She was too lazy to clean up after dressing up as a villain heroine
Chapter 254 Children’s Problem
"He said he wanted to write a letter of guarantee for me." Qiao Zhenzhen took the time to reply. She covered the fire folding bag and put it away. She brought a stool over and sat next to Han Zheng. Her posture was as if she was preparing to tutor her younger brother. Looks like doing homework.
"Guarantee letter?" Tenwan was confused after hearing this, and his round eyes moved in front of Han Zheng and Qiao Zhenzhen, "Why did he write you a guarantee letter? Did he make another mistake?"
Qiao Zhenzhen pressed Ten Thousand on the head, "I haven't made any mistakes yet, I'm just making plans for the future."
Ten Wan wanted to ask again, but Qiao Zhenzhen obviously had no time to answer it.
Unfolding a piece of rice paper and placing it in front of Han Zheng, while studying the ink, Qiao Zhenzhen said, "Have you thought about how to write the guarantee letter?"
"Of course I'm going to write about what worries you." Han Zheng dipped his pen in hand.
Qiao Zhenzhen nodded, "Since you brought it up, I won't be polite. Besides, even if you wrote this letter of guarantee, I can't be the only one who knows about it."
Han Zheng frowned.
This kind of thing is somewhat embarrassing.
"Must the third person know?"
"That's natural. There is no witness. This guarantee letter is known to you and me. If I take it out in the future, people will think that I forged it. And if only the two of us know it, it will be just like what you said in vain to coax me. "
Qiao Zhenzhen changed the topic, "But don't worry, I can't let many people know. After you write it, I will seal it and ask my eldest brother to bring it to my father, and let my father keep it for us. My father, you I know it, and I never talk about it, and it is even less likely that I will spread it everywhere."
"I'm not that harsh. I told you that you are absolutely not allowed to take concubines. I remember which family has a rule that only children in the clan can take concubines when they are forty and have no children. We are not forty either, so can you still do that? It’s hard to say whether you will live or not, so just be thirty-five. If you still have no children at thirty-five, you can take a concubine.”
"Then I really have to thank you."
Han Zheng gritted his teeth when he said this. What does it mean to be able to have a baby at 40?
That is to say, he can't prove it now, otherwise...
"But - my master checked my pulse, I have no problem. As for you..."
Her eyes were sizing up Han Zheng's back.
"Anyway, you are going to stay here for a few more days. Let Master give you a look. If you are normal, we will not have children by the time you are thirty-five. That can only mean one thing."
"what is the problem?"
"It's just that I don't want to have a baby, or we're not suitable."
"You don't want to have children?" Han Zheng was surprised. He had never thought that a woman would not want to have children of her own.
Qiao Zhenzhen's expression was very calm, "Because I think giving birth to a child is a very serious matter, and it is very harmful to women. If the other person is not the right person, it is not worth it for me to do it. And if the child is in a cold place , growing up in an environment where parents have no affection or even hostility, I think there may be certain psychological defects."
She temporarily plans not to have children for three years.
If the woman has been reluctant to have children in the marriage, but the man is determined to have children, then this matter should be made clear before the marriage. If one party cannot accept the marriage, the marriage should not be concluded. Now that it is done, everything should be done well for the follow-up. Mental preparation for what happens.
Three years later, if the relationship between the two develops smoothly and the family satisfies her, it is not that she cannot consider the issue of her children.
But if everything goes as she thought before, with all kinds of difficulties and obstacles, it would be better to live in separate houses, or to let Han Zheng marry again, and she will live a happy life, and no one will delay the other.
She can't be the kind of mistress who washes her underwear with a cold face.
The education that Han Zheng received since he was a child never stipulated that children should grow up in a loving environment.
When you reach an age, obeying the orders of your parents, marrying a matchmaker, and then raising and raising children is not a very complicated matter that involves a lot of personal feelings. It is more like a task that must be completed as a human being.
The girl in front of her was very serious when she said these words.
It is a completely different attitude towards life from him.
It felt very novel to him.
It was probably the good relationship between her parents that made her think this way.
He also thought about the way his parents got along, and how in the past, although he was fond of Tang Anning, because he knew it was impossible and never thought about fighting for it, he still got engaged when it was time to get engaged. It was only because of constant accidents that he was delayed to his current age.
At this moment, he clearly felt that the two people lived so different lives.
My heart moved.
"Does your parents have to have a good relationship before you are willing to give birth?"
"Of course, do you know how many women have lost their lives due to childbirth, and how many diseases they have suffered after giving birth? To put it bluntly, if you are a scumbag, why should I sacrifice myself like this? Do I have any self-abuse disease? ?”
That is to say, the spread of ancient knowledge was unfavorable and common sense was lacking. In Qiao Zhenzhen's era, there were a lot of videos of simulated births, and many mothers after giving birth shared their difficulties on various platforms.
It’s okay if you don’t know some things. The more you know, the harder it will be to do anything.
The ignorant must be fearless.
"Scumbag?"
"A man who is like a scumbag." Qiao Zhenzhen explained, "Just like you used to think about one person in your heart, but your behavior is to marry another. In my opinion, it is the behavior of a scumbag man, and he is irresponsible for both."
Han Zheng laughed angrily and poked her chubby cheek with the other end of the brush.
"They say you are not allowed to mention that matter again."
Qiao Zhenzhen made a face at him, "So what if I mention it?"
Feng's eyes narrowed slightly, and he said in a deep voice: "You will know later."
It wasn't a very explicit statement, but Qiao Zhenzhen's face suddenly turned yellow when she heard it. She almost jumped up, suppressed her breath, and patted Han Zheng twice on the shoulder, "You are going to die for saying such things!"
Han Zheng rubbed his shoulders and said with a smile, "What did I say?"
Qiao Zhenzhen glared, "What did you say that you didn't know you wanted to ask me?"
Han Zheng shook his head, looked back at the paper in front of him, picked up his pen and continued, "I don't know."
"Prude, hypocrite." Qiao Zhenzhen muttered in a low voice.
After some self-reflection, it’s true that the adulterer sees adultery. Han Zheng is a “childish man” and should not be so unrestrained.
After listening to it for so long, Ten Wan was really shocked, "Wow, it turns out he is so good at flirting. I never noticed it before. Mensao, he is definitely Mensao! On the surface, he looks serious, dull and boring , in fact it’s not at all——”
"You're right, he's just a sultry guy." Qiao Zhenzhen and Ten Wan made eye contact.
"Tsk, tsk, tsk, it's not easy for him to survive until now." Ten thousand commented.
Qiao Zhenzhen ignored it this time and continued to talk to Han Zheng: "When you interrupted me, I forgot where I was talking."
"Speaking of having children." Han Zheng laughed.
Qiao Zhenzhen corrected: "It's not giving birth."
"Yes, I won't give birth." Han Zheng followed her.
Qiao Zhenzhen cleared her throat and continued: "Leave aside the relationship between parents, if a woman gives birth too early, her bones are not fully grown, which actually does a lot of harm to the body. The child may also be weak, and eventually It’s better to be over eighteen.”
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