Stirring military marriage: Dr. Juan Wang is pampered like a spoiled wife

Although Wu Youmei was used to seeing strong winds and waves, her eyes widened when she heard Su Yun's words.

When she came back to her senses, she couldn't hide her embarrassment. Although she was both a woman, she always felt a little uncomfortable talking about this topic. Besides, she was still unmarried. Isn't Xiao Su too...

"Xiao Su, what do you want this for?" Wu Youmei took a deep breath and asked.

Xiao Su’s husband, Captain Han Lingyuan, she had met several times. He was a talented person and had a good reputation in the military region. Before marrying Xiao Su, he was famously a hot commodity, and all the unmarried girls were there for him. A big fight. The reward that the Public Security Bureau sent to his unit last time was also given to him by himself. He was not very happy that his wife had won the honor for him, but could not hide his worry.

Wu Youmei had a very good impression of Han Lingyuan. She didn't think this couple needed to receive this. They didn't have a son or a daughter. Most of the people who get this will get it because they have too many children at home and they can't afford it.

Xiao Su was still young and didn't understand this, so Wu Youmei felt that she had an obligation to argue with her.

"Is it the one in your family who wants you to receive this?"

Wu Youmei frowned and asked her doubts. If that were the case, her impression of Han Lingyuan would be greatly reduced. In her heart, Xiao Su's status was much higher than that of her husband. At her age, if she had a daughter, she would be as old as Xiao Su.

She is unmarried, but all the brothers and sisters in the family are married.

She was used to seeing these men and women, some were in harmony, some were incompatible, and some were even seemingly incompatible. Women were always at a disadvantage in marriage.

She had been hurt in love, but she chose to remain unmarried. She was probably used to those irresponsible men. After marrying a daughter-in-law, she treated her as a nanny and didn't know how to cherish her. This kind of life is not as happy as being single. You get your own salary. Why should you subsidize the person who works as a nanny for a whole family? You work so hard and no one says good things about you. No matter what you do, you are wrong. It is natural to pay for this family.

Wu Youmei is glad that she is a person with independent opinions and a job. She can rely on herself and live her life without having to look at other people's eyes.

Her sister is a person with no independent opinions. She is beaten every day and refuses to divorce. Her brother-in-law is prone to domestic violence, but her sister said that for the sake of the two children in the family, she cannot divorce him. If he divorces the children, they will have no father. In her opinion, it is better not to have such a father? Her two nieces privately advised her sister to divorce, but her sister refused to agree, saying that if she divorced, she would be drowned in the spit of outsiders. All said and done, it was his own fault. On the surface, he was using the banner of his niece as a cover, but in fact, he didn't want to leave and would rather be bullied. He was a typical masochist.

She tried to persuade her a few times, but she didn't bother to do so. It was useless and pointless, and her sister told her that she would not get married. People outside said such unpleasant things. She wanted to pry open her sister's head and see what was going on inside. Is it feces or urine?

Wu Youmei's face was solemn, and she was thinking a little too far. Su Yun knew that she must have thought wrongly, and hurriedly said: "I want to take it, not him."

"We have just gotten married and don't want to have children so early. Besides, I think I'm still young and want to wait. People say having children too early is bad for a woman's health."

Su Yun is honest and sincere.

"Older mothers are not good for women." Wu Youmei is still clear about this common sense.

"Deputy Director Wu, I'm only nineteen years old. Isn't that considered older?" Su Yun's expression was a bit unbearable. She had just become a married woman, so would she be classified as older? This is too terrible.

"Then you are young." Su Yun didn't behave like a nineteen-year-old at all. Wu Youmei admired her and subconsciously forgot her true age, forgetting that she was only nineteen years old and in the prime of her youth. .

"I just plan to wait a few years before thinking about children."

"several years?"

"You need three or four years, right? Twenty-five is the best age for women to have children. I heard this from a well-known doctor when I went to Shanghai this time, so I put this on my itinerary when I came back. And I used to Falling into water, being exposed to cold, and having a baby too early are also bad for your health.”

Su Yun gave this age purely because she just wanted to have children and thought she would have to wait until after graduating from college.

After the college entrance examination resumed enrollment in 1977, the undergraduate program has been four years. In the late [-]s, majors such as architecture, urban planning, and clinical medicine increased the program to five years.

Su Yun felt that she should have no problem getting a bachelor's degree, so four years was the foundation. She said it was less just to comfort Wu Youmei. For people of this generation, even if Wu Youmei is a different kind of person, it is probably difficult to accept that a couple does not plan to have children after three or four years of marriage. In my previous life, there were many such things, including weekend couples and DINK couples. It would be childish to not have children after three or four years of marriage.

"Does your family also agree?"

Wu Youmei was a little surprised. Nowadays, men marry wives to continue their offspring. If you don't have children for a few years, if there is no man standing in front of you, many people outside will doubt that you will be able to give birth, and they will drown you in unpleasant words. Although Su Yun didn't care, Wu Youmei felt a headache when she thought about it. She should try to avoid it if possible.

"Of course he agrees. If he doesn't agree, can I make my own decision?" Su Yun opened her eyes and told lies without even blushing.

Wu Youmei believed him and said with emotion, "Han Tuan is a good husband."

After finally convincing Wu Youmei, Su Yun couldn't help but breathed a sigh of relief. Then she learned from Wu Youmei that the family planning supplies were obtained from the family planning department of the hospital. However, this family planning department was not conspicuous in the hospital and almost no one paid attention to it. It was on the top floor. A small room in the corner.

"Each person in our unit can receive five per month. Your Korean regiment is strong and strong, so it may not be enough. The military area can also receive it. They may receive more. If it is not enough, you can give it to them. He’s going to get it.”

In Wu Youmei's view, Han Lingyuan could do this for Su Yun. In order to protect her body and not have children for a few years, it would not be shameful to ask for a few family planning supplies.

Many chauvinist men would rather have their wives have an abortion or get a sterilization than have the shame to ask for it, as if it damages their male dignity.

Five a month? It seems to be a bit less. Let’s get it first and then talk about it.

Su Yun bid farewell to Wu Youmei and prepared to go to the family planning department to collect family planning supplies.

As soon as she left Wu Youmei's office, she met Gao Xiaqiu, who was returning with a kettle. He said in a strange tone: "Xiao Su, are you back from Shanghai? You were busy trying to please Deputy Director Wu as soon as you came back. You are really on the road." ah."