At the beginning, there is smoke coming out of the ancestral grave, and the woman is busy in the imp

But because of Tunan's reputation, this daughter is still okay, and she won't be as pitiful as the three sisters Xie Ruyue used to be.

The Wei family has no walls or fences. The tall loquat tree blocks most of the sunlight. Under the tree, two children stand around a stool.

When he got closer, he saw the jujubes on the round stool. It turned out that the sister and brother were playing with the jujube mill. This is one of the pastimes after autumn, just like fishing in autumn.

Pushing jujube grinding means inserting half a jujube into three short bamboo sticks, leaving the jujube core outside, and inserting two jujubes into a slender bamboo strip.

Place the bamboo strips with dates inserted on the date cores. It spins with one push, and the one with the most circles wins.

After the siblings turned around, Xie Yuheng leaned over slightly and took the bamboo strips, placed it on the date core, pushed the dates gently, and then they started to spin slowly and slowly.

The man in the picture, named Xie Xiaobao, saw Zao moving. He wiped his nose with his shiny black sleeve and muttered, "One, two, three..."

At the count of three, one date fell on the round stool, and the rotation stopped randomly.

"I win, I win!" Xie Xiaobao immediately jumped up and down happily, with two clear snot flowing to his mouth without even bothering to wipe it.

Xie Tunan blinked his bright big eyes, looked at Xie Yuheng, and said: "It turns out that brother Yuheng can't do it either."

"This is natural. Brother Yuheng is also a human being, not a god. How can he know everything."

"As the saying goes, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses." A smile appeared on Xie Yuheng's lips, and he stretched out his hand to gently rub the little girl's head.

Besides, gods are only proficient in one type, such as the God of Wealth, the God of Kitchen... Even the God of Wealth can also be divided into literary and martial arts.

After a moment, Xie Yuheng silently retracted his hands and put them behind his back. The child hadn't bathed his hair for an unknown number of days, so he touched the oil on his hand.

This can't be blamed on Xie Tunan, it's always like this now. Especially since autumn, the weather is getting colder and cooler day by day. In order to avoid catching the wind and cold, adults rarely wash their hair, let alone children.

Hearing what Xie Yuheng said, Xie Tunan seemed to be greatly inspired. He licked his chapped lips and said:

"I like to practice martial arts, but my mother said she would send me to a girls' school after the spring. I can make a lot of money as a shopkeeper and give Xiaobao a wife."

Xie Yuheng raised his eyebrows. She should not interfere too much in the clan's family affairs. The idea of ​​favoring boys over girls, which has been passed down for thousands of years, will not be easily reversed.

Now that I can send my daughter to school for profit, I have taken a step forward.

"Do you want the head of the family to tell your mother to let you go to the martial arts hall?"

While the two were talking, he pushed Zao Mo to push Xie Xiaobao, and Xie Ruguang, who was about to cry, interrupted.

Xie Tunan lowered his head and pulled out the barbs on his fingers. "No...no, I've listened to Sister Yunhua's open classes, but I feel that my strengths are not in book planning."

I occasionally heard the elderly mothers-in-law in the village mention that sisters Yunhua and Ruyue were old girls who could not get married.

In her heart, she was very envious. Her sisters didn't have to sleep in a leaky house, they could have meat for three meals, and they didn't have to be scolded because Xiaobao fell on his own.

Moreover, Sister Yunhua also has a house of her own. She has seen it from a distance. The blue bricks and black tiles and flowered walls are very beautiful, but the fairies in the Nine Heavens live like that.

Xu Lu turned his head away, probably because he also had a younger sister and was used to not being able to see such scenes.

What kind of nonsense is this mother-in-law talking about, asking her daughter to make money as a bride price for her son! If you can’t afford it, don’t give birth!

Xu Lu's teeth were grinding loudly. He knew that his sister should not choose a son from such a family when she wanted a son-in-law. Yin Qiu had brought him many cases where the family had been deprived of money.

Xie Yuheng sighed and squatted down to be at eye level with the little girl. He touched her head again and looked directly into her eyes.

Zhengse said: "Martial arts and literature each have their own strengths and weaknesses."

"You have only listened to each recruitment lesson and have not understood it in detail. How can you know whether it is the same on the outside and on the inside?"

Xie Yuheng tilted his head and asked a dark-skinned little girl in the crowd, "Jiaoyu, tell me, what do you do on a daily basis?"

Jiang Zhiyu bared his teeth in a smile and replied heartily: "When the cock crows, we will first play a set of five-animal tricks and perform stake trots for an hour. Then we will run around the village three times with the master, and then learn other things. In the evening, we will learn calligraphy and read books."

"Except for rest and sickness throughout the year, the New Year is also untouchable."

"Oh, by the way, anyone who is starting to practice martial arts must first practice three years of stance."

After saying that, Jiang Zhiyu bared her teeth and smiled again, her teeth white against the copper-black skin.

Xie Yuheng asked Xie Xiu again, and Xie Xiu replied: "When the rooster crows, and after washing, it gets daylight, you can sit outside and read the book you want to study today. Listen to the book during the day, practice calligraphy during the meal, and warm up the book at night. It never stops except for bathing."

"Hehe, I actually think that studying calligraphy is much easier than practicing martial arts. This requires me to walk on a pole. I guess my legs will be shaking before I even have half a cup of tea, like an octogenarian."

"Xiuxiu, what you said is wrong. You see, my great-uncle is already very old, and he is chasing Uncle Chunxi very fast by picking up the soles of his shoes." Xie Lin spoke up and demolished the younger sister's stage.

Xie Xiu folded his arms and snorted, making everyone laugh.

Xie Yuheng only looked at the girl in front of her. She preferred Xie Tunan to go to a girls' school as her best choice.

If she wanted to practice martial arts, Mrs. Wei would not give her time to read and practice calligraphy at night.

The world is like He Sisi, a woman who wants to change her destiny by getting married. In the end, it's just jumping from one fire pit to another unknown pit.

Putting your destiny in the hands of others is the limitation of the ancient people's vision. It is because no one provides women with the means of production. It is the words and deeds of generations of people who have left a stamp of thought deep in the soul of women.

It's not about the individual woman.

Only by knowing the truth can we save ourselves.

What she can do now for women in this era is to provide the means of production and slowly take advantage of it.

For example, the declaration of equality between men and women in later generations can only be shelved on the shelf and must not be spoken to the outside world.

Xie Tunan was a little confused when he heard the different schedules of his two sisters in civil and military affairs. She often helped her mother with work, and her mother often praised her for her strength. Isn't this the material for martial arts?

Xie Yuheng stood up, patted her little shoulder, and said seriously: "You are young, you might as well try it first."

"As for the long-term use of force, once it is suddenly penetrated, everything will be fine and rough on the surface and inside."

"Just like practicing nvhong, beginners don't have to worry about not doing well in embroidery, they just need to place the first stitch."

Xie Tunan nodded as if he understood. Seeing this, Xie Yuheng crushed his words into pieces again and explained them thoroughly for her to listen to.

After some talk, Xie Tunan imitated his father's past appearance, cupped his hands in front of Xie Yuheng and said, "Thank you, brother Yuheng."

Xie Yuheng smiled, gently held her little hand and corrected: "For men, the right hand should be made into a fist with the left hand outside, while for women, the reverse should be done."

Xie Tunan's little hands were busy for a while, and after confirming that it was correct, he thanked him again.

After walking out of Wei's house, Mei Xingyun cracked open a sunflower seed and said, "When I was young, I often heard my mother mention that children from poor families become wise early, and today I saw that it was true."