The secrets of the sales lady that cannot be told

"Um, Brother Gang, you and your sister-in-law don't have a child yet? You have been enjoying the world of two people and you don't want a baby, or... you don't plan to have one?"

Liu Yanan suddenly thought of this and looked at Liu Gang and asked.

Regarding this issue, Liu Gang has actually thought about it. Before, the conditions did not allow it, so he didn't plan to ask for it. Later, it got better, and Sun Fei and Gao Xiang had an incident, so he never asked for it.

Now Liu Yanan asked, but he didn't know how to answer.

After thinking about it, Liu just said: "Well... we actually didn't plan to have one. When we first got married, the conditions were average. As you know, having a child would be very expensive, so we haven't had one until now. Regardless of the current conditions, the cost of raising a child is too high. Someone has calculated that the total cost of a child after he is born and goes to college is more than 140 million. The remaining cost is too high, and it is still Not counting finding a job for the children and getting married.”

"If you want to think about it, a girl needs to prepare a dowry. No matter how shabby it is, it will cost 20 to 50 yuan. This is still a small amount. If it is more, it may be 400 to 100 million yuan. After all, buying a car is not too much for marriage, right? If it is a boy... Haha, I’m afraid I won’t be able to afford it without three to four million. Even if I don’t spend this much, I still have to have more than [-] million, otherwise I won’t be able to come up with the down payment for the house, so... the cost of living is too high, and we also You have to think about old-age care, tell me, these are all problems."

When Liu Gang said about me, Liu Yanan also looked shocked. She has not reached this age yet. Now when she heard Liu Gang say this, she felt sad in her heart.

This is indeed the case. Just because you haven't thought about it doesn't mean you don't have it. These problems are actually right in front of you and no one can escape them, such as childbirth, schooling, employment, starting a family, and caring for the elderly.

"You really woke up the dreamer with your words. I have never thought about this problem. I just thought that marriage is a matter between two people. I never thought about it so much. Now that I hear you say it, it is really the case, and it is also Not counting other things, such as daily trivial matters, and if you include quarrels and so on, it is not just a matter of money, but also a matter of love and time. Good guy, getting married is too scary~"

Liu Yanan stuck out her tongue after speaking, and then continued eating.

Liu Gang has been through it all, but not completely. He can figure out these problems, but he is trapped in them and cannot save himself.

It's the same with Sun Fei. I don't know whether to advance or retreat. This feeling is very contradictory and I can't make a decisive result.

"Yes, sometimes we have to consider the issues of both parents. Even if there are no problems between the two, they may quarrel over trivial family matters, and some things may change because of them."

Liu Gang thought thoughtfully, he and Sun Fei were like, if Sun Fei's parents hadn't been sick at that time and hadn't waited for money to save their lives, Sun Fei might not have done anything to Gao Xiang. Thinking about it now, it's really painful, but Liu Gang also You can't hate Sun Fei's parents, they are innocent.

"Okay, let's not talk about this anymore. This topic is endless and gives me a headache. Finally, relax today and let's talk about something happy. By the way, what is your current situation and what are your parents doing? Are you okay? What are you going to do after graduation? Are you going to work right away, or are you going to take the postgraduate entrance examination?"

Liu Gang didn't know, so he looked at Liu Yanan and asked. Liu Yanan didn't know either, but the postgraduate entrance examination required a lot of money, at least more than [-], and she couldn't afford the money.

She earned 2 yuan from Liu Gang a few days ago, and now she only has about [-] yuan in her pocket. Without this [-] yuan, she would only have more than [-] yuan, which is not enough to do anything. Moreover, she has to send money home from time to time. After graduation, there was little progress in other matters. She still planned to find a job first. Otherwise, she would not be able to survive, so how could she consider others.

"Let's work first, and then let's talk about other things. I need to transfer at least [-] yuan a month. I've already thought about it. I'll find a job for [-] yuan or [-] yuan, which should be about the same. Then I can do some side business on my own, so it shouldn't be a problem to make more than [-] yuan."

Liu Yanan thought better, and Liu Gang also felt that it was too idealistic. Now, to put it simply, a job with five or six thousand yuan may not be easy to find. But fortunately, Liu Yanan is a girl and she is so beautiful. It should be easy to find a better job. Disaster.

"Well, it's a good idea that you have. You have to fight when you should fight. Otherwise, you will lose your energy when you get older, and you will regret it then. In fact, I did. I was wasted for several years, and I was still infected at that time. Gambling addiction, if it weren't for your sister-in-law... I might have been disabled long ago, but your sister-in-law is also... Hey, why am I telling you this? Come on, don't talk about this anymore, drink and drink."

Liu Gang couldn't help but talk about this, and he thanked Sun Fei from the bottom of his heart, but Sun Fei's behavior still cannot be completely forgiven by him.

Liu Yanan was also surprised. She didn't expect that Liu Gang, who seemed so hardworking and willing to work, was actually a bad gambler before, and he still relied on his wife. It was really incredible.

"real or fake?"

Liu Yanan didn't believe it. It was rare to understand Liu Gang today, so he continued to ask.

Liu Gang took a deep breath, lit a cigarette, took a long puff, and said: "Really, the situation at that time... was actually a bit complicated. I had a bit of a mental breakdown, so I broke the pot and broke it. With your sister-in-law, The relationship between us was deteriorating day by day, but it got better later. Of course, I didn’t rely on myself to be where I am today. It’s very difficult for a man to prosper. I relied on your sister-in-law to make my fortune. Tell me. I’m not afraid of your jokes. But this is how society is now. It’s easy for women to stand out, but it’s even harder for men.”

This is not a prejudice, but a normal logic. What would happen to Sun Fei if she didn't have Gao Xiang?

At that time, she was at home and just a full-time young woman.

Gang Liu couldn't live without Sun Fei today, but he was hurt so deeply that he couldn't live without Sun Fei either.

"It seems that there are many stories between you two. Your relationship must be very deep, right?"

Seeing this, Liu Yanan continued to ask, and looked at Liu Gang expectantly, as if he wanted to know very much.

Liu Gang paused for a moment and did not answer immediately. Instead, he thought about it and then said: "This question... to be honest, it's not easy to answer. I want to say yes. You may be envious, but in fact... it's a bit cruel. You You may say that I am ruthless and unsentimental, but there are some things that I don’t want to say. In short, there is no pure right or wrong in relationships. Some problems are very complicated and cannot be evaluated in terms of right and wrong. You say, if in order to save If your parents ask you to go behind your husband's back to accompany another man, will you agree?"

Liu Yanan was stunned and couldn't give an immediate answer, but his eyes changed a little, and he seemed to understand something.

Liu Gang didn't want to say it, but when his emotions reached this point, he said it out loud.

But after saying that, he regretted it!