Urban Life: Our Youth

"What do you think of Coach Ma giving us cycling lessons tonight?"

"pretty good."

"How about I introduce you from the middle." The young master said with a smile.

"Put me down, can people like me?"

"It's hard to say this. However, let me tell you, girls who like fitness will have higher requirements for men's bodies, especially female coaches, not to mention. So, for your own health, anyway Regardless of whether you want to find a partner in the future, you have to persist in fitness and exercise for a long time, preferably for life." Gongzi said.

"What you said seems to make sense, but this is really too hard. I don't think I can persevere."

"Think about it, you are not short of money now. If you have a good figure, maybe Zhang Chuying will also be impressed by you."

"Really? If we can really catch up with her, it will be worth the trouble." Zhou Youcai said.

"I said, why are you so stubborn? I have told you before that she is not your cup of tea. She has already been married. Why can't you turn around? Do you think you are sincere? , is gold and stone open?"

"Isn't that what everyone says?"

"Let me tell you, when a woman likes you, she already has the answer the moment you meet for the first time. It may not take more than a second, and the woman's sixth sense can already judge whether you are suitable for her. . If she has already passed you in her heart, it will be useless no matter how hard you try. Moreover, I tell you, you have to change your mind. Opposites of the opposite sex are attracted to each other, rather than pursuing blindly. Do you understand?" Young Master said. .

"What's the difference between attraction and pursuit?"

"Of course there is a difference. For example, if a beggar kneels on the ground and says to a beautiful girl, marry me, I will love you and love you for the rest of my life. Do you think the girl will agree? "

"I probably won't agree."

"If it were the hero He Han from "The First Half of My Life" who told the girl that I like you very much and asked you to marry me, do you think that girl would be willing?"

"Then most of her will agree."

"This is the difference between pursuit and attraction. If a man without any value wants to pursue a beautiful girl, it can basically be said that there is no chance; therefore, we must work hard to manage ourselves, constantly improve ourselves, and become A valuable person, the so-called value may be your wealth, education, professional skills, social status, emotional intelligence, sense of humor, etc. It also includes your figure and appearance. In short, in a word, you have to work hard to change yourself. Become a person worthy of girls’ love.” Young Master said.

"Listening to what you said, I feel like I understand a little bit of the truth." Zhou Youcai said.

"Some things are destined and cannot be changed, such as your age and height. However, some things can be changed through hard work, such as your figure. If a man is overweight, the estrogen in his body will rise. , androgens will decrease, and male hormones will also decrease accordingly, making them more feminine and lacking the masculine beauty of men. Besides age, some people are clearly 30 years old, but their hair has fallen out, and they look like 50 years old, and some people are actually 50 years old. They look rosy and energetic, as if they are only in their 30s. Why is this? For the same reason, people who are too obese will age easily."