After rebirth and divorce, I took care of my children and became rich

When Xiao Hao's mother thought about it, she was right: "It was because Yu Hai's father couldn't control him that he let him get divorced easily.

The same thing can't happen to my house!Both parents and brothers and sisters from both families refused to let him go.

Our families have been married for more than 20 to [-] years, and our three aunts and six wives attend weddings and funerals.

One party breaks up the marriage and involves several families.Xiaohao's father is going to act recklessly outside, and he will never come back to this Yujia Village in the future.

At least a dozen families have broken up, and everyone will scold him and spit on him.His parents’ family doesn’t allow it either! "

The old lady wondered, "How did you say this?"

Xiaohao’s mother said: “Since the engagement, the two big families have been connected.

On my mother's side, my husband's side, aunts, uncles, and cousins ​​all move around when there are weddings and weddings.

Villages are connected to villages, clans are connected to clans, and relatives are connected to relatives. All year round, things keep happening and they are inseparable.

If you break up your marriage and relationship, the implications will be too great. If you really can't live together, don't you have to consider all these human relationships and worldly affairs?

Who has the nerve to go out and meet people again?Relatives become enemies when you look up but don't see them when you look down, which is not conducive to family harmony.

Not to mention that rural people stick together when something happens, which is one of the biggest reasons. "

At this time, the old lady suddenly understood that the union of rural men and women was not just a simple marriage, but more importantly, the union of two family forces.

Family power in rural areas often maintains a family for decades or hundreds of years if it is entrenched for a long time.

The stronger the eyesight, the more people there are; the more people there are, the more powerful the energy is.In most rural areas, family power controls the village.

Although the current election of village cadres is a fair, open and fair on-site voting, the election results of village cadres are determined based on the number of votes cast by the people.

But in rural areas, there are only a dozen surnames in a village. Of course, big families have the advantage of having more people.

There are many elected cadres and they have the right to speak in the village. Good things such as recruiting workers, recruiting soldiers, allocating land, homesteads, etc. in the village will definitely favor their own people.

In daily life in rural areas, if there are many people and strong fists, and with the support of village cadres, they can go sideways. No one dares to provoke them, and no one can afford to provoke them.

As long as whose family is powerful, has many brothers, and has strong fists, then whoever is in this area is the master!I can walk with my chest raised and my belly raised, and I can walk with my hands in the air.

Whoever's family is powerful and has few brothers will have to let people go everywhere.If you act like a grandson in the office, you will have no say in the village!

In the past, when the concept of the rule of law was weak in rural areas, group fights were common. Beatings often resulted in severe head injuries, and it was not uncommon for people to be maimed to death.

A large family is united and cohesive. When encountering family members, lawsuits or troubles, the people in the group will act unanimously to safeguard family interests and family authority.

Such a family is one that outsiders dare not and cannot afford to offend. If the family is united, family members will not be bullied by outsiders.

In some places, some families will rely on their strong family power to squeeze out and bully other family forces, cause trouble, dominate one party, and even encourage and breed evil forces.

In such an environment, the stability of a marriage relationship indeed involves too many aspects, and neither party dares to break the rules casually.

This is the survival wisdom accumulated by rural people for thousands of years. Although there are some bad habits, it still has many great benefits.

At least the divorce rate in rural areas is much lower than that in cities!When looking for a partner in rural areas, you will be more knowledgeable. Rural people are relatively simple and kind-hearted.

If you are well fed, you will have plenty to do; if you are hungry and cold, you will be safe.There are advantages to making less money, but cheating also requires a certain amount of financial strength.

For these reasons, the divorce rate in rural areas is relatively low and marriage relationships are more stable!

Zhou Yi’s mother asked about the detailed process of rural betrothal, and Xiaohao’s mother couldn’t help but wonder, “Auntie, why are you so interested in the marriage customs here?

Do you want to go to Jiaodong to marry a daughter or a wife? Is it possible that you want to be in-laws with us Jiaodong people? "

These words touched Zhou Yi's mother's heart: "I really want to be the in-laws of you Jiaodong people! But I don't know if I will have such a good life!"

Xiaohao's mother was very happy, "Oh, aunt, you still have the foresight to marry us Jiaodong people, and you will have endless seafood in the future."

There are endless peanuts to eat and endless sea views.We Jiaodong people are so kind, hospitable and generous. We will definitely do this when we become in-laws.

If you have a goal, you can ask the village elders to act as matchmakers.Aunt Guo has a good drinker, and the village chief uncle is a man of great prestige, so he will definitely be able to handle it well. "

Zhou Yi's mother smiled so hard that she showed 24 teeth. What she said was really good, and her idea was really good. When the time comes, she will ask the village chief and his wife to come forward to propose marriage. This will definitely happen.

Little did she know that Chen Hong was about to leave Yujiacun and go to Jinan to accompany her children to study. Her dream of being a daughter-in-law was still far away.

On this day, Chen Hong received a call from her sister. They had already had their summer vacation and were planning to come to Yujiacun to live for a while.

Chen Hong quickly started to buy bedding and sanitary products. There were a lot of people coming this time, so she had to prepare in advance to receive them.

One day later, guests from Beijing came to Yujia Village in large numbers.

Chen Hong originally wanted to pick her up at the airport, but Principal Jin firmly rejected her.

There were quite a lot of people coming, including children and adults, there were six people in total, and one car would definitely not be able to fit in. They would need to take a taxi anyway.

Xiaoyun also knew the location of her home, so the group could just take a taxi at the airport.

Xiaoyun followed the location directed by her sister on the phone and asked the renter to park at the door of the villa.

Chen Hong received a call from Xiaoyun and was waiting for them at the gate with Yu Yang.

Six people got off the two cars, including Principal Jin and Fang Xiaoying's mother and daughter, Director Guan's son and his wife, his sister Xiaoyun, and his niece and daughter.

As soon as Chen Hong saw them getting off the bus, she came up to them with a smile, took the luggage and led the family group into the house.

As soon as Director Jin entered the courtyard, he couldn't help but praise: "Chen Hong, your courtyard is really not small, it is even wider than the courtyard houses in Beijing.

Living here makes me feel more open-minded.No wonder you are in a hurry every time you go to Beijing and can't stop.

It seems that not only are you busy with children and fishing, but you also feel that housing in Beijing is not as comfortable as in the village, right?

Ouch, when the sea breeze blows, you eat seafood and drink beer, your life is really enviable! "

Chen Hong smiled and said: "I'm used to living by the sea, and I miss home when I go out.

Besides, no matter how good the house you buy is, you still feel like you are not close to the people you live in. As the old saying goes, a golden nest or a silver nest is not as good as your own doghouse.

I have lived in Yujiacun since I got married and have long regarded this place as my home. "

A group of people gathered into the villa, and Chen Hong led them upstairs to see the room.

There are many rooms, and they all have room to choose.There are four bedrooms on the third floor, which have never been occupied.

Director Jin took a look and found that not only all the bedrooms on the third floor had matching bathrooms, wardrobes, air conditioners and TVs.

There is also a large living room, study room, and multi-purpose room.Once the door is closed, the privacy is very good.The mother and daughter chose the large bedroom on the third floor.

When Mrs. Guan took a look, she also chose a room next to Principal Jin.And her son Guan Tao also lives on the third floor.

Xiaoyun took her child and chose a room on the first floor. When little Nini was running around and being naughty, she could rest assured that she didn't have to climb up and down on the first floor.

When Yu Yang saw that his aunt and sister lived on the first floor, he went back to the house to tidy up, carried pillows and toiletries to the first floor, and stayed next door to his aunt.

Chen Hong teased him: "It seems that my son likes his aunt more than his mother. As soon as the aunt came, he abandoned his mother."

Yu Yang was so amused that he blushed: "Who wants to abandon my mother? I just went down to help my aunt take care of my sister. My favorite has always been my mother!"

Xiaoyun saw that Yu Yang was so anxious and patted her sister, "I see that Yu Yang looks like a master, and he still remembers to help my aunt take care of my sister.

It's not like you. You only know how to tease children with jealousy, but it makes Yu Yang anxious! "

Chen Hong quickly apologized: "I was wrong, I shouldn't have been jealous of your aunt, but my son is sensible and has the consciousness of being a little master at such a young age.

You should help your mother and aunt take care of your sister. Now that she is sensible and grown up, she will definitely be the closest to you. "

Yu Yang patted his small chest and promised: "Mom, don't worry, I like my sister and I will definitely take good care of her!"

Little Nini can already remember some things, and she also recognized brother Yu Yang.

Holding my brother's hand, we went to visit the house and explore the house.Yu Yang took her around the house on the first floor, and then took her to the backyard to see the chickens, ducks and vegetable garden.

It happened that Principal Jin and the other two had arranged their luggage and went downstairs. Fang Xiaoying and Guan Tao had never been to the countryside. They were very interested in their chickens, ducks and vegetable garden, so they followed them to the backyard.

Chen Hong greeted Principal Jin. Mrs. Guan and her sister sat down, made a pot of tea, washed a plate of water and brought it out.

The four adults happened to have tea and rest for a while, especially Xiaoyun. She has always taken care of the child. Since Nini was born, she has no free time at all.

When the child was taken away, she didn't feel comfortable with it for a while.Helping Chen Hong serve tea, pour water and fruits, find work everywhere.

Chen Hong pulled her and said, "There is not much work at home, so you should take the opportunity to sit down and rest for a while. Have tea and chat with Aunt Jin and Aunt Guan."

This summer vacation, you can live in peace of mind, and your children can also rest assured that there are plenty of people to look after your children in the village.

It’s finally here, it’s time to eat, play, and recuperate the body.

I see that you don't look very good these days. Are you too tired from raising children? "

Xiaoyun said embarrassedly: "Nini can run away now, but she can pick out three handfuls from the dog hole.

It’s easier to work if you can’t see it at a glance.I had to keep a close eye on her, which was indeed quite tiring.

Coming to your house will definitely cause a lot of trouble, and this time we will be tired of Yu Yang. "

Chen Hong said with a smile: "Child, you know what it means to be tired. Nini happened to be here and let him feel the feeling of being an older brother.

With Nini, he can also understand the responsibility of being an older brother, which is a great thing for an only child. "

Principal Jin and Mrs. Guan also said: "The one-child policy must be changed sooner or later. A child is indeed too lonely.

In fact, it is best to have two children in a family. Regardless of male or female, they have the bond of growing up together.When you grow up, you have to discuss things personally, and only two children can become partners. "

"Yes, I am already worried now. When Xiaoying gets married, we will be the only couple left at home.

She doesn’t have to worry about money or a house, but she is worried that if she gets old and gets sick, Xiaoying will have to go to work and take care of her family, so she won’t have the energy to take care of us!It will be really difficult then! "