After the eldest lady lost her memory, her exes turned back one after another.

Cui Lingxin suddenly gained confidence because of Shen Qingjia's words. Maybe she could try again.

"Qingjia, you..." Cui Lingxin paused for a moment, and then asked awkwardly, "How do you feel about Wei Yu now?"

She was afraid that Shen Qingjia still liked Wei Yu, and Wei Yu also liked her. If so, no matter how hard he tried, it would be in vain.

Shen Qingjia smiled openly: "Cousin Wei, I just treat him as an ordinary relative. Although we were engaged before, that was also before. Don't get me wrong!"

Seeing Shen Qingjia's magnanimous appearance, Cui Ling suddenly felt relieved.

She expressed the indescribable girlish feelings in her heart: "Actually, I have always liked Wei Yu."

"Really? You two match each other very well!"

Shen Qingjia raised his hands to support her.

Cui Lingxin asked: "Do you really think so?"

Shen Qingjia nodded immediately: "Of course! You are a talented man and a talented woman, so of course you are a perfect match! Sister Cui, you are excellent, no doubt about it!"

Cui Lingxin was praised by her and couldn't help but smile, "You can't be so exaggerated. No matter how good I am, I can't compare to men!"

Men can live in the house and have a good career, but no matter how good a woman is, in this era, a woman's value is only reflected in the inner house. In the end, a woman can only help her husband and teach her children to take care of the inner house for the man, becoming a vassal of the man.

Shen Qingjia didn't think so: "We women can actually compare to men! Men can do things that men can do, and women can do things that women can do. We cannot deny women altogether."

Cui Lingxin still said: "But no matter how good a woman is, she can't compare to a man."

"Why can't they compare? Can their men give birth to children? No, right? Men are also born to women, so women are respected by everyone."

Fertility involves human inheritance. Some men suppress women while at the same time needing women. This is really hypocritical.

Shen Qingjia said: "We don't need to feel inferior to men just because we are women. In fact, men and women are not superior to each other. They all have their own value. Women can do what men can do, just like before. Isn’t the Empress Wu of the dynasty also a woman? Men can serve in the dynasty and serve as officials, and so can women."

"But how easy is it for a woman to enter the court?" Cui Ling was surprised when Shen Qingjia said such shocking remarks, but she couldn't help but feel that there was some truth in it, but in this world, it was too difficult for women to do these things.

Shen Qingjia smiled and said: "Of course, I am not saying that women must be better than men. I think that regardless of gender, it is enough to live what you want in your heart. You should not be bound by the world. Empress Wu has lofty aspirations. , it’s good to live such a wonderful life, but my ambition is to live a relaxed and happy life, and that’s enough.”

Her ambition is to retire and live a happy and comfortable life.

"you're right!"

Cui Lingxin felt that even though Shen Qingjia had not read many books by sages, the remarks he made would certainly be shameful to his disciples, but these words were very reasonable, right?

It's good to live comfortably and live what you want in your heart, no matter whether your ambition is high or low.

What is her ambition?

She was raised by family rules since she was a child and never dared to think or do more.

The parents in the family just wanted to train her to be a well-known lady and talented woman, and then marry a well-matched man to consolidate the family's power, and then spend her life raising her husband and raising her children.

In fact, most women in this world spend their lives like this. She didn't seem to think there was anything wrong with it before. She thought there was nothing wrong with getting married, having children, and caring for her husband and raising her children.

But now she feels that this cannot be her life ambition.

Besides getting married and having children, she should have something else to do.

"Qingjia, do you do business because you like it?"

Shen Qingjia shook his head: "It's not that I like it much, it's just that I have money from doing business! Money can solve many things, and it allows me to enjoy a happy and comfortable life!"

Cui Lingxin nodded. Among the women from the big families she knew, no one had ever spoken out about their serial number and money. This would make people think they were marketers.

But there's nothing wrong with liking Qian Ye. Most people in the world can't live without money. It's just that women from aristocratic families like them have never been short of money, so they don't value money. At the same time, they are proud of it and criticize those who like Qian Ye. People who make money are in the market, which is of course wrong.

After Cui Lingxin talked with Shen Qingjia, she suddenly thought about many things. Although she didn't think clearly for a while, she benefited a lot from this.

Shen Qingjia couldn't help but said: "Actually, most women are not as good as men. It's just because women and men are not on the same starting line in this world. Men can go to school from a young age, but most women regard a woman's lack of talent as a virtue." The purpose is that men who study can become officials in the court, but even if women study, they can only teach children at home and assist their husbands. If men and women are truly equal, who is stronger and who is weaker may not be sure!"

Shen Qingjia is a time traveler, so he has such avant-garde ideas.

Cui Lingxin agreed very much and said: "You are right. Most women in this world cannot read. This has widened the gap between men and women from the beginning. If women can read and understand, they may not be worse than men. !”

Cui Lingxin suddenly thought of something, and a fire suddenly ignited in her heart. She couldn't help but feel that everything she had longed for in the past ten years was wrong.

She shouldn't just take getting married too seriously. In life, she still has to do what she really wants to do and find her own value in it, so that she won't feel that her time is wasted.

"I have something else to do, so I'll take my leave now. Let's meet up another day!"

Cui Ling felt a little anxious and wanted to immediately plan what was on her mind. Those confusions about love were instantly thrown away.

Shen Qingjia watched Cui Lingxin leave eagerly, feeling a little confused in her heart. She didn't know if Cui Lingxin had really ignited hope for Wei Yu after saying so much.

probably?

She was so eager, perhaps because she wanted to express her feelings to Wei Yu.

Shen Qingjia thought like this and felt that the guidance and coordination he had racked his brains over for the past few days had finally worked.

Finally I can take a break.

Shen Qingjia lay down on the rocking chair, stretching out to enjoy this comfortable and relaxing moment, with a faint smile of satisfaction on her face, like a delicate flower unfolding, without any sharp edge, but so beautiful that it makes people feel It's so comfortable that you can't help but look at it.

After Zhou Nan finished doing some things, he stood not far away and watched the girl swaying on the chair. She seemed to have something happy. She had a slight smile on her face, which made him fascinated. Be close.

The lady was happy, and he couldn't help but be a little happy too. If he likes someone, he might be happy because she likes him.