of joy and excitement.Some people roared with excitement, some were so excited that they cried with joy, some burst into tears, and some suppressed their surging hearts and wrote letters to relatives far away.

There are people coming and going on the street, and people's expressions are colorful.

Luo Kang held his son's hand and walked on the street, feeling the changes of the times.

"Everyone is very happy that the college entrance examination has resumed. For many people, going to college is an opportunity to change their destiny, and everyone will have a better future."

Luo Kang whispered to his son.

Children's understanding and comprehension are beyond the imagination of adults. Don't not tell your children everything just because they are young.

To take a step back, even if he can't understand what you mean for a while, speaking more and listening more will greatly improve your child's language expression ability and active thinking.

Luo Yuanjing knew that his mother would also take the college entrance examination.Now my mother says that the college entrance examination will give everyone a better future. Isn’t that the same as divorce?

"The baby is happy too."

Luo Kang didn't know yet that her son was equating the college entrance examination with divorce in his mind.Originally, the child did not have any real knowledge about the college entrance examination. He only knew this word. Once the equal sign was crossed, the college entrance examination instantly formed a picture in his mind.

In the past, he supported his mother's college entrance examination out of habit, but now he has become particularly sincere.

"Mom must take the college entrance examination!"

"Okay. Mom will definitely be able to get into college."

"Mom is awesome."

Luo Yuanjing is a curious baby and is interested in everything he sees.

Luo Kang walked, answered his questions, spread his thoughts, and told him some expanded content.Sometimes she feels that she has gone too far, but the children still listen with interest.

Luo Kang suddenly thought that she might make a popular science book for children called "The Origin of All Things" for her son.Let’s talk about how the things we use in daily life come from, and even how they work.Popular science books for young children were quite common in later generations, but not yet.

The two of them strolled for a while and returned home. Luo Kang moved out the small table and bench and placed them in the yard. He took out the paper and pen he bought yesterday and started making books.She also gave Luo Yuanjing a copy and let him use it as he pleased.

Children grab all the pens at first, so there is no need for parents to interfere.Later, he will gradually adjust himself and will soon be able to master the correct pen holding posture.

Beijing in October is relatively cold in the morning and evening, but very comfortable most of the day.The sky is blue, the sun shines warmly on people, and occasionally yellow leaves fall. The children drew a few lines and went to chase nature.

The yard is paved with brick pathways leading to the various rooms, but most of the ground is still earth.Luo Kang watered a piece of ground to make the soil easier to dig, and prepared a small shovel for his son so that he could dig in the mud at any time.

No matter what age children are, playing with mud is a natural instinct. It is a game that all children like. They can get endless fun from a piece of mud.

Luo Kang also plans to build a small sandpit in the yard where the baby can play in the sand.

Playing your favorite games can cultivate your child's concentration. At this time, parents must not interrupt. Don't ask him if he is hungry, ask if he is thirsty, or feel that he is playing too dirty. Need to change clothes.These "concerns" or complaints from parents will disturb the child, interrupt his thinking, lack coherence, and make the child anxious.When the child goes to school later, when doing homework, he may need to eat, drink, or use the toilet.

Some of this is causal.

Also, part of the reason why children have a terrible two years, a terrifying three years old, and an intolerable four years old lies with the children, because children at this stage grow rapidly, and they become more independent and thoughtful. However, There is no guidance, so to a large extent, their ideas are completely their own. He will only think about "what do I want to do", but will not think about whether it is feasible and whether it will embarrass the parents. His children Small minds cannot think so much and cannot consider so comprehensively. This is not a mistake, it is just a necessary stage of children's growth. In the process of constant exploration and trial and error, under the correct guidance of their parents, they will Become more empathetic and better able to think about issues based on reality and from the other person’s perspective.

Another part of the reason lies with parents. From the perspective of adults, they cannot understand what their children do. They often think that children are willful, ignorant, and inconsiderate of their parents, and then they will start preaching or even take action directly.

In a small world that Luo Kang has experienced, there is a colleague who is usually a very rational and thoughtful man with a good temperament. But whenever he mentions his childhood, he will laugh and joke about his experience of being beaten since childhood. His voice was choked and his eyes were moist.He said that he would be beaten when he fell and cried because his father thought he was unmanly. He would be beaten when he got home from a fight with others because his father thought he had lost the family’s face. He would be beaten if he didn’t eat enough because he His mother felt that he did not respect his own work and would be beaten if he ate too much. His mother felt that he was too selfish. He ate the most when the family ate, so what did others eat?

What's even more outrageous is that when he was very young, not long after he was born, his parents were very irritated because he cried at night, so they gave him a mixed doubles meal when they got up.At that time, all my colleagues thought it was unbelievable. It was not normal for a child of that month to have night milk and cry when hungry. And how did you know?

He said that his parents would show off this matter every day!It is said that after he received that beating, he stopped drinking milk at night and never cried again at night.So his parents felt that they were good at raising their children, "a filial son emerges from a stick" and "children should not be too spoiled".Every time he hears his parents say this to others, he really wants to cry.This childhood shadow will accompany him throughout his life.

Parents require their children to be obedient, well-behaved, empathetic, considerate of adults, and considerate of adults. However, they themselves have never learned to think from their children's perspective, and they have never learned to think from their perspective!

To take good care of a child as he grows up, parents have a lot of homework to do, a lot of pitfalls to avoid, and a lot of minefields to avoid.

Luo Kang found a futon for her son. Futons made of corn husks were still very common at this time. She squatted on the ground and played with him for a while, then went to get her own book. Luo Yuanjing squatted there and played by herself.

Mother and son do not disturb each other and do their own thing.Occasionally, Luo Yuanjing would call Luo Kang to come and see his masterpiece.

"Mom, I made a bun and a fried dough stick."

Luo Kang took a look and saw a round mud ball and a long mud strip. There were small lines carved out on the mud ball to act as bun folds, and the two long mud strips were joined together.It can be said that the observation is very detailed.

She boasted about these details.

Luo Yuanjing was so happy that she turned around and continued to "cook".

Tip: When you praise someone, you must be specific and not talk in general terms. Even if you are praising a child, you must not be perfunctory.Be sure to let him know that you have read his work seriously!

Later in the afternoon, Luo Kang picked up a few eggs and took his son back to his parents' home. He had to tell them about the divorce. Today was a good day!