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"When I was a child, I went to my grandfather's house to play. A rooster pecked his hand and blood was drawn. My grandfather came out and slapped the chicken on the head with a spade, then carried the twitching chicken into the kitchen.

The chicken was rectified that night!

Because my father is rich, if he kills one chicken, he can still buy many more chickens.

My father is more concerned about whether my hands will leave scars than his cock. "

Zhang Lin shook his head proudly and regretfully. He felt like he wanted to raise a child but refused to be kissed. He said in a faint voice: "And my neighbor's child Hei Dan'er was pecked on the head by a rooster. His grandmother scolded Hei Dan'er throughout the summer vacation. Lock him up at home and don't let him play in the yard, for fear that he will hurt the chickens if he is naughty.

The family had no money, so the only one that could crow had to be kept to let the hens go into heat and lay eggs to hatch chicks. "

Nodding silently, Hu Yongqiang felt like he didn't understand.

Zhang Lin kept saying: "The same is true for locking children in the car by mistake. Some parents just throw bricks and smash the car glass without thinking.

Some parents strongly insist on waiting for the unlocker to come, shouting into the car, "Kid, hold on, the unlocker will come soon."

So, why do most poor people have family disharmony? Isn’t this a simple reason?

Because for many poor people, money is much more important than family ties, love, and human life. "

Hu Yongqiang: (ow`o)

He couldn't agree more with this summary.

Zhang Lin smiled and said: "Zhihu has a highly praised question:

Are children from poor families miserable from birth?

One of the upvoted answers said this:

The greatest sorrow for children born into poor families is not poverty, nor is it the incompetence of their parents.

The greatest tragedy for a child born into a poor family is that you live in a very bad environment. From birth to death, you are surrounded by a group of incompetent and negative people who do not want to see you good and do not want you to live well. People who are too kind will be surrounded by people who hold you back.

Basically, you can't get rid of it. "

Nodding with deep understanding, Hu Yongqiang couldn't help but hold his breath.

Zhang Lin kept saying: "The greatest evil in human nature is not to see others living better than themselves, especially those who had similar conditions in all aspects.

Whether intentionally or unintentionally, these people will often continue to influence you until they drag you into the abyss. Until they see that you are like them again, everyone feels comfortable. "

Hu Yongqiang felt suffocated as he nodded again.

He was too embarrassed to tell Zhang Lin.

Although he is now a civil servant and has done well in the Department of Culture.

But even though Shiro is now 10 years old, his original family is still his nightmare, and his surviving parents are still a thorn in his heart.

It’s not that he is unfilial.

Every winter, his parents still come to live with him for half a year, and in summer and autumn they stay with his younger brother who has settled in Gannan for half a year.

The scenery there is picturesque, and the temperature in summer is around ten degrees, making it a good place to travel.

He and his younger brother also tried their best to let their parents enjoy their old age as comfortably as possible.

But as Zhang Lin said, parents always have the feeling that he is ungrateful and arrogant, and they have no choice but to swallow this bowl of rice when they are old.

But when I was studying, if I hadn't insisted on repeating my studies, quarreling and falling out with my extremely controlling father, and finally borrowing money from my brother-in-law to repeat my studies for a year, my life would have been completely different.

Later, when they got married while working, they picked on their wives in various ways in the name of themselves, and the family conflicts became more and more intense.

Hu Yongqiang admits that his wife is not a fuel-efficient person. At least she cannot respect her parents-in-law to the extent that the previous generation did.

But times have changed after all!

Just like his landlord and wealthy family, they would prepare their favorite meals on time every morning, noon and evening, and would cause all kinds of unpleasantness after eating a hot pot they didn't like. No woman today would accept that.

Fortunately, his wife was born in 75. If you look at the current 8090, she would have been divorced countless times!

From the bottom of his heart, Hu Yongqiang was very tired of this family.

No matter how cruel your parents are, you can't harden your heart.

After all, human hearts are made of flesh!

His parents are old, and they didn't really care about him when he was growing up. They just had too much control and ended up doing bad things with good intentions.

Feeling confused, Zhang Lin in front of me kept saying: "When I was in high school, there were a total of 8 people in the dormitory.

Three are from the city and five are from the village.

In the process of getting along with everyone, I found that the children in the city are relatively cheerful, have a sunny heart, and smile all day long.

Children from the village are more taciturn.

Maybe children who grew up in the city have stronger inner self-confidence and don't have to worry about material things since they were young.

What about the children in the village?

Some parents will complain to them every day that it is too hard to make money, and the cost of college is too high. Don’t waste money, don’t waste food, just have enough food in school and warm clothes.

The child hears this every day and feels cowardly inside. Can he become sunny? "

After coming back to his senses, Hu Yongqiang smiled bitterly and nodded.

Speaking of which, he was the taciturn person in the dormitory. What Zhang Lin said was so accurate!

But money is the backbone. Without money, the backbone cannot be strong!

If you make friends with classmates in the city, they will regard it as a normal dinner party, which may be your living expenses for at least half a month.

Tilting his head and recalling, Zhang Lin said: "When my friend was in college, the parents of one of his roommates would often nag in the video:

As long as you are willing to learn, even if your family sells everything, it will continue to support your education.

If you don’t study hard, don’t come into this house in the future. We will not give up food or clothing for you...

Save 1000 words here. "

It goes without saying that this friend is him in his previous life.

In that Sanben University, he had such a hard-working classmate.

He looked at Hu Yongqiang and sighed: "Because my classmate's roommate's parents had too high expectations for my classmate's roommate, which put him under too much mental pressure, so he dropped out of school in his sophomore year!"

He said, "It's such a pity!"

Hu Yongqiang heard Zhang Lin nod and said: "Yes, if the parents of a child with average conditions are still like this, the inner pressure will be too great!

What’s even more unbearable is:

Our parents are nagging us every day, and we are incompetent. From now on, this family will be counting on you...

Don’t fight when you should fight, don’t be brave when you should be brave, and then expect your children to fight for you and your children to be brave for you.

What kind of sick weak mentality is this? "

Regarding this, Hu Yongqiang felt that it was okay.

At the very least, such parents will admit that they are incompetent.

Unlike his father, who was obviously lazy and had a bad personality. He had never made any money in his life, but he still felt that he was the greatest in the world every day.

Meeting such a great father is a nightmare in life!

Zhang Lin didn't know this and said to himself: "So, most parents from lower-class families will not encourage their children, they will only hit or order their children.