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After eating, the four of them came out of the hotel. It was already past seven o'clock and it was already dark, but because there was snow on the ground, they could see the road clearly.

Song Hongguo gave Huo Minglou the key to her home and urged him to take the child back. It was really cold outside, and the wind from the north blew like a knife. No matter how tightly you covered your hands, feet, and face, it wouldn't take long. They are all inevitably numb from the cold.

Huo Minglou originally thought of sending her to Han Ying's grandpa's house, "I'm worried if you go alone so late..."

Song Hongguo said, "It's okay. I'll go to Uncle Lu's house first. Han Ying is waiting for me there."

Uncle Lu lives in the dormitory building in the factory, not far from here. At this time, many workshops in the factory are still working in shifts. Even if you walk alone, there is no danger.

Huo Minglou then left with his two children.

Song Hongguo waited until they were far away before buying some things from the mall and riding her bicycle to Uncle Lu's house.

It’s never easy to come empty-handed, and besides, you have to thank others for helping you arrange the work.

When she arrived after looking for the address, Uncle Lu's family had just finished eating. Han Ying saw her alone and asked in confusion, "Where are Xiaozhi and Xiaoyuan?"

Song Hongguo explained, "Huo Minglou is done with his work. I asked him to take care of them for one night, so he doesn't have to follow me anymore."

Han Ying said happily, "What a coincidence, that's great."

She felt bad that she had to let her two children go through the trouble together in the cold weather.

Uncle Lu took what she was carrying and said angrily, "Come as you please, why are you still treating me like this?"

Song Hongguo smiled and said, "Just order some food to honor you and Concubine."

Cui Yu, the eldest daughter-in-law, warmly greeted her to sit down and brought her steaming tea to warm her hands.

The few of them sat on the sofa and chatted for a while, talked about work, and discussed the details of the wedding. Then they set out from home, braved the wind and snow, and rushed to the place where Grandpa Lu lived. The road was not easy to walk, so I was very hungry. Nodding hard, it was almost ten o'clock when we arrived.

Song Hongguo was wearing a military coat and was not cold, but even though her face was wrapped in a scarf, she was still a little stiff from the wind. She couldn't feel anything in her hand holding the handlebar. She couldn't help but mutter to the system, "This kind of It’s really a shame to go out when the weather is bad..."

The system said perfunctorily without sympathy, "You are quite happy. Many people only wear a thin cotton-padded jacket, no scarves or hats, and the shoes on their feet are still padded with straw. Don't they suffer so hard?" Up?"

Song Hongguo, "..."

She looked at the others, and sure enough, everyone had a accustomed expression, and no one was complaining or irritated.

As soon as I entered the door, I felt at ease.

Grandpa Lu was of high rank and lived in a two-story building. There was a stove in the house and everything was warm. As soon as they arrived, someone brought hot tea to take care of them. Song Hongguo looked around calmly. Because there is a wedding tomorrow, there are many red happy words posted in the house, and red lanterns are hung in the yard. On the floor of the living room, there are also sewing machines and some baggage, baskets, boxes, etc., all tied with red cloth strips. It is obviously the dowry that the woman wants to take away.

Grandpa Lu has the majesty of a patriarch and is serious in speech. All his children and grandchildren are afraid of him. Only Han Ying dares to say a few words to him.

He read that Han Ying lost her mother when she was young, and he loved her very much. When he learned that she and his granddaughter were best friends, he treated Song Hongguo differently, and his attitude was rare and kind.

But it was too late, and everyone didn't bother to chat anymore. After a few pleasantries, they each washed up and went back to their rooms to rest.

Han Ying had her own bedroom here, so Song Hongguo naturally slept in the same room with her. She was used to sleeping on the hot bed. Lying on the bed, even with a thermos bottle stuffed under the quilt and a military coat on top, she still felt like she couldn't keep warm.

Han Ying couldn't sleep, so he pestered her to talk, with confusion in his tone, "I'm getting married tomorrow, but I don't have the excitement and expectation of the bride..."

"So how do you feel now?"

"It's like completing a set task. There is no sadness or joy, just like eating when you are hungry. Isn't it abnormal?"

"Aren't you nervous at all?"

Han Ying thought for a moment and shook her head, "I feel a little bit at a loss. I wonder if life will be far different from now after getting married. What if I regret it? If we get divorced, the elders on both sides will not agree... …”

Song Hongguo consoled her, "You are anxious before marriage. Many women are like this. I am the same. I try to think on the optimistic side, but be prepared for the worst. As long as you are not love-minded and don't take marriage and men too seriously, There will be no harm done.”

Han Ying said "Yes" and said in a low voice, "The eldest lady also said the same. After a woman gets married, she shouldn't just hang around the pot and children, let alone just stare at the man. She must have her own things to do. In this way Only in the family can you have status and not be looked down upon by others.”

"Young lady is right. What a woman loves most must be herself. It's not impossible to be a good wife and mother, but the prerequisite is not to lose yourself. Don't sacrifice yourself for the family. In a short time, men will be moved. Over time, No matter how much you give, it will be taken for granted.”

"The nature of Huo Gong's work is special. Once he retreats to study, won't you have to support the family alone? You won't pay for it either?"

"It's hard work, but when he's at home, he has to compensate me and take on the responsibility of being a husband and father. He's busy at work, and I'm not free at work. No one has to give in or sacrifice for anyone. Try to be tolerant and understanding of each other. , but you must not get used to it.”

Han Ying said in a complicated tone, "You and Huo Gong have such a good relationship, how can you live so soberly? Doesn't it mean that once a woman falls in love, she will easily get confused?"

Song Hongguo laughed and joked to herself, "Maybe it's not love enough?"

She did like Huo Minglou and wanted to spend her life with him, but it was far from the point where she was desperate or obsessed with him.

"It's good to have reserved love. Unlike me, I can't even fall in love..." Han Yingying said in a low voice, rarely showing a bit of loneliness, "In fact, he has been quite fond of me during this period. I I don’t object to him getting close, but I just can’t get close, and I always feel like something is missing..."

Song Hongguo asked in a low voice, "How far have you two developed?"

Han Ying said uncomfortably, "Let's hold hands and hug..."

Song Hongguo raised her eyebrows, "Have you not kissed me yet?"

Han Ying glared at her in shame, "Why are you kissing me? You're not married yet, how dare he!"

Song Hongguo reminded silently, "Have you two received the certificate? That means they are a legal couple. If someone wants to get married, it is a reasonable request and it does not exceed the rules. You didn't refuse, right?"

Han Ying said, "I even scolded him."

Song Hongguo, "..."

Thinking about it this way, Xu Wei felt quite pitiful.

"Then tomorrow night, if he wants to be intimate, you won't kick him out of bed, right?"

Han Ying rolled his eyes, "I'm not stupid."

Song Hongguo said exaggeratedly, "That's good. I heard that some women don't understand on their wedding night. They regard a man's intimacy as bullying, and are so frightened that they even cry and scream and run to their parents' house. Do you want me to help you educate yourself beforehand?" ?”

She was originally teasing Han Ying, but who would have thought that Han Ying actually responded, "Just tell me, I will learn from it to save myself from suffering later."

Song Hongguo, "..."

How can she teach this?

She was also limited to theoretical knowledge and had zero practical experience.