Urban Life: Our Youth

"The woman said she went to take a bath, did she really go to take a bath?" the young master asked.

"If you weren't going to take a shower, what were you going to do?" Zhou Youcai was a little confused after hearing this.

"Generally speaking, if after a while, she takes the initiative to reply to your message, it means that she really went to take a shower just now. Otherwise, it is an excuse to not want to chat with you. If a woman really likes you, Even if she is taking a shower, it will not delay her from sending a message. This is the magic of love, do you understand?"

"Oh, so that's what it is."

"WeChat chat is also divided into levels. Text chat is at the elementary level, and voice chat is at the intermediate level. Think about it, who do you usually call the most?"

"Of course it's my parents," Zhou Youcai said.

"Yes, we will only often call people we know well and trust. In the same way, if a girl calls you often, it means that the relationship between you is already very close."

"Makes sense."

"Video chat is more advanced. If a girl often takes the initiative to video chat with you, it means that she has a crush on you."

"I've never had a girl video chat with me."

"Don't worry, it didn't happen before, it doesn't mean it won't happen in the future. Of course, the most important thing is to invite and meet. Do you know how to send a WeChat to invite a girl?" Young Master said.

"Is there anything special about this?" Zhou Youcai said.

"Of course, I think you can send a vague invitation before formally inviting the girl."

"What is a vague invitation?"

"For example, 'Let me invite you to have a cup of coffee when you have time.' If you don't specify a specific date, this is called a vague invitation. If the other party answers yes, then you can make a formal invitation." Gongzi said.

"However, except for having a meal together on the day we bought the house, Zhang Chuying and I have never had a meal alone together until now."

"Then how did you date her?"

"Usually, I will send her a WeChat message before dinner, 'Are you free tonight? I would like to treat you to dinner.' That's it." Zhou Youcai said.

"How did she respond to you?" Young Master asked.

"Usually she ignores me."

"I have told you just now that there is really no chance between you and her. Just give up. However, there is also a problem with the message you sent. Next time you meet a girl you like, wait. After you get acquainted with her, send her this message two to three days in advance, 'I heard that the newly opened XX Spicy Shrimp on XX Road is delicious. It's not far from your house. I'm going to eat there on Saturday night. You Come along too.’ Remember?”

"This sentence seems to be no different from what I just said." Zhou Youcai said.

"How can there be no difference? This shows that you are too careless. First of all, you have to invite girls two to three days in advance, at least one day in advance. This is polite, but you are late at night, and everyone wants to It’s dinner, but you said you wanted to invite someone to dinner. Do you think they want to eat your meal because they don’t have anything to eat? Secondly, people like to eat close to their homes and in familiar places, especially if you are not a She may have felt insecure in her heart before she was very familiar with her. Thirdly, if you tell a girl that you want to eat, it is an established fact. That is to say, you will eat regardless of whether the girl comes or not. In this case, the girl's psychology There will be very little pressure, do you understand?”