life start management

"Okay, you are worthy of being my disciple. Then let your senior brother, the dean, open the door for you."

Seeing the uncle's firm expression and Youyou's confident eyes, the dean did not hesitate, took out a jade plaque on his body and walked to the middle door.

He put the jade tablet into a groove and turned it around, and the middle door slowly opened.

Listening to the simple sound of the door opening, Youyou felt like breathing fresh air after the rain.

What a strange thought. Doesn't the door that hasn't been opened for so long smell like dust?

After looking around at the old man, Fuyao and the others, he entered the middle gate without looking back. The door closed automatically as soon as I entered.

After you entered the door, you felt a sense of familiarity.

"Yuyou is back? Why are you coming back at this time? Didn't you say you are going on a long trip? Where is the child? Why are you alone?"

Youyou was surprised, why did she wear it back? Isn’t this a modern home? Looking at his mother's familiar face, his reaction was a little slow.

"Why are you so stunned? I'm kneading the dough and steaming the steamed buns. Come over and cut some vegetables so that you can steam some steamed buns."

"Mom. Why are you alone at home? Isn't today Sunday? Where is Ding Ding?"

Youyou washed her hands and went to pick and wash vegetables, just as smoothly as before.

"The house has been renovated, and the furniture and everything else are ready. Your brother and the others have moved in. Ding Ding has transferred to another school. The school now has a canteen, and the food is said to be very good, so I don't have to cook for Ding Ding. It’s fine for me to be alone at home. If nothing happens, I’ll go to the market with your aunts to buy some things. Why do I feel better than before when I have my children and grandchildren around me?”

There was no way I could stop my mother's happy tone.

"That's good. We're not far away anyway. We can come back at any time, and there's no need to live together. Besides, people say we are close to each other after generations. Educational concepts are not static and will always be updated. Don't put your My grandson is spoiled."

"I don't understand what you're saying. Anyway, I can't spoil a child. Who is an old man and doesn't want his descendants to be successful and capable? How can I spoil a child?"

"I'm not saying that you will deliberately spoil your children. What I mean is that every age group has its own thoughts. The older people are definitely not as advanced as the young people in thinking. As the times continue to advance, you have to keep up. "

"I don't understand a lot, but after living for such a long time, I know one thing. No matter what age you are, you cannot do without money and power. If your parents don't have much ability, it will be useless for you to keep up with your thinking. In the end You still have to lose to these two. So when you have nothing, it is better to be stable and frugal.

Just like me, your father passed away early, and I don’t have much ability. I only have one-third of an acre of land, so why don’t you just follow me and live a hard life? If you farm at home like me, can you have money to support me in my retirement? I wouldn't be so happy living at home alone. If I had no money, I would definitely think of living with your brother for peace of mind. If you don't have money, you will definitely be sad. Why did you leave me at home alone? "

"My dear mother, I totally agree with your logic. The more you live, the more you understand. It deserves praise."

"You can pull it off. Not many people become more confused as they live. How can they become confused after accumulating so many years of experience! It is more appropriate to say that they are more awake. Most people are just pretending to be confused. Because they are older, it doesn't matter. Now that I have the ability, I have not achieved much in my life, so I can only suffer miserably in front of the juniors! Otherwise, how will I live in the future? Give yourself a step down. By the way, you can also win some sympathy, and you can treat yourself better when you need someone. That’s all.”

Youyou stared at my mother with wide eyes, feeling as if she knew something extraordinary.

"My dear mother, why are you so transparent? You dare to admit that most people pretend to be confused. I admire you."

"If there is anything I dare not say, the card you gave me is my confidence. Sometimes people are either stupid or stupid, but they just don't have the confidence. If their parents don't give them the confidence, and if their children don't give them the confidence, then what are you doing? Nothing works, and everything I do is wrong. My requirements are not high, I just want to be able to have food, hugs, clothing, and warmth. If I have money, who should I be afraid of? "

"Oh my God, it turns out that you are drifting. However, you are drifting well and wonderfully. Just think about it and your life will get better and better."

"Did I just think that? It should be said that life becomes easier when you have money and confidence. It's true. No one is a fool, they are just forced by life. You, there is no need to be too strong. No matter how much you get, it’s of no use, a person can’t enjoy many things in a lifetime! Just enough is enough.”

"No one knows what will happen in the future. I'm still young now. If I don't work harder, I'm afraid I will regret it in the future. Besides, no matter how hard I try, I can't catch up with some people's starting points! What will happen to my children in the future? Most people will have good days. It is the result of the efforts of several generations. If someone is so good and they are still working hard, why should I fail? As long as I have the conditions to make myself better, I will keep moving forward."

"Yuyou, you're not blaming me for not taking good care of you, are you? I really don't have much ability. I neither let you live a good life nor give you much care! I also hold you back from time to time. As a mother, it's so important I really didn’t realize what kind of obligations I should fulfill for many years, which made you feel wronged.”

"I don't blame you. Your life has been very difficult. But it is much easier to envy those who can go to their parents for everything. So now I have to work harder to prevent my children from envying others."

The two people were talking while making steamed buns and steaming them in a pot.

"Okay, your idea is indeed correct, unlike some people who just mess it up. Before you work hard, you just say that your children and grandchildren will have their own blessings! But there is another sentence behind it, that is, parents have their own destiny. You have not worked hard to give If your children create good conditions, you can't expect them to work hard to have good conditions to take care of you. When the time comes that you need children, it is really unethical to only kidnap children based on morality! There are too many people who rely on their elders and sell them, which is also a big problem in society. environmental impact."

"Don't you think it's the greatest gift for parents to give their children life? After all, children are conceived by their mothers in ten months, and some are born after suffering a lot of suffering."

"That has nothing to do with the child! In fact, most people understand this truth, and the child cannot decide whether he wants to come to this world. This is really wishful thinking. Who can explain why some people come to this world and suffer? It's just that some people I gave you life. If it weren't for me, where would you be? I suffered a lot when I gave birth to you. Is it easy for me? You have to listen to me and mind my business. This kind of moral kidnapping is so frustrating. Suffocating! How many people come to this world just to enjoy happiness? Forcibly bringing people here without their consent, unable to fulfill their obligations, unable to give people warmth, and still want to ask for it? Even if you farm the land without giving, you won't be able to harvest much food. , Is it possible to plant it for a year and think about eating it for a lifetime?”