Reborn as a widow in the 70s

In fact, when he was a child, Zhao Xuewen always regarded Yaya as his younger sister, but as the two grew up, Zhao Xuewen slowly discovered that he seemed to have a different kind of affection for her.

Especially in the past few years when he was separated from the army, he often missed the good times he and Yaya had together.

At first he thought he was just missing home too much, but later he realized that he was just missing Ya Ya crazily.

He wanted to be with Yaya, not as a brother and sister, but as a boyfriend and girlfriend.

Zhao Xuewen was frightened by his ridiculous idea.

He was so upset that he took a day off to relax in the city where he was stationed.

It was that time that he met a female reporter from a newspaper.

The girl's wallet was robbed, and it was Zhao Xuewen who helped her catch the bad guy.

The girl was very grateful to him and wanted to treat him to dinner in return, but Zhao Xuewen refused.

Later, when Zhao Xuewen met her for the second time, she came to the army for an interview.

As the interviewee, Zhao Xuewen talked with her in the conference room all morning.

After that separation, the girl began to write frantically to express her love.

Looking at a love letter filled with love, Zhao Xuewen was not only not happy, but also distressed.

When he didn't know what to do, he asked Qian Dasheng for advice.

Qian Dasheng's opinion is very simple, just refuse if you don't like it. Although it hurts the girl's heart a little, it is better than torturing each other in the future. Don't just give in because you are embarrassed to refuse. In that case, it will only be the two of you who will suffer in the future.

After hearing this, Zhao Xuewen thought it made sense, so he continued to ask him, what should he do if he likes a girl, but doesn't know whether it is family, friendship or love?

Qian Dasheng confidently defined these three emotions.

If you feel responsible for the other person and wish her a good life, no matter who she is with, you can bless her calmly. This is family love.

If you are relaxed and happy with her, have common interests and hobbies, can share the joy of life with her, and your feelings for her can be transferred to others, this is friendship.

But if you have strong feelings for her and only focus on her, others cannot replace or distract you. When the two of you get along, she can bring you more intense happiness, and you can unconditionally support, understand and tolerate everything about her. , and as long as you have physiological reactions such as blushing and heartbeat when you think of or see her, or even want to have further physical contact, this is love.

Zhao Xuewen was suddenly enlightened by some enlightening remarks.

After making his intentions clear, Zhao Xuewen decisively rejected the female reporter.

He wanted to write a letter to Yaya to express his love, but he was afraid!

I'm afraid that if I am rejected, I won't even be able to be a brother and sister.

I kept putting it off like this, thinking that she was still young and not in a hurry.

As a result, when he came back this time, he found that Yaya was surrounded by wolves, which forced him to make a decisive decision.

Seeing Yaya sitting there with lowered eyes and not saying anything, Zhao Xuewen's heart suddenly rose to his throat.

"Yaya, actually I feel that I quite meet the mate selection criteria you just mentioned."

"I was raised by Uncle Lu, and I naturally learned a thing or two about his advantages."

"I have a very strong sense of family. You should have known this since you were a child."

"I will definitely hold you in the palm of my hand from now on and will not let you suffer any injustice!"

Just when Zhao Xuewen vowed to express his love, Yaya shyly asked.

"What do you like about me?"

Zhao Xuewen: "I like everything about you!"

"I think you are so beautiful. I want to protect you like a treasure for the rest of my life. It is the kind of protection that surpasses that of a brother and sister!"

Yaya: "But...but I always regard you as my brother!"

Zhao Xuewen: "Then you don't think of me as a brother, but as a man, a man who admires you and pursues you!"

Seeing her hesitation, Zhao Xuewen continued to speak patiently.

"I'm not in a hurry, I can wait for your answer!"

"Whether you regard me as your brother or your boyfriend in the end, as long as it comes from your true feelings, I can accept it."

"But can you promise me not to contact other boys before you formally reply to me!"

Although Yaya didn't speak, Zhao Xuewen saw her nodding and knew that she would seriously consider their relationship.

After the words were clarified, the two of them got along less naturally and casually than before.

When walking home, Yaya even deliberately kept a distance from him, fearing that others would misunderstand.

This made Zhao Xuewen very distressed.

But the words hidden in his heart were finally spoken out today, and Zhao Xuewen suddenly felt much more relaxed.

By the time they got home, Song Xiuxiu had already returned.

"Didn't I say I would arrive tomorrow afternoon? Why is it so early!"

If she had known he would come back today, Song Xiuxiu would not have gone to the clothing factory today.

Zhao Xuewen: "According to the day I asked for leave, I would arrive tomorrow afternoon, but my boss suddenly asked me to accompany him on a business trip, so I withdrew my leave application for personal reasons."

Upon hearing that she was here to work, Song Xiuxiu immediately asked, "How long can you stay?"

Zhao Xuewen: "We can stay at home for one night today and go to work tomorrow. We may have to go back at noon the day after tomorrow."

When she heard that she was going back the day after tomorrow, Song Xiuxiu immediately complained: "It's the first time I've been in the army for so many years and I'm still in such a hurry. I haven't prepared many things for you!"

Seeing this, Zhao Xuewen hurriedly stepped forward to hold her arm and coaxed with a smile: "Auntie, I am on a business trip this time. I plan to use my family leave for the New Year. Won't my grandparents also come from Hong Kong Island? Let’s have a good New Year together as a family!”

Hearing this, Song Xiuxiu said in disbelief: "Don't coax me, can you really come back to celebrate the New Year this time!"

Zhao Xuewen always said before that he would take leave and come back, but every time he could not leave because of missions, year after year, until this year he came back for the first time.

So this time Zhao Xuewen once again said that he would go home for the New Year, and Song Xiuxiu couldn't believe it.

I saw Zhao Xuewen saying seriously: "Auntie, I will definitely be able to go home for the New Year this time."

After listening to what he said, Song Xiuxiu said helplessly: "That's nice to say, but if something happens and we can't leave by then, I can't go to your army to capture you!"

"Okay, come back as soon as you can. Our family hasn't been reunited for many years!"

"Okay!" Zhao Xuewen agreed happily.

While the two were talking, Yaya quietly walked to her room, but was discovered by her mother.

"Yaya, what are you doing? Weren't you the most attached to your brother before? You always talked about when he would come back. Now that your brother is back, why are you so cold and cold? You don't even have the most basic courtesy!"

Seeing Song Xiuxiu scolding Yaya, Zhao Xuewen immediately stepped forward to rescue him.

"Auntie, we have been playing outside for a long time just now. It may be that the weather is too hot and Yaya is suffering from heat stroke. Please let her go back to the room to rest for a while!"