Go wild! son-in-law

People become cautious when talking to each other after being separated for a period of time, as Cao Xingwang is doing now. Cao Heng clearly feels that the relationship is no longer as close as before.

There were a lot of things I wanted to say but I held back, just briefly chatting about recent events, and then they dispersed after the meal.

Feeling depressed in his heart, he didn't want to take it home and let his wife share the burden, so he found a park to sit down. Cao Heng didn't know what was wrong, but there seemed to be a lump in his chest.

In the square not far away, old aunties were singing and dancing to the music. Suddenly, they realized that people today did not look old.

As far as I can remember, the old man was just in his early sixties, but he looked older than the people in their seventies and eighties today.

You still need to have a secure life. With good material conditions, people will naturally be in a good mood. Although they may be troubled by other worries, they will not make them unable to sleep. You will definitely not be able to sleep if you are hungry.

Eating is the most important thing in life, and the most annoying thing is the most common three meals a day in daily life. Solving the trouble of three meals a day can solve most problems...

"Brother, please lift your legs."

Cao Heng raised his eyes slightly and saw a well-dressed young man of similar age carrying a transparent plastic bag with many bottles and cans he picked up.

He lowered his head and glanced at a can that was under his feet. Cao Heng raised his foot and kicked the can to the side: "You don't look like a person who is short of work or money."

The young man who bent over to pick up cans was stunned for a moment and said: "I have a job. The salary is not very high, but it is not to the point where I have to pick up garbage to make a living. The work pressure is too great. I have tried many ways to relieve stress and found that picking up garbage is the best." stress reliever."

"How much can you sell for one night?" I just wanted to find someone to chat with.

"What do you mean? I don't quite understand..."

"Don't be nervous, I'm not gay." Cao Heng took out a hundred-yuan bill from his pocket and handed it to him: "Sit here and chat with me for a while. I'll buy you an hour."

The young man was not polite and reached out to take the money and put it in his pocket: "I can chat with you until ten o'clock."

Cao Heng looked at his clothes carefully and said, "You should be a corporate executive, right? You go out to pick up trash after get off work. Don't you worry about being discovered and complaining to your boss?"

"After get off work is a person's free time, some people use it for sex, some people use it to play games, and some people use it to sleep. What's wrong with me using it to pick up garbage? The bosses of big companies are very awesome."

It seems that there are a lot of emotions accumulated at work. Seeing him so excited, Cao Heng raised a smile and said, "Are you very dissatisfied with your current job?"

"Few people are satisfied with their current jobs. Many people just do it for food and clothing. Some people often talk about love, but it's just that the high income makes them have to love... "

After spending money to find someone to chat with, Cao Heng unexpectedly turned into an emotional trash can, interrupting him and continuing to complain: "Don't get the wrong position, I am the boss who paid you to chat, how could you... .”

"It's not important, it's not important. You are just bored and looking for someone to chat with." The young man patted the flower bed next to Cao Heng and sat down. "You look like you live a carefree life and are looking for trouble."

"Maybe you're right, what about you? Where does your pressure come from?"

"I...come from life. In this first-tier city, people like us are called golden collars. We belong to the middle class, but it is unstable. If a project is messed up, we will lose our current status at any time. Life and jobs are in other people’s hands.”

The struggle of the golden-collar class is the most serious. They can enter the middle class without owning their own industry, and they can reach a century old age, but they often cannot bear the risks, and their fate is in the hands of others. Cao Heng said:

"It's not as serious as you said. The boss is allowed to make mistakes. No one can always guarantee that there will be no mistakes. The execution direction of a project must be constantly changed, and eventually it must return to the established goal."

"The cost of making mistakes in Jinling is very high. The boss wants to keep you, and the company's shareholders will not allow you to play with their money at a loss. There are a lot of people who are watching you make mistakes." It is very applicable to the workplace when you put your achievements into ruins.

Ordinary front-line employees at the bottom will not have any disputes of interest, and they will not have any real friends at the top, and their smiles are all just for fun.

Cao Heng said: "Companies generally give management the opportunity to correct mistakes. Only by accumulating the experience of the last failure can we avoid these problems in the next project. Who can guarantee that there will be no problems if someone else comes in?"

"As long as the price is in place, you will never worry about recruiting the people you want. As I understand it, whether a person can be sold or not is just a matter of price. The bottom line can be exceeded by increasing the price..."

Cao Heng listened patiently to his complaints. He had a phone in his pocket and went to the side to answer it with a few words, "I know." When he came back, the young man didn't seem to notice that he had left.

"You are so dissatisfied with your current job. Why don't you want to leave and change your life? Find a place with a good environment and build a farm away from the crowd. Plant the land every day, read a book, take a nap when you feel sleepy, and have a drink in the afternoon. Tea, it’s not good!” Cao Heng’s previous ideal life was like this.

I forget how old I was when I first had such an idea. After that, my path deviated further and further away from my original ideal.

The young man sighed: "Curious about the unknown, seeing the glamorous appearance of others, looking down at myself in a dusty state, vowing to recreate other people's lives, but when I get it, I find that it is not what I want.

We want to go back, but we can't find the exit we came from, and we keep wandering in a circle that doesn't belong to us. We fall into a strange circle, unable to go back to the past, and unable to integrate into the current environment. "

Assuming he was reborn or returned to 20 years ago, Cao Heng would not hesitate to choose the present. He did not want to experience the days of not having enough to eat, not having enough clothes to wear, and being bullied again:

"Everything you do has a price. How can you have all the good things alone? You are a typical person who has eaten enough to support himself. If I have to choose to stay in the present or go back to the past, I will choose the current life without hesitation. , unless the time you passed was wonderful.”

The two strangers chatted for a long time. No one asked each other's name, contact information, or occupation. They treated each other as passers-by who met by chance and chatted for a few words.

The aunts who danced in the square dispersed, and the people who walked their dogs and cats went home. They were the only ones sitting in the park complaining about each other. Cao Heng changed from the person who poured chicken soup to his style. People who complain.

During this period, I received seven or eight phone calls from my wife, each time in a more unkind tone, bidding farewell to this strange young man and going home.

It’s been a long time since I had such a fun chat with someone. Cao Heng admits that he is not a person who likes to complain. Unhappy things in life will be accumulated in his heart and he will slowly digest or communicate them.

For the first time, I experienced the joy of finding someone to complain about.