Marriage in crisis

Seeing that Zhou Haizhen was a little discouraged, I quickly encouraged her and gave her some advice, "You don't have to worry. As the saying goes, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. First of all, you have to prove whether you really like this person."

Zhou Haizhen lay there motionless, her eyelashes trembling.

"You have to think more carefully about whether he has something in common with you, and whether he is the person you want who can be with you through thick and thin! If you are sure, it will be easy to handle!"

She sat up again and looked at me on the screen seriously, "Nini, I have also thought about it. To be honest, he is a poor-talking person, but he is reliable! Do you think he can be a leader in the industry? How many people can there be? He is still very low-key. Even if he has reached this status, no one knows that he is Master Long..."

"Wait a minute..." I immediately interrupted her and asked, "Are you looking for a lover or an idol? You have to make it clear. These two points cannot be confused!"

"I'm not confused. I did think he was quite mysterious at first. I was even more shocked to find out that he was Mr. Long. I didn't expect Mr. Long to be such a low-key person! Do you know that his number is simply the best in the industry? A god-like existence!" Zhou Haizhen said this, her eyes flashing.

Obviously, she felt admiration for him.

"You still have more worship than emotion, which is very dangerous, you know!" I said frankly and honestly without hiding my views.

"I'm not!" Zhou Haizhen said, "The first time I saw him, he was an electrician. He appeared in front of me in work clothes. To be honest, he looked ugly. At that time, I was really eager to save you, but I didn't even think about it. Look at him one more time!..."

"That's fine, but after you found out that he was the famous Lord Long, your heart started to beat, and you started to look at him differently! You want to find out why he is Lord Long, and why he can be among the best among people. Leader?"

I directly told Zhou Haizhen what I was thinking, but she didn't move and still looked at me.

"This is what attracts you, right? But let me tell you, once his idol baggage is gone, you will find his shortcomings. He is not the image you imagined. He is no longer mysterious and halo. You You may even feel that you are being extreme. You are just an ordinary person, and you may have many shortcomings that you cannot tolerate. Once that happens, it will be too late to regret it!"

I talked to myself, not caring about Zhou Haizhen's feelings. In fact, as long as it involves emotional issues, the authorities are obsessed with it! I think you have to wake her up, otherwise she will keep struggling in the whirlpool.

Zhou Haizhen was speechless, "If you want to say this, then I'd better not step on this thunder!"

"Then it depends on your heart! If no matter how hard you try, you can't escape his shadow and want to get close to him, even if you go up mountains of swords and seas of fire, you want to follow him, then you don't have to hesitate."

"It's not like this!" She muttered.

In fact, from the day Shen Kuo asked Zhou Haizhen to buy him food in the hospital, I realized that there was something wrong with these two people, but my intuition told me that Shen Kuo was not unmoved, but rather sober.

"So now you'd better calm down and think about it. Let yourself learn to be calm and calm, shift your attention, concentrate on work, vacation, and spend time with your family. Instead of thinking about him hysterically and letting him influence your life Thoughts, emotions, and decisions. Then you’re done!”

I gave her the method.

From what I see, Zhou Haizhen is a bit radical now.

"And then?" she asked.

"Then just wait?" I said.

"Wait? How long do I have to wait?" She couldn't accept it.

"You have been single for so many years, is it difficult for you to wait a few more days?" I retorted to her, "I didn't see that you really hate getting married!"

"Don't hurt me!" Zhou Haizhen was so angry that she was about to cry without tears.

"I won't keep you waiting long!" I said with confidence, "But this process is indeed very painful and will test your endurance."

I continued calmly, "If he has you in his heart, he will be restless and scratching his head! Only when he reaches this point will he realize whether he loves you or not. I need you and want to be with you! Instead of playing ambiguous games with you!"

After hearing my words, Zhou Haizhen suddenly slapped her thigh, and then grinned in pain and said, "Oh, I'll go, bystanders know! That's the truth! But I'm afraid I can't control this speed. If it cools down, Does he think I’m rejecting it?”