The evil life of Jia Erhu

After Jia Erhu helped move all the luggage to the master bedroom, he returned to the living room.

Chen Lingyan opened the zippers of all the luggage. Almost all of them were clothes, shoes and bags, as well as a laptop and a netbook.

Wen Ruyu helped take out Jia Erhu's clothes from the cabinet, and when she was about to go to the second bedroom, Chen Lingyan shyly whispered, "Thank you, sister-in-law."

Wen Ruyu smiled, first carried the clothes to the second bedroom and hung them up, and then returned to the master bedroom. While helping Chen Lingyan pack the clothes, she said: "Er Hu has just been discharged from the hospital, and his body may not have fully recovered. You should pay more attention to it." he.

It's best not to sleep in in the morning. If you can make breakfast for him, make him breakfast. If you can't make breakfast, go out and buy it. "

Other things are easy to talk about. When it comes to getting up early to make breakfast and buy breakfast, Chen Lingyan herself has difficulty getting up, but she still nodded.

Wen Ruyu continued: "This man, sometimes when his interest comes, he seems to be born to cook, so you don't have to worry about cooking.

They generally don't like doing laundry as much as they like cleaning, so you must develop a habit of cleaning and doing laundry. "

Chen Lingyan nodded vigorously.

Wen Ruyu continued: "Generally, men hate women being wordy. In fact, it's not that they don't like talking to women, it's just that they have one characteristic.

When he wants to talk to you, the more you talk, the more excited he becomes.

If he doesn't want to talk, even a word you say is too much for him. "

Chen Lingyan asked dumbfounded: "The question is how do I know when he likes me talking and when he doesn't like me talking?"

"It's very simple, just look at his face." Wen Ruyu said, "Men are usually happy. If he is happy today, you can talk more or even lose your temper.

Not only is he not angry, but he will come to comfort you.

If he has a gloomy face, is either thinking about a problem, or has encountered something unpleasant outside, and if you take the trouble to ask him what's wrong or what's wrong, he will even want to kill you.

Whenever you encounter this kind of situation, you'd better do whatever you have to do, as if you didn't see anything and don't know anything.

If he wants to talk to you, he will naturally find you and talk to you. At that time, you can start a grand speech.

Many women don't know this situation. Just like our colleagues, they always say that when they go to work, they see their husbands frowning and don't say anything when asked. Instead, they find me nagging me. This is the reason. "

Chen Lingyan frowned and said, "Sister-in-law, thank you for teaching me so much, but what you taught me was how to get along with him.

The problem is that I don’t even know if he will accept me now. Do you think I should take the initiative or wait for him to take the initiative? "

Wen Ruyu asked: "No way, you don't even know this? Don't be angry if my sister-in-law says anything. You had a very good relationship when you were in the hospital. I even found you sleeping on the same hospital bed.

Why do you suddenly act like you're meeting him for the first time? "

Chen Lingyan said with a tearful voice: "One moment and another, at that time he was pursuing me, and I was so angry at Ding Gang. At that time, I just wanted to vent the anger in my heart, and did not say that I must fall in love with Er Hu. So it’s pretty easy to let go.

It's different now.

When he came to Ding Gang last time, I chose to side with Ding Gang. This time I took the initiative to come to him. Does he think that Ding Gang doesn't want me anymore, so I fell in love with him?

I know that he has a strong self-esteem and will never tolerate others saying that he is a rag collector.

Just because I want to get along well with him, I am a little worried about gain and loss.

I took the initiative to attack him because I was worried that he would say that I was a promiscuous person and had a bad character.

If I wait for him to attack, I am afraid that he will think that I am a cold person, or that he is still thinking about Ding Gang and does not look down on him at all. "

Wen Ruyu said: "Sister, I ask you two questions, and you must tell me honestly."

Chen Lingyan said: "Sister-in-law, you ask, no matter what the question is, I will never lie."

"Are you really still a virgin now?"

Chen Lingyan puffed up her chest: "It's true. If sister-in-law doesn't believe it, go to the hospital with me for a checkup tomorrow!"

"No." Wen Ruyu smiled and asked: "Have you really decided to be with Jia Erhu? Even if your family objects, you will never regret it?"

Chen Lingyan said: "Ding Gang is indeed the biggest obstacle for me to choose again. He is so handsome and his family conditions are so good.

But do you know? I went out with him some time ago, and I found that as long as he knows other beautiful girls in Haicheng, others will definitely know him.

Moreover, when I was in a coffee shop or teahouse with him, other girls would come over in groups to say hello to him, completely ignoring my existence.

The more I think about it, the scarier it becomes.

In addition, he and Xiao Jie obtained a marriage certificate, but he made a promise to me here.

What if I really marry him in the future and he has a lot of women outside?

I made this clear to my parents. Although my parents felt it was a pity, they supported me leaving him. "

Wen Ruyu smiled and said: "Supporting you to leave Ding Gang and accepting Erhu are two different things. Have you told your parents about Erhu's situation, especially the matter of his release after serving his sentence?"

Chen Lingyan shook her head: "I didn't say this. But I think as long as Erhu treats me well and we get together, my parents won't say anything."

Wen Ruyu said: "You can't say that. We are all ordinary people, and I can understand your parents' mentality.

If you ask for a boyfriend, even if the young man's family situation is poor and he is ugly, as long as you like it, your parents will not object.

But if this young man has a criminal record, even like Erhu, he will not be simply re-education through labor or detention, but will be directly sentenced to 6 years in prison.

To be honest, if I were your parent, if my daughter wanted to find such a person in the future, I would definitely disagree. "

Chen Lingyan felt that Wen Ruyu was right, but she still didn't want to tell her parents about it too early.

"Sister-in-law, I understand what you are saying. I will definitely talk to my parents about this matter as soon as possible. I want to know now, regarding Erhu, do you think I should be more proactive or passive?"

Wen Ruyu said: "You have to be both active and passive."

Chen Lingyan thought to herself: What are you talking about? Being active and passive are inherently contradictory. How can I do both at the same time?

Wen Ruyu continued: "Proactively care about his daily life. As for emotional matters, it is better to be more passive.

As long as you touch him and he has you in his heart, he will not be able to help but touch you. "

Chen Lingyan said "Oh": "Thank you, sister-in-law, I understand."

Seeing her like that, Wen Ruyu felt both relieved and a little disappointed.

I originally thought that Chen Lingyan was unreliable and just acting on impulse. If that was the case, they would not be together for a long time and she would have a chance.

Now it seems that she is bent on getting along with Jia Erhu. This is definitely a good thing for Jia Erhu, but what about herself?