After the adopted daughter of a wealthy family was reborn, everyone was cremated

"I just finished eating with my mother in the mall and saw a very cute little sheep doll. It is about 30 centimeters tall and is very suitable for holding. Do you want it?"

An Ran originally wanted to refuse because she basically didn't touch these dolls or buy them.

Maybe it’s because I haven’t played with them since I was a child. When I grow up, it’s hard to understand why some girls like dolls so much.

But she thought of a documentary she had seen in her previous life, which said that reshaping the brain can change your life!

“…most people spend 70% of their lives struggling to survive under the stress of life. So they always predict the worst-case scenario based on past experience.

But among the infinite possibilities in the quantum field, they chose the worst outcome and accepted it with fear. They let their bodies fall into a state of fear.

If you do this for a long time, your body will go into panic without your knowledge.

You can't even predict when it's going to happen because it's already programmed in your subconscious mind.

When you ask people, 'Why are you like this?'

They'll say, 'I'm the way I am because of something that happened to me 15 or 20 years ago. '

What this means from a biological perspective is that they haven't changed since that event happened, and the emotions from that experience tend to be a shock to the body and brain, and people become dependent on that emotional shock, and they Use the problems and dilemmas in life to explain the limitations they place on themselves (which can be understood as excuses for objective reasons), so that they can at least feel something.

So the hardest part of change is not making the same choices as yesterday.

When you decide to make a different choice, be prepared because it will make you uncomfortable, it will feel strange to you, so when a person wants to change, he steps into that river of change and does Makes different choices, and suddenly he doesn't feel the same way anymore.

You are going to stop suffering, stop feeling guilty.

Stop feeling ashamed, stop hugging or blaming others, stop making excuses or feeling sorry for yourself.

The same thoughts will lead you to make the same choices, lead you to repeat the same actions, create the same experiences, and therefore the same emotions.

If you sit down and start thinking, conjure up some worst-case scenario in your mind about the future, and start feeling the emotions that come from that event (scenario), your body won't be able to tell whether those emotions are coming from a real-world experience.

It is still created by imagination alone, so most people constantly confirm their emotional state. Therefore, when they want to give up that emotion.

You ask that person, "Why did you become like that?"

They'll say, "I really want to do this."

But actually the body is more powerful than the mind because it has always been programmed that way, so the slave becomes the master, and when that person suddenly steps into the unknown,

They would rather feel guilty and miserable because they can at least predict it. Being in the unknown is a scary thing for most people because the unknown is uncertain.

But in reality the body is more powerful than the mind because it has always been programmed that way, so the slave becomes the master.

And when that person suddenly steps into the unknown, they would rather feel guilt and pain because they can at least predict it. Being in the unknown is a scary thing for most people because the unknown is uncertain.

"Well, I can't predict my future, I'm in the unknown."

I always reply, "The best way to predict the future is to create it, not from the 'known' but from the 'unknown'."

In this case, what would happen if you try another way of life?

"Can you buy two for me? I want to give one to grandma as well."

"It's pink, are you sure your grandma wants it?"

"I'll call grandma and ask." An Ran hesitated.

"Okay, I'll wait for your call."

After hanging up Jane's phone, An Ran called Grandma An. She called the landline. After thinking on the phone for a while, she heard Grandma An's voice.

"where?"

"Grandma, it's me, Ran Ran."

"Why did you call me so late? Are you thinking about the persimmons? Don't worry, I'm taking good care of you."

"No." An Ran smiled, "It's a classmate of mine. He saw a very cute little sheep doll when he was in the mall. He said it was very suitable for holding. He asked me if I wanted it, but it was pink. I want to ask you, do you want?"

"Little pink sheep." Grandma An's happy laughter came over the phone, "Of course I want what you gave me."

"Okay." An Ran said, "I asked him to bring one for each of us, and I will send it to you on the weekend."

"Okay, I'll ask Aqiu to prepare delicious food on Saturday and wait for you at home."

"It's the weekend. I'll do my homework at home on Saturday. After I'm done, I'll see you on Sunday."

"it is good."

After An Ran hung up the phone with Grandma An, she called Shi Jian and said, "Grandma and I each have one. Please buy two for me. How much does it cost? I'll give them to you tomorrow."

After picking up another piece of wool from An Jing, An Ran felt that she could reward herself.

On the first floor of the shopping mall where people were coming and going, Shi Jian didn't say anything about money. She hung up her phone, picked up the two pink little sheep dolls on the shelf in front of her and threw them into the basket at her feet.

"I want it too, let's buy three." Shi's mother said to Shi Jian in time while admiring another carrot doll.

"Are you sure you want it? Are you kidding me?" Shi Jian looked at her mother in surprise.

"I really want to." Shi's mother said firmly.

……

After ending the call with Shi Jian, An Ran felt more relaxed.

Start by focusing on packing your wardrobe.

Giving up can really heal people's hearts. If the things you give up can be exchanged for money or other meanings, it will make people feel more relaxed and happy.

However, this is also an immersive but time-consuming thing. One night is not enough to leave her room.

Suddenly, a person's name popped into her mind - Xia Xizhou.

Sheng Fuhua is his aunt, who is five years older than him.

She is still a college student this year, in her third year, but she has been in the second-hand luxury goods business for two years. Her luxury store was only opened a few months ago.

Although the current store is not small in size, it is located in a remote location.

But An Ran knew that Xia Xizhou's second-hand luxury store would get better and better, unlike a few years later, when Xia Xizhou's store was very popular both online and offline, and there was no need to worry about business.

In the next few years, in addition to running a second-hand luxury goods store, she will also run a buyer's shop. She will become one of the most well-known buyer's store managers in the country in the future.

In her previous life, she rarely interacted with her, but she had to admit that Xia Xizhou was a girl with a lot of personality and business acumen.