The evil life of Jia Erhu

Wen Ruyu said: "You are also a secretary, secretary to the chairman, secretary to the general manager, or assistant to the deputy general manager. It seems that the nature of the work is the same, but the impression they leave on people is indeed completely different.

For example, take the chairman's secretary. He does not need to know any majors, but he must have an overall view. Even though he only serves one person, he must show a strong aura.

I saw Director Lin from the Municipal Government Office today. You should have met Lu Zhongliang’s secretary, although I have not, and his level may be the same as Director Lin, or even half a level lower, but I can be sure that no matter what Whether Lu Zhongliang's secretary is a boy or a girl, his inner aura must be stronger than Director Lin's. "

Chen Lingyan and Cao Yadan nodded in unison.

Wen Ruyu said: "The reason is very simple. Although Director Lin is the director of the municipal government office and seems to be able to act independently, her work content is more within the scope of her authority.

Lu Zhongliang's secretary is different. He has almost no content of his own work. His job is to unconditionally implement Lu Zhongliang's thoughts and instructions.

The content of his work is actually that Lu Zhongliang takes out some of the tasks that he is qualified for and gives them to him.

To use a very inappropriate analogy, the ancient eunuch had no dignity at all in the harem, but once he was ordered to go outside to announce the decree, not to mention the princes and ministers, even the princes, would kneel down to him.

Lu Zhongliang's art is like this. No matter how high his actual level is, he is Lu Zhongliang's shadow to the outside world. There is no difference between seeing him and Lu Zhongliang when people below see him, because not everyone has the opportunity to face him directly. To Lu Zhongliang.

As for the cadres who are at the same level as Lu Zhongliang, or even higher than Lu Zhongliang, when they look at Lu Zhongliang's secretary, they do not regard him as Lu Zhongliang, but as a representative of the Changling City government officials.

The quality reflected in him only represents the personnel of the municipal government, and even represents the overall quality of ordinary people in Changling City.

Cao Yadan, you are in the company now, which is equivalent to being in the same position as Lu Zhongliang's secretary. His work content is your work content, and what he embodies is what others get from you. Regarding the personnel of Red Star Company all information. "

Chen Lingyan and Cao Yadan nodded one after another. Cao Yadan nodded vigorously like a chicken pecking at rice.

Wen Ruyu added: "For example, on today's occasion, because it is a private party, Chen Lingyan is older than you, so you appear to be more childish and impetuous than her.

Because at this moment, you are all representing yourself.

But if one day, the two of you accompany Mr. Jia out for dinner, then you can't be like this at the wine table.

Because on that occasion, Chen Lingyan represents herself, and you have a dual identity. One is to represent Mr. Jia, and the other is to represent all the employees of the entire company. "

Cao Yadan looked excited and curious and asked: "Then what should I do?"

Wen Ruyu smiled: "No one can teach you how to do it. A good secretary does not rely on others to teach you, or even study hard by yourself, but needs to experience it.

What I just told you are all principles. If you remember this principle, you will be able to make the right choice when facing any situation or unexpected incident.

Maybe your choice won't be that shocking, but it definitely won't be a big problem.

This is also the ability and characteristic that a secretary must have. That is, your work does not need to be outstanding, but you must not cause trouble to the leader. "

Cao Yadan nodded vigorously and said, "I understand."

Wen Ruyu smiled and said: "Let me tell you a little detail, just say that I just had a bar. If you are a gay man, or you are the leader of a certain department of the company, especially when facing the leader of the counterpart unit, you can do what you just said It's the kind of behavior that you should do first as a courtesy, and if you finish your drink before the leader drinks, there will be no problem.

The problem is that you are Mr. Jia’s secretary. When Mr. Jia is not present, every move you make represents him. When he is present, you are his shadow.

When the other party's leader wants to toast you, do you think Jia will always stand up and tell the other party that I will do it first as a token of respect? "

Cao Yadan blurted out: "Of course not, because the other party is toasting to me."

Wen Ruyu asked again: "Then who are you?"

Cao Yadan was stunned for a moment, and said a little vaguely: "I am Mr. Jia's secretary!"

Wen Ruyu shook her head and said, "I just told you that when President A is present, you are his shadow. If he doesn't move, will his shadow move?"

Cao Yadan asked in confusion: "Then according to what you said, if the other party toasts me, I can only pretend to be deaf and mute and ignore him?

If the other party wants something from us, that's okay. But if we want something from the other party, or the other party is a big leader, then wouldn't I mess things up by doing this? "

Chen Lingyan frowned, glanced at Cao Yadan and said, "How stupid! What Teacher Wen means is that you are Mr. Jia's shadow. When the other party proposes a toast to you, what should you do? Then you have to ask Mr. Jia!"

Cao Yadan still didn't understand: "Ask Mr. Jia?"

Chen Lingyan shook her head helplessly: "Who told you to ask Mr. Jia face to face, what should I do? When the other party toasts you, you look directly at Mr. Jia, and Mr. Jia will either hint to you or directly ask you Take a stand.

For example, Mr. Jia said, "My secretary doesn't know how to drink. Just so you know, even if you have a lot of alcohol, don't drink that night."

If Mr. Jia says, although my secretary cannot drink, she must drink this glass of wine. Even if you fall down after drinking, you still have to drink.

In another situation, if Mr. Jia is not willing to drink with the other person, he will tell the other person that I, the secretary, really can't drink, so how about it, I will have a drink with you. "

Only then did Cao Yadan understand. In other words, if there was a chance to go out with Chen Lingyan and Jia Erhu, because Chen Lingyan represented herself, she could make her own decision no matter what she faced.

But I can't do it. I am Jia Erhu's shadow. If I face any problem, I must wait for my permission.

Moreover, whether within the system or in the shopping mall, everyone knows the relationship between the secretary and the boss. If you do this, no one will think you are rude, no matter how big the boss is or how high the position is.

Cao Yadan nodded repeatedly: "I understand, I understand!"