Marriage in crisis

When I saw her expression, I knew she was serious, so I struck while the iron was hot.

"So I hope you are happy, but you have to understand one thing, attitude, attitude determines the success or failure of your life. You have to know how to be roundabout and solve problems in different ways." I said this with a very sincere expression, with a bit of earnest advice.

Haizhen was really listening seriously at this time.

"You think you can't stand being looked down upon by others, but in fact no one can stand it. Especially men. If you love him, you should give him enough space and time to love you, instead of blindly talking about him in front of others and making him lose face."

The corner of Zhou Haizhen's mouth twitched, and just as she was about to open her mouth, "I..."

"Don't say you didn't have it, and there are many such times! This is not love, this is you slowly consuming your good impression in his heart. No matter how much you love someone, the emotion will be withdrawn very quickly.

"If you harm your wife, you will never make any money. If you harm your husband, everything will go wrong! Be nice to each other, and be even better!" I watched her teach softly, which was really like teaching by hand.

Fortunately, Zhou Haizhen was now able to listen and nodded continuously.

I smiled and softened my tone, “Originally, I criticized him for rushing out of the west building yesterday, and he really realized his shortcomings. He kept saying that he really ignored your feelings and always thought that his lover would understand.

But then, your series of actions and attitudes made him realize his own problems and brought him back to the status quo. Your kindness collapsed again."

"I was just impulsive and couldn't control myself! Really..." Zhou Haizhen explained, "I didn't think too much about it!"

"You should be content! Everyone can see how deep Shen Kuo's love for you is. He can't stand any suppression or slightest grievance from anyone, and he wants to slap them in the face with something more realistic. But what about you? Haizhen!

I also said something to Shen Kuo yesterday. No one is always unilaterally tolerant and yielding. You slap him in the face every day, and he still has to kneel down and smile at you. Is that the kind of man you want to be a coward? "

Haizhen looked at me with a look of deeper guilt, "Nini, I was wrong! I was really wrong!"

"You two... you already have a child, but you still don't know how to get along with each other! Your brother said that this is called running-in! But can I ask you for something?"

I looked at Zhou Haizhen and took the conversation back. She had already realized her mistake, so she should be given a chance to correct it.

Haizhen nodded immediately, "You speak, I listen!"

"Whenever you feel like losing your temper, think about what the result will be if I use a roundabout and gentle policy to deal with it! Remember one thing, the bigger your temper is, the more he loves you! His temporary compromise is definitely not a lifetime compromise with you.

A man like Shen Kuo is definitely a rare and excellent one. If you don't give him enough space, you will definitely be the one who suffers. Don't disappoint the one you love!" After I said that, I ate another small bun. The meat filling was really delicious.

"Well! I... Hi! I understand, but... he..." Zhou Haizhen looked at me helplessly, "How can I... make up for it... I mean, how can I make up for the mistake I made last night? I'm afraid he's got a grudge against me!"

"Take action!"

I smiled and said, "Don't be like a burning gas, catching fire at the slightest spark! Women should overcome hardness with gentleness. Of course, the premise is that the man understands your gentleness and rationality, and doesn't just ask you to tolerate. But I think Shen Kuo definitely understands this, what do you think?"

"Hi! Me too!" Zhou Haizhen lowered her head. "I always have an obsession in my mind. I'm afraid that he will... look down on me. I'm afraid that the Shen family will look down on me! If we're not married..."

"Why do you have such an idea? Where is your confidence?" I looked at her, reached out and took her hand on the table, and squeezed it. "The right person will never be separated, and the one who is separated in the end is definitely not your right person. Just keep a normal mind!"

"Besides, this is an era where getting pregnant before marriage is very common. You shouldn't burden yourself. You don't think that Shen Kuo and the Shen family don't mention holding this wedding because they don't care about you? So you feel unsure?" I looked at her and asked.

She looked at me and nodded affirmatively, her eyes sparkling and filled with worry.

PS: I would like to say that some of you may find these chapters redundant, but I want to tell you that if you read them patiently and carefully, they will be helpful to every beautiful woman who is confused about marriage. I hope all my babies can have a happy and harmonious family!