The system forced me to complete the strategy script

Everywhere in the world, the apricot blossoms fall rapidly in the spring rain, and the carriages and horses move slowly through the spring mountains.

The thin snow melts, and the snow water mixed with dust flows down from the eaves and gullies. Some of it falls directly from the slightly withered treetops to nourish the soil or wash away the bluestone.

Winter is over and spring is here.

The tunnel to spring was opened by Leng Dong's sacrifice of himself.

Listening to the clear sky but the ticking sound outside, Tan Yu, who was gritting his teeth and breastfeeding, endured the pain and walked to the window. With a push of his shoulder, the half-open window was closed for ventilation.

It's cold in spring, Jiyue has only given birth for a few days, so it's better not to blow the cool breeze for a long time, just open it for a while.

Looking at Ji Yue who was lying on the bed and tilting her head inward, not feeling so happy, Tan Yu pursed her lips and sighed. Ji Yue must be suffering from postpartum depression, and it seemed that she had to care more about him.

I thought I had done my best to do a good enough job, but now it seems that it is still far from enough for Jiyue, who is very demanding and sensitive.

She was also a wife and mother for the first time. She had no experience in many things, and she was also afraid of the unknown.

It would be fine if she didn't have children, but the fact was a foregone conclusion. Now she just wanted to be a good mother with stable emotions.

She wants to be a good mother, and she doesn't want to use her children as a tool for her old age.

She will not impose her own regrets and expectations on her children, nor will she force her children to do things they don't want to do.

As long as he can support himself, it's fine. It doesn't matter whether he succeeds or not, as long as he can live a self-consistent life.

She herself was a person who grew up under strong pressure and had a very fragile psychology. She knew all too well the feeling of asking for help from the outside to no avail and having to criticize inwardly.

Growing up in a stressful environment, I have both low self-esteem and a need to be strong. This kind of personality is really torturous.

Her children should not become as negative and naughty a person as she is.

Acknowledging the limitations of yourself and your children is sometimes a great thing.

No matter how much you are capable of doing, life is already very difficult. For children who are new to the world, the encouragement and support of their families is the most important thing.

As a parent, it’s better if you can help. If you can’t help, don’t make sarcastic remarks.

She will not easily compare her children with others, poor and rich, ability and intelligence, training and talent, everyone is different, every family is different.

It is a pity that children with similar intelligence cannot avoid being forced to show extremely obvious "ability" due to problems with money and educational resources.

What you didn't learn when you were young may become a stumbling block for your continued advancement one day in the future. It may be because you don't have talent, or you just don't have self-discipline and don't work hard to learn well. Some skills and knowledge really can't be learned after a certain stage.

Knowledge is accumulated in a spiral, and the foundation is broken. It needs to be repaired later like Nuwa repairing the sky.

Looking beyond the appearance to see the essence, Tan Yu really hates comparisons when resources are unequal.

If there are parents who are disappointed with their children, please look at how other parents raise their children.

Energy, love, time, companionship, available resources, enough money for trial and error, confidence, etc.

Are you satisfied with anything?

Have you really devoted yourself to the child you dreamed of?

"Look at people, why do you think other children are so capable? Why can't you!?"

Just one question is enough to kill a child's fragile self-esteem.

Maybe encouragement works, but understanding and gentle comfort are the best way to heal a scarred heart and push children forward.

Pushing soldiers wearing no effective armor to face the enemy, except for the destined ones, everyone else is basically destined to end up as cannon fodder.

If the child didn't do it, he didn't do it. Just try again or find another way to move forward. As the person closest to the child, you must not easily show expressions of disappointment and disgust.

It’s better to forget about suppressing sex education. Encouraging sex education can at least help children maintain basic mental health.

As a person who has experienced this, Tan Yu deeply understands that often an unintentional ridicule or expression of disappointment from a relative can plunge a sensitive child into an infinite abyss.

Who doesn’t want to be the pride of their parents?

Every child wants to be recognized by his parents, but the reality is always cruel.

Children have never been a tool for the older generation to provide for themselves, but a flesh-and-blood person with an independent personality.

Protecting the calf is also a must.

No stage of life is easy. Not all people are good-natured, and children are not innocent. The conclusion that human nature is inherently evil is correct to a certain extent.

Unavoidable conflicts and potential harms. As parents, try your best to protect your children. This is an important task that you must be aware of from the time he is born.

Looking at Song'er who had turned from wrinkled to fair and waxy in his arms, Tan Yu, whose thoughts were racing, felt soft-hearted.

But Song'er is a noisy and crying person by nature. In the past few days and nights, the two of them have never slept comfortably.

No, Tan Song's sucking movements were accompanied by the crying that had not stopped. He looked at his mother with his big moist eyes, and the downward curved pacifier blessed his innocence. , looks so pitiful.

Tan Yu smiled back despite the big dark circles under his eyes.

Song'er's appearance seems to be more like that of his father, and he seems to be a beautiful child.

Tan Yu loved him even more now.

Chen Jiyue, who was lying on the bed, saw that the child had finally calmed down. He was finally willing to turn his head and look at the mother and son who had been walking around.

As a father, Chen Jiyue was actually very patient at first, but later became more and more annoyed.

Coupled with lack of sleep and dissatisfaction with his image after giving birth, he would always cry for no reason.

He would be angry, sad, and reflective at times, as if there was something really wrong with his emotions.

She was obviously mentally prepared, and the wife had warned her, and had read about the consequences of giving birth to a child from books, but in the end, she was still unavoidable from mood swings and discomfort.

Chen Jiyue, who had been "reprimanded" by Tan Yu, did not dare to express his inner disappointment. How could the daughter he had been looking forward to for six months become a son? Why could others seize the daughter in one fell swoop, but he was so useless.

He was already secretly thinking about the next child. He had completely forgotten the pain of childbirth. All he could think about was wanting a daughter.

What's more, Tan Yu's dedicated care made him feel good about the entire pregnancy, and he was not afraid of another pain at all.

But seeing that his wife was so happy about Song'er's arrival, he spurned his own partial thoughts.

Tan Song is a good name that the wife and I came up with after reading many naming books.

Psalm refers to blessing and praise.

The wife said that she just wanted her son to be a good person who could stand on his own feet, and he did not need to be a virtuous man in the eyes of the world.

He can also be brave, perseverant, quirky, and rebellious. He can also have the qualities that girls can have.

Even practicing martial arts and hitting others is fine, as long as it is to protect yourself and not to bully others for no reason.

To put it more seriously, he was even a little jealous of his son, jealous that he could have such a good mother.

What I didn't have when I was a child, now that I'm a husband and a father, I still feel "shameless" and envious of "others".

Chen Jiyue, who doesn't know how to love, stumbled on the road to becoming a father, but fortunately, the love Tan Yu gave him was enough to support him through the most difficult postpartum period.