Urban Life: Our Youth

Cao Lijun laughed so hard that she fell backwards. She said, "In this respect, I can really be your teacher."

"Well, you can be my teacher. Just talk and I will record it." Zhang Chuying said sincerely.

"First of all, you need to change your mindset. In today's society, men and women are equal. Who says that in the marriage market, only men can take the initiative?

It is normal for a man to actively pursue a woman he likes, or for a woman to actively win the favor of a man she loves.

When we women find an excellent man, we should also take the initiative. Otherwise, if we are slow to act, he will be snatched away by other women.

However, I want to emphasize one point here: letting you take the initiative does not mean that you should take the initiative blindly.

You have to understand the other person first, including his character, occupation, emotional experience and family background, whether he has bad habits, etc. Once you have figured all these out, you can take the initiative. Of course, letting you take the initiative does not mean you can humiliate yourself. We women still have to be reserved and shy. "

Zhang Chuying took out a notebook and wrote down what she was doing. At this moment, she frowned and said, "This seems a bit difficult. You said that women should be reserved, but they should also take the initiative. Isn't this a dilemma?"

"It's not that complicated. As a woman, you don't need to express your feelings actively, but you can hint at it. For example, you can ask him out for dinner or to the movies. If you want to sleep with him, you can ask him out for a trip."

"travel?"

“Travel is a very complex and meaningful special activity between men and women.

During the travel, many problems can be discovered, such as whether he has a plan in advance, whether he has made a strategy, whether he takes the initiative to pay the bill, etc. Of course, here, I am not saying that we women must take advantage of men. I advocate AA.

Otherwise, men will look down on us.”

Zhang Chuying listened and thought for a moment, then said, "What you said seems to make sense."

"Of course, the whole journey is important, but if it is a trip of more than two days, then accommodation becomes a problem at night."

Zhang Chuying seemed to understand after hearing this, and said with a sly smile: "So, this is the key to the problem."

"If you are very satisfied with the boy after the inspection, then when you check in at night, you can say, 'Don't book two rooms, it's a waste.'

In this way, smart boys will naturally understand what you mean.

In other words, if you are not satisfied with the boy, you can say, "Men and women are different, men and women should not touch each other, so of course we should open two rooms."

If that boy is sensible, he will naturally understand what you mean."

"I see that what you said makes sense. So, tell me the truth. Did you use this trick to get Wang Zheng in your hands?" Zhang Chuying said with a smile.

Cao Lijuan smiled and said, "Guess what? Actually, I have many tricks. This is just one of them."

"Oh, so what are your tricks? Tell me more."

"I won't say any more, or else people will say that I have corrupted others."

"You're not bad, you're a good person, okay?"

"What's the point of learning all this? Do you want to force Li Shaozhe to submit?"

"So what do you think, is it okay?"

"If that's the case, I can teach you another trick. It can make your wish come true without losing face."