Marriage in crisis

I held the phone helplessly and looked at She Hui, "That's it, you're crazy! How to deal with it!"

She Hui smiled, "It seems like there's no going back for a while!"

"That won't work. I'm thinking about Sanbao!" I was a little anxious. To be honest now, I didn't want to leave Sanbao at all. He was like a walking story teller, telling stories in the blink of an eye. Moreover, they all have a fatal attraction for me.

She Hui glanced at me and said, "Why are you anxious? There are so many people in the family looking at him, why are you anxious?"

"Don't I want to deepen my relationship with him?" I looked at She Hui and said sincerely.

"That can't be done in a day or two!" She Hui comforted me, "To be honest, it's all in vain. Mother and son are connected! I don't think he and you recognize each other at all!"

When I said this, I felt like I was in a rush. "You're right. I knew as soon as I saw him that he was my son. And he didn't avoid me. He was quite willing to follow me. He was so well-behaved. By chance, he leaned into my arms. I also looked for Qiu Meiying several times, but I didn’t let go, so he stopped looking for her!”

"Speaking of this, I really have to say that I have to thank Qiu Meiying. She is a good woman and very kind! She takes good care of the children so well!" She Hui said sincerely.

"You're absolutely right! If it were someone with a bad character, this child might not be what he is!" I sighed, "I'm scared just thinking about it!"

"Now that's it, let me ask you, how do you plan to deal with Qiu Meiying?" She Hui looked at me and asked.

I was stopped by her question and looked at her, "Sister Xiaohui, I've thought about this problem too, what do you think I should do about it? I have no idea!"

She Hui said nothing, thinking deeply, "This is really a thorny issue. Logically speaking, with the strength of your family, it is not a problem to raise one or two more people, but I think..."

When she said this, she glanced at me and hesitated to speak.

"If you have something to say, just say it. Otherwise, why would I ask you? In fact, if you don't ask, I will ask you too!" I told the truth.

"It depends on what you think about this question. If it were me..."

She looked at me again, and I looked at her intently, waiting for her to continue.

"If it were me, even though she is the hero of our family, I would not keep her when it comes to educating our children!" She Hui said firmly.

My heart skipped a beat, it felt bad. But She Hui's words hit a certain acupuncture point in me.

In fact, I have to admit that this is a selfish thought that I don't want to face.

I murmured, "But I think this is too cruel for Qiu Meiying!"

She Hui immediately retorted, "There is no way. This is the fact. The fact is that the child is not hers, it is ours, and we have this right. Although she has such a fate with the child, that is all. She replaced No facts.”

I didn't say anything. What She Hui said was cruel, but it was the truth.

"After all, the child is raised from the age of three to the old! The mother is the child's first teacher! Qiu Meiying's cultural background is all there. It was fate that made the child fall into her hands. I have to say, She has merit and hard work. But this is not the reason for her to stay. If she compares with you, she will definitely be smaller."

I can't refute this. Although I don't agree with status, Qiu Meiying's definition is just a good woman.

Seeing that I was listening seriously, She Hui continued to say firmly, "Anyway, I feel that it is not conducive to educating children. If she always stays by the child's side, I don't think it is a good thing."

"Why?" I looked at She Hui and asked.

In fact, I know the answer to this question.

However, the reason why I asked Shehui was that I wanted her to help me make up my mind.

She Hui was unambiguous and said directly, "You think, sometimes she can still influence the child's thinking. Even a small thing, a look, a small movement... can influence the child."

I admit what She Hui said. Sometimes now, as long as it concerns the children, although Qiu Meiying doesn't dare to speak or move, her eyes are always looking at me.

That feeling gave me the feeling that she was influencing me, urging me, asking me for help, or maybe it was a hint.

She Hui continued, "That way, over time, there will definitely be consequences! What do you think?"

Instead of responding, I was thinking.

"Anyway, this is my personal opinion. You can think about it yourself. Of course, there are advantages to her being here. For example, when you leave, she will still be better than others in taking care of the children."

She Hui looked at me and added, "After all, she is the most familiar with the Three Jewels. But on the contrary, this is also the biggest shortcoming!"

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