After rebirth and divorce, I took care of my children and became rich

The village chief's uncle walked around slowly and did not start a fight. As the village chief, he was happier than the person involved.

As village cadres in rural areas, they have little say in the face of this kind of family infighting.

Even the spokesman's family would not listen. This not only involves the family's face issues, but more importantly, it involves money issues.

The Wang Qing family is so unreasonable that they have to pay more than [-] yuan to break up the engagement. Who dares to intervene?

Uncle Erhu said slowly: "It seems that the man has been prepared to break off the engagement for a long time, and even the amount of compensation has been discussed in advance.

This happened just last night, and this morning they proposed to cancel the engagement and pay compensation.

Maybe Wang Qing must have had an affair with someone else, and the man would have heard about it a long time ago.

But there is no evidence, so there is no way to cancel the engagement first.Now it's better, in full public view, the private meeting was caught.

The clues were all brought to the door, and she had an honest reason to break off the engagement. "

Even though Uncle Erhu usually doesn't talk much and is an honest and responsible person, his powers of observation are not weak at all.

He sees some things more clearly. He seldom speaks at ordinary times, but occasionally speaks a sentence that hits the nail on the head.

So, never look down on honest people.Honest people don't like to talk, it's just because of their personality, they are not stupid.

People like them are not very good at striving for more benefits verbally, but in fact they know it in their hearts!

What can and cannot be done.There are certain rules for who you can get along with and who you can't get along with.

Chen Hong was a little frightened when she thought that the man had claimed a huge compensation of 20 yuan.

"Uncle, I really didn't expect that a daughter-in-law in our rural areas would cost so much.

After excluding the mental damage fee of 6 yuan, there is still more than 13 yuan!

It's only been four years since the two families were engaged, so they spent so much money?Not to mention the four-season rituals and red envelope banquets.

I did the math and found that the wedding ceremony, meeting gifts and other major items alone cost more than 7. "

When Chen Hong said this, she felt sour and a little jealous.Then he said to the village chief:

"Uncle, it seems that people are really not popular! I remember when Yu Hai and I got engaged, the matchmakers on both sides of us were all partial to the Hai family.

We got engaged only five years before Wang Qing.I remember that the meeting gift given to me was only 600 yuan.

The engagement gift is one in a million and costs ten thousand and one yuan.The correction fee was also 600 yuan, and 1000 yuan was included in the Geng Tie.

There was no mention of the three golds and one wood (Mulan brand motorcycle). The engagement banquet was still held at my mother's house.

Yu Hai's family only gave us 1000 yuan, but our family set up six tables and gave us more than 800 yuan for food and drinks!

This comparison shows a difference of more than 6 yuan.Let’s talk about the four-season rites. We got married less than a year after we got engaged, and we didn’t even get the most important rites during the Spring Festival. "

The village chief smiled sarcastically: "You don't blame us. This place is different for ten miles, and the price is the same every year. We didn't care.

Besides, if you get engaged on the same day, the prices may not be the same!

Doesn’t the matter of the engagement gift all depend on the man and woman sitting down to discuss it?We matchmakers are just passing the news in the middle.

At that time, your gift money was small, and the prices were similar to those around Jinan.Although there are markets in various places, they cannot be generalized.

At that time, most of your betrothals were based on one-in-a-thousand (ten thousand and one yuan). Three gold and one wood (motorcycles) had just become popular, and only those with good conditions could buy them for the husband's family.

If the conditions are not good and the woman doesn’t insist on it, we as matchmakers will definitely have more to do than less to do.

But speaking of it, being a matchmaker for your family is really worry-free.

Your father is a very open-minded person. Before we could say anything, your father said that he was not selling his daughter, but just went with the flow.

We must have proposed the lowest-end engagement gift. We thought we would have to go back and forth a few times. Unexpectedly, your father agreed immediately.

How could you, father and daughter, work together? You are such good characters.Until the wedding, he never caused any trouble to our matchmaker, nor did he make any excessive demands.

Your father also gave you furniture and appliances when you got married, which was more than the betrothal gift you received when you got married.

After you get married, your parents' family will take care of you and your family.

Your dad is really a loyal and down-to-earth person. Otherwise, when he comes, I like to have a drink with him! "

Chen Hong curled her lips: "Looking back now, I have really become someone's loser.

My family married two daughters, and my father didn’t ask for a penny more.

My sister and I are not taken seriously by our husband's family, and we sisters don't know how to act like monsters ourselves.

Therefore, it is said that one should not be too nice. A good person will be bullied by others, and a good horse will be ridden by others!This is truly a saying of the ages.

Yu Hai married a daughter-in-law without spending much money, so he didn't cherish her. He easily dared to get a divorce and mess around outside, which wasted all the kindness our family had given him.

After Yu Hai's incident, I finally figured it out. It's good for people, but it also hurts others. Some people are so arrogant that they can't keep warm. It's really not worth treating them heartily. "

Aunt Erhu finally had a sense of existence at this time: "We just don't have a daughter. If we really have a daughter, we must spend a lot of money on various betrothal gifts before marriage, and we must not be lenient.

You can't say you want more than others, and you can't ask for less than others. This also represents the importance you attach to your daughter.

It can't be said that it's selling a girl. If you don't ask for more gifts and let his family spend more money, you won't be able to cut his flesh. He really doesn't know how to feel pain.

He only knows how to cherish a wife who has spent a lot of money to bring her home.

Otherwise, he would think that marrying a wife is easy, doesn't cost much, is effortless, and treats marriage like a housewife!

Chen Hong, I'm not talking about you. You usually have ideas when doing things, but when it comes to divorce, you are too soft-hearted towards Hai.

When he got divorced, he should have been allowed to bleed more. Just after the divorce, he had money to buy a house and marry a wife. No one would believe him if he said he had no small treasury. "

Chen Hong couldn't help but smile bitterly after hearing Aunt Erhu's words: "Auntie, do you really think that I am blind and don't know that Yu Hai has private money?

I know exactly how much money he has.In fact, it's not that I'm soft-hearted towards him. I have no other choice. Isn't it all because I care about the children?

If there is no Yu Yang between us, to put it bluntly, Yu Hai cheats and still wants to live a good life, it is simply wishful thinking.

But with Yu Yang here, I can't do anything to make him fall into a desperate situation. I have to leave him some way out no matter what.

The better he gets along, the easier it will be for Yu Yang in the future.I don't care how much child support he gives to Yu Yang. He can ensure that his life is good and he won't ask for money from Yu Yang.

When he gets old, he no longer needs to provide money and serve others, and becomes a burden to Yu Yang. It is enough to maintain a nominal father-son relationship.

Besides, when Yu Hai and I divorced, the person who was hurt the most was not Yu Hai and I, but my son Yu Yang.

Yu Hai had already cheated on his wife during their marriage and remarried just after the divorce.And it would not be difficult for me to find someone to start a family with.

If I just deal with Yu Hai regardless, I will make him bankrupt and embarrassed, and he will not be able to continue working in Jinan.

The most uncomfortable thing is the children!I can't leave Yujiacun with Yu Yang.No matter how selfish Yu Hai is, he is still Yu Yang's biological father after all.

Outsiders who don't know it will sympathize with the weak, let alone one's own son!I'm just worried that Yu Yang will grow up and divorce me.

In the future, the more money I make and the better off I live, the more Yu Yang will feel sorry for his father.He would also think that I was too harsh on his father and went too far.

I don’t care about men. No one in this world can do without the other. As long as you work hard, you won’t have enough to eat.

I just couldn't let go of my son. I felt sorry for him when he was born into this divorced family.

I am blind, and I have found Yu Hai, a scumbag, and I admit my defeat.

But I can't just be happy for myself and ignore Yu Yang's feelings. He is still too young.

He doesn't know right from wrong about what happened between me and his dad, and other people's rumors are all hurtful to him.

It's not like I don't have the ability to make money, but I really didn't notice Yu Hai's idea of ​​a small private house.

Leave it to him!At the very least, he would not live a good life in the future. He could not put on an old face, confuse right and wrong in front of his son, and ask for money from his son without restraint, and ask his son to support him.

I have already thought about it, and he now pays child support according to the minimum standard.When he gets old, Yu Yang will be asked to provide him with pension benefits at the minimum standard.

You can't say that you won't support him without paying a penny, tit for tat, let your child treat you the way you treat your child.

When the time comes, even if he goes to court to sue, Yu Yang will not be afraid.It’s not like we don’t feed him, we’ll be done with him until he’s starved to death!

It is simply impossible to support my son in his old age.Doesn't he have a happy family now and have given birth to a son?

When he gets old, Yu Yang will only need to contribute at most half of his basic pension. Anyway, all the money he earns is spent on his second son.

If he makes excessive demands then, I will let Yu Yang and his second son divide the family property.

Their family is really shameless, and we, my mother and I, are not vegetarians. Who doesn’t know how to flirt with someone?

He should just burn incense and worship Buddha and live his life well!When the time comes, everyone will do their own thing, and no one will get involved in who is the best. "

The village chief and Wang Erhu looked at each other and nodded secretly, Chen Hong, what should I let them say?

She had already considered going there in 30 or [-] years, so there was no need for others to worry about her.

In the past, all of them thought that she suffered a big loss when she divorced Yu Hai. After listening to her words, they looked at the life she was living now.

It’s really hard to say who will suffer!

Yu Hai has been working in Jinan for many years and feels that he has made a difference.He looks down on the people in his hometown and his own wife.

He had an affair and got divorced, as if he thought he was fashionable and courageous. Just look at Chen Hong. He could earn more just by going to sea for more than ten years without eating or drinking.

Without him as a pig butcher, Chen Hong really doesn't eat pigs with hair on them.

Don't think that the people in the village are stupid. The Zhou Yi who came last time was tall, handsome, and full of righteousness. He was an army officer. You could tell at a glance that he was here to see Chen Hong.

During this time, there were three elderly people from the Zhou family staying in the hotel. The old lady looked similar to Zhou Yixiang.

They all have the surname Zhou, and they are all from Beijing, so they must be related to Zhou Yi.Maybe she is here to propose marriage to Chen Hong.

Isn't it obvious that the old lady was secretly inquiring about the engagement process in the village?

Maybe one day, as long as Chen Hong nods, her mother-in-law will follow her to Beijing.

Even if they didn't go to Beijing and stayed in the village, Chen Hong and his wife would still be living a prosperous life.

Their standard of living is no better than that of Tiantianxia Hotel.Yu Zhaohua and his son are not lucky!