Sister, a weak girl will not be weak forever

It's Saturday again.

"Sister, I don't want to go to training anymore." Su Ruowei requested.

"Okay, then sister will take you to a place." Chu Ning smiled.

They came to a street where people were coming and going.

There are some small vendors on the roadside shouting and selling.

"Sister, what are we doing here?" Su Ruowei asked.

"Hey, look at that old lady." Chu Ning said.

Su Ruowei followed the sound and saw an old lady with gray hair selling vegetables at a stall.

The old woman was wearing patched and shabby clothes, her eyes looking around with longing, but no one passing by stopped to buy her food.

The pitiful look of the old lady struck Su Ruowei's heart, and she sympathized: "Sister, the old lady is so pitiful."

"Hey, look at that grandpa." Chu Ning looked not far away.

Su Ruowei saw a disabled grandfather sitting on the ground again, with a stall in front of him with some groceries on it.

She suddenly felt sour in her heart and choked up: "Sister, that grandpa is so pitiful."

When she was a child, she was most afraid of going to the vegetable market, because when young girls see the suffering in the world, they will be immersed in sadness for a long time and cannot extricate themselves.

The girl's sentimental character makes her "move to tears when she feels happy, and frightened when she hates others."

"My dear, don't be too sentimental. Everyone has their own life. It's impossible for everyone to live the same life after birth." Chu Ning touched the girl's head and comforted her.

"But why do some people live so hard?" Su Ruowei asked.

"My dear, you think other people's lives are miserable, but maybe others don't. Everyone has different standards for measuring the joys and sorrows of life." Chu Ning replied.

"I still don't understand." Su Ruowei shook his head.

"Guaiguai, do you think people in this world are unfair?" Chu Ning asked.

"Yes." Su Ruowei nodded.

It's like she doesn't understand why her parents divorce, why they quarrel, or even fight.

She also hated the curse and hurt her parents had brought to her.

Why can't I have a happy family and be a happy little princess?

"Because this is the game of the world, everyone has his own unique destiny. The suffering you think may be bearable on others, and should be endured. One person's happiness often exists in the eyes of others, maybe I don’t feel it myself, and I still feel sad from time to time,” Chu Ning said.

"Then I can't pity them?" Su Ruowei sobbed.

"Fool, having sympathy for others is a kind of kindness. Kindness is a good thing, but you can't overdo it and put yourself in a sad situation that you can't extricate yourself from." Chu Ning held the girl in his arms and comforted her.

"Sister, I don't understand." Su Ruowei was dumbfounded.

"My dear, how would you feel if someone always sympathized with you?" Chu Ning asked.

"I... will say thank you to that person. I am actually living a good life. Don't worry about me." Su Ruowei said.

Chu Ning said softly to the girl in her arms: "My dear, you are very kind-hearted and always consider others. So, unless it is a really miserable life, we may be able to lend a helping hand if we have the ability, but we cannot pity others at will, because Others also have their own dignity, which sometimes causes psychological burden to others."

"Does that mean you shouldn't help others casually?" Su Ruowei asked.

"Yes, firstly, helping others casually may cause good people to feel guilty, and secondly, kindness requires sharpness, otherwise it will turn into weakness and allow bad people to manipulate it at will." Chu Ning explained.

"If I want to help grandma and grandpa, what should I do?" Su Ruowei took out her mobile phone to check her wallet balance.

"Do you want to buy something from your grandparents?" Chu Ning asked.

Su Ruowei glanced at the vegetables sold by grandma and the belts sold by grandpa.

She actually didn't want to buy it because she didn't know what to buy it for. There were a lot of vegetables at home and her aunt usually bought them. The belts seemed to be men's, not to mention she didn't wear them herself.

But the girl felt very sorry for her grandparents, so she nodded: "Sister, I want to buy it."

"Okay, let's go." Chu Ningrou smiled.

When they came to grandma's vegetable stall, Su Ruo said sweetly: "Grandma, how do you sell this cabbage?"

"What?" Grandma seemed a little deaf and pointed to her ear.

"Grandma, how much does this cabbage cost?" Su Ruowei raised her voice.

"Eight cents per catty." Grandma smiled at the girl with a kind expression on her wrinkled face.

When Su Ruowei heard the price, she felt very unhappy.

Eight cents per catty, how much money can grandma make after a hard day's work selling vegetables?

"Grandma, I want all these cabbages." Su Ruo smiled delicately.

"Sister, there are so many people in the family?" Grandma smiled and put the cabbage into the bag and took out the scale to weigh it.

"Grandma, yes, my family all likes to eat Chinese cabbage." Su Ruowei looked at grandma's deformed and old hands and said with a wry smile.

"Twelve dollars and four cents, not four cents, just twelve dollars." Grandma said with a smile after weighing.

"Grandma, let me scan it for you." Su Ruowei looked at it but didn't find the QR code, "Is there a WeChat QR code here?"

"No, grandma is old and doesn't know how to use it." Grandma said, her eyes seemed a little sad.

Chu Ning saw Su Ruowei's sadness, opened a wallet and handed grandma a red banknote: "Grandma gives it to you, no need to look for it."

"No, I have to find it. It's not easy for you young people to make money." Grandma hurriedly took out a broken money bag and gave Chu Ning some change.

Su Ruowei's heart clenched together, and Chu Ning touched her head.

"Grandma wishes you good health and a long life."

Su Ruowei said when leaving.

"Thank you, good boy." Grandma smiled brightly.

"Grandpa, how do you sell this belt?"

The two came to Grandpa's stall again, Su Ruo smiled.

"Three pieces for 10 yuan." Grandpa held out three fingers.

"Then I'll take three."

Su Ruowei took Chu Ning's 10 yuan and handed it to her grandfather.

"Goodbye grandpa."

Grandpa had a smile on his face.

"My dear, are you happy to help them?" Chu Ning looked at the girl.

"Sister, I'm very happy." Su Ruo smiled and her eyes filled with joy.

"Then what are you going to do with these things?" Chu Ning asked.

"I... you can bring the cabbage to eat." Su Ruowei replied.

"What about the belt?" Chu Ning asked again.

"This..." Su Ruowei couldn't answer.

"Should I throw it away? Or should I give it away?" Chu Ning answered for her.

"Sister, give it away." Su Ruowei said happily.

"My dear, my sister knows that you mean well, but my grandparents also work hard and don't complain about life. Don't they deserve our admiration?" Chu Ning said with a smile.

"Yes, I think it's hard for them as they get older." Su Ruowei became sad.

"Some people in this world are still struggling to survive." Chu Ning's words were filled with helplessness.

"Sister, I want to go to training." Su Ruowei said suddenly.

My grandparents are so strong, how could I just shrink back?

She must study hard and repay the society in the future, so that the elderly can have something to support and rely on in their old age.

"It's great to be a good boy." Chu Ning smiled.

She sent someone to investigate and found out that Guaiguai was scolded by the teacher, so she didn't want to go to class.

The purpose of bringing the girl here today is to let her experience the fireworks of the world and know that people must learn to be strong if they want to live.

Chu Ning told the bodyguard, "I went to the restaurant to pack meals for the grandparents setting up stalls around me. I said it was community welfare and was given to the elderly for free."

"Yes." The bodyguard took the order and turned to leave.

"Thank you, sister." Su Ruo smiled as brightly as the sun.

"My dear, actually we don't have to buy things we don't need, and we can also help our grandparents. We don't have to put the elderly under psychological pressure, and we will be very happy, right?" Chu Ning smoothed the girl's hair.

"Yes, I will learn from my sister how to help others in the future." Su Ruowei happily leaned on Chu Ning's shoulder.