After the groom escaped from the marriage, I was doted on by billionaires every day

"Ten Questions and Answers to Love - How to woo a girl with low self-esteem."

"What should I do if my partner has low self-esteem?"

"One trick to teach you how to deal with people with low self-esteem."

Mo Chen looked down at his phone for a few seconds, unable to believe that he was trying to find answers through the Internet.

After a cursory look at her, I realized that she should be patient, respect her, accompany her silently, and praise her merits more.

The only useful thing here is the last one.

He really didn't seem to praise her much.

Other than that, he seems to be doing pretty well? Mo Chen thought about it, and it seemed that was not the case. She really couldn't stay with him silently, and he had forced her to live with him.

After silently reflecting for a while, Mo Chen put away his phone and took the elevator straight to the office on the top floor.

By the way, Dr. Cheng.

Dr. Cheng is the top psychiatrist in the country. He has treated Lin Dongyu and must understand her psychology best.

However, he underestimated Dr. Cheng's professional ethics.

"Mr. Mo," Dr. Cheng on the other end of the phone smiled, "What you asked about belongs to the patient's privacy. I can't tell you."

"I'll give it to you right away, as much as you need." Mo Chen said, "I heard that you have a new investment plan, and the gap is not small."

He tried to use his money power.

"Don't worry about it." Dr. Cheng pushed back without mercy.

Mo Chen thought for a while and said, "Okay, let me change the question. Do you have any way for me to successfully propose to her?"

Dr. Cheng was a little stunned: "Mr. Mo, do you think I am a crystal ball that makes wishes?"

"I can only tell you that the psychological trauma that Ms. Lin suffered in her youth has never gone away. She needs more time and more companionship to come out. Have you never thought about why the three of you left after the dock incident? She was the only one who had a stress reaction? She even almost went into depression?"

Mo Chen was a little distracted: "I thought it was just because of vulnerability."

"You think too simply."

There was reproach in Dr. Cheng's eyes: "When you were with her, didn't you find that she was seriously insecure? It is difficult for her to trust someone wholeheartedly. Moreover, when she trusts and relies on someone, she My first reaction was not joy, but fear and avoidance.”

"Rejecting the beginning of a relationship in order to avoid being hurt is a typical characteristic of avoidant attachment personality."

"Avoidant attachment personality?"

Mo Chen repeated this psychological term, looked around in confusion, and asked, "What does it mean?"

"You should be lucky that Ms. Lin just has this tendency. Otherwise, you will have a harder time." Dr. Cheng sighed, "However, she does not believe in marriage or that she can have a long-term and stable intimate relationship."

Therefore, she regards her marriage as a job to complete.

She went on a blind date and entered into marriage by negotiating an exchange of mutual interests, precisely because of her distrust of intimate relationships. Instead, she simply separated her feelings from the marriage from the beginning.

Mo Chen thought silently in his heart and said, "Doctor Cheng, please tell me, what should I do?"

"When she retreats, you have to give her a sense of security and not let her get hurt. When she is emotionally unstable, you can tolerate her and understand her, and don't doubt whether she has changed her mind."

Listening to Dr. Cheng's words, he realized that he had been doing something wrong all along.

How could he suspect that the person in Lin Dongyu's heart was Meng Xiao?

"Also," Dr. Cheng continued: "Many times, she needs an independent space, and you have to grasp this level."

"and many more!"

Mo Chen suddenly said: "Please wait a moment, I need to record it."

Dr. Cheng nodded happily and said, "Miss Lin is lucky to meet you."

"Do not."

Mo Chen said seriously: "I am lucky to have met her."

He opened the drawer and took out a Perkins pen, and started writing in the blank space of the leather notepad. He has a very good memory. He just listened to what Dr. Cheng said once, and now he wrote it down one by one.

Mo Chen's calligraphy is beautiful, strong and powerful, without any unnecessary strokes.

Next, he asked Dr. Cheng a lot of questions, recording them one by one, and finally asked: "Dr. Cheng, I would like to ask, why does she develop avoidant attachment personality?"

"I can only answer you. Most people with avoidant attachment style were repeatedly hit and denied during their growth, and lacked enough love to support them. Therefore, they are extremely eager for love and afraid of being hurt."

"Love her well."