After rebirth and divorce, I took care of my children and became rich

Chen Hong was annoyed and funny when she asked: "You little girl, why do you have such a strong desire to gossip?

You've only been in Yujiacun for a few days, and you've already learned how to join in the fun with the aunties in the village? "

After teasing Fang Xiaoying, facing the gossip group at home, Chen Hong simply told them what happened.

After hearing what Chen Hong said, even Guan Tao couldn't help but be speechless, "Oh my God, how much money does it cost to get married in a rural area?

There are too many trivial matters, not only big meetings, small meetings, engagement gifts, and exchange of postcards, but everything costs money.

The average amount spent on the four seasons gifts alone is 6000 yuan a year.But if you think about it carefully, a boxing gift costs 2000 yuan. At the current price, you really can’t buy many good things.

At first glance, it is said that four years and [-] are really not much if you calculate it carefully. "

Xiaoyun also said: "We should not underestimate the etiquette in our rural areas. We pay attention to six kinds of etiquette: chicken, fish, meat, tobacco, wine and tea.

Not only is there a lot of variety, but because we are newly married, we have to get double portions as a gift for coming to the house.

The chickens are local domestic stupid roosters, and both of them must weigh more than five or six kilograms.The current market price is fifteen or six yuan per catty, and the chicken alone is worth less than two hundred.

There are also two fish, and they all have to be big fish weighing more than three to five kilograms. The variety depends on the sincerity of the man. In the past, yellow lip fish was also given as a gift!

The most common type of giant mackerel costs more than 100 yuan.

The meat has to be pig hind legs, and a whole one weighing more than 20 kilograms has to be a little less than three hundred pounds.

Two cigarettes, each one costs no less than 50 yuan, but it also costs more than 100 yuan.

Nowadays, it’s no longer interesting to talk about bottles of wine. If you just send a box of six bottles, it will cost at least more than 100.

You also need to buy two kilograms of tea. You can’t get it for less than 50 yuan, and two kilograms will cost more than 100 yuan.

Calculate, how much do these six gifts cost in total? "

Before Guan Tao could calculate it carefully, Fang Xiaoying answered first, "I've calculated it. It's 900 yuan. So four gifts a year is not enough for 6000 yuan?"

Xiaoyun was also a little puzzled, "That's not right, sister, when my brother decided on our sister-in-law, I remember my mother nagging her every day.

Every time I go to my father-in-law’s house for a festival, I have to spend 2000 yuan!Why can’t I settle this account now? "

Chen Hong burst out laughing, "You are only counting the six gifts that your son-in-law sent to your father-in-law's door. There are other expenses, and you haven't counted them yet!

After giving the gifts, do you invite the daughter-in-law back to the groom’s house?Why don't you spend money to entertain us with good food and drinks?

When you are done sending your daughter-in-law back to her parents’ home, why don’t you give her a holiday red envelope worth hundreds of dollars?

I remember that I had never been to Weihai at that time, and I had never received this money.

When you went to your husband’s house for the holidays, you should have received two holiday red envelopes, right? "

Xiaoyun suddenly realized: "Oh, what are you talking about? My mother-in-law gave her two hundred yuan. We got engaged for a year. We went to their house twice in total and received a red envelope worth 400 yuan.

When I got married, I bought a pair of gold earrings for my mother-in-law. It cost more than 800 yuan, and I lost more than 1000 yuan! "

Chen Hong asked in confusion: "You got married, why did you pay to buy earrings for your mother-in-law?

Why have I never heard you say this? "

Xiaoyun said nonchalantly: "I was willing to buy it for her myself, and I regretted it.

They all complained about my soft ears. When I was chatting with my mother-in-law and my sister-in-law, I talked about the earrings on my mother’s ears.

My mother-in-law said that she also gave birth to three children, but her life was not as good as our mother’s and she would not be able to wear earrings until she died.

I felt uncomfortable after hearing this, so I bought her a pair after I was paid.

When I thought about it later, I realized something was wrong.Our mother's earrings were bought for her out of our filial piety as daughters.

My mother-in-law should also ask her daughter to buy it for her!Why am I being set up by her mother-in-law and buying earrings for her when I get mad?

From then on, I realized that my mother-in-law and sister-in-law were both sweet-talking and bitter-hearted people.

I've never been fooled by them again. I can't play tricks. I should stay away from their family affairs and stay away from them. I can still do it. "

Principal Jin and Mrs. Guan looked at each other and smiled, "Xiaoyun, I'm not telling you, you are really too down-to-earth child.

Don't think that married life is only about tolerance and dedication. A big family is also a small society.

Especially for families with many brothers and sisters, it is even more important to be able to be relaxed and relaxed.

Not to mention the in-law's family, even the maternal family, the relationship between family members must also be strategic.

Everyone has different character and personality, and if the relationship between family members is not handled well, life will be a mess, with constant conflicts.

From now on, when things happen, think more, watch more, listen more, and talk less!

When a person lives, there is knowledge everywhere!You are all still young and have a lot to learn in the future! "

Chen Hong, Xiaoyun and Fang Xiaoying all fell into deep thought after hearing what Director Jin said.

Director Jin’s words make sense. In one’s life, the setbacks and injuries encountered not only come from the outside world, but in fact, if the relationship at home is not handled well, it will be very harmful.

How about other words such as father and son turning against each other, brothers fighting against each other, and husband and wife breaking up?

The more harm comes from one's own, the greater the harm, and the harder it is to deal with, making it easier for people to make decisions.

Family love is so strong that it doesn't matter whether it's too light or too heavy. This level is hard to grasp.

People who have been here can see clearly that Chen Hong and Xiaoyun have never been taught the wise words of Director Jin and Mrs. Guan.

Women, how lucky it is to have a wise female elder to guide you in your family.

Although Principal Jin just gave them a pointer while chatting, she did not expect that this sentence would benefit sisters Chen Hong a lot in their future lives.

Chen Hong didn't care how the Wang Qing family fought back and forth, or how they negotiated with the Xia family in the neighboring village.

Chen Hong finally let it go. It was time to go to sea and dry fish.

Just listen to gossip and have fun, but you still have to live your life seriously.

She resumed going to sea every two or three days. Taking advantage of the good weather and suitable temperature, Chen Hong frequently went to sea for diving.

At several of her secret fishing spots, you can touch sea cucumbers, pick up sea urchins, and dig geoducks.

After raising them for a year, it’s time to harvest geoducks!

Not only does she supply goods to Dragon Palace Hotel, Mingzhu Restaurant and Liu Quantian's seafood shop every three or two days.

He also brought home some pearl oysters and scallops to the women and children at home from time to time.

When they have nothing to do at home, they all like to open shells, dig out pearls and dry dried shellfish.

These are all labor-intensive tasks. There are many of them, and they can help Chen Hong solve a lot of inventory in the space.

On this day, as soon as Chen Hong returned home from catching fish at the pier, she saw the village chief waiting for her at home.

Chen Hong parked the car, closed the door, and spoke to the village chief while unloading the car: "Uncle, why are you here and how long have you been waiting?

Just call me if you need anything. Why do you come to my house specifically to see me? "

Ever since Principal Jin and his children came to Yujia Village, the village chief's uncle stopped coming to Chen Hong's house because the guests were all women.

When Chen Hong first saw the village chief coming to look for her, she thought something big had happened.