A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character
Chapter 1028: Fishing (1)
But what if Zhang Zhipeng went to check the surveillance and found that there was no surveillance camera at the parking place? He would not be able to explain himself even if he had all his words.
After all, the facts are here. You drove someone else's car from Jiangcheng back to your hometown. The person in the middle of the car did not move, and the rear of the car was indeed scratched. You don't know how to explain it.
It is useless for people to advise others; it is enough for things to teach people once.
Maybe when Zhang Zhipeng was driving, he felt that this classmate had indeed had his driver's license revoked due to drunk driving for the second time, and it was understandable for him to help out as a classmate.
But he never thought about it. It was such a long journey, more than ten hours of driving on the highway, and he didn't often drive on the highway. What if there was an accident along the way?
Don't sympathize with anyone, even the closest ones, because whoever you sympathize with, your subconscious mind will automatically bear the fate of that person. Don't bear the fate of anyone else, shoulder your own mission first, and then help others when you are fully grown and have spare energy. Otherwise, you will only drag yourself down, which seems aggrieved, but is actually foolish.
What truly heals people is never time, but the relief and pattern in people's hearts. As long as one is not panicked inside, even the world can hardly affect him.
Kindness must have a bottom line and should not interfere with the cause and effect of others.
Some things can obviously be avoided and the damage can be minimized, but the people involved in the incidents refuse to listen to the advice and insist on having their own way. In the end, they end up in a disastrous end, and then they will regret why they didn't listen to the advice.
Some people, clearly able to live a better life, always stubbornly follow their own ideas and are unwilling to be hindered by others, until they reach despair, then they come to their senses.
It is the cause and effect in life, personal cause and personal effect, which others cannot interfere with or change.
Life is very realistic. It will not tell us how to go, but will only teach us how to adapt. The detours we have to take, the hardships we have to endure, and the traps we have to fall into are all inevitable.
Growth is always passive. What makes people mature is never age but experience. What makes people turn back is never reason but the wall.
In this world, there is no such thing as "putting yourself in someone else's shoes", there is only "being sincere in exchange for being heartless"!
Sacrificing yourself to help others is a foolish kindness.
No one will be understanding because of your "tolerance", they will only become more demanding because of your "concession".
Human nature is sinister. We often consider other people's feelings and sacrifice ourselves for a little bit of face and empathy. In the end, we are the only ones who suffer.
In fact, you are not that important to others, and similarly, others are not that important to you.
There are so many people falling on the stairs. No one pays attention to who you are. If you can't help, the other party will naturally look for someone else.
There is no need to have a bodhisattva's compassion for everyone, to empathize with all living beings with the love gained by sacrificing oneself, and to take full responsibility for the lives of others.
Before gaining the ability, all a person can do is to balance his life and improve his abilities.
As the ancients said: If you are poor, you should take care of yourself; if you are rich, you should help the world.
When you are poor, if you can't even do good for yourself, why should you go beyond your ability and do meaningless and foolish things to be kind?
Only screening, not education; only selection, not change. If the cognition is not at the same level, there is no need to conquer each other.
Those who cherish their blessings know how to keep themselves clean. Those who are capable know how to help others.
People spend their entire lives paying for their own karma. Interfering with the karma of others does not accumulate blessings, but creates karma.
This is how you persuade, but it is easy to say the words, but it is hard to say whether the listener can take it to heart and whether they will accept it after hearing it to heart.
Zhang Hu suggested that Zhang Zhipeng go out for a while and play for a while to broaden his mind. Zhang Lan thought that it would be better for Zhang Zhipeng to find a girlfriend to travel together. It is good to travel alone, but this mode of relaxation is not as good as taking a girlfriend along.
Zhang Hu thought it made sense and said with a smile, "Zhipeng, it would be best if you take your girlfriend out to play for a few days. While you're out playing, you can also deepen your relationship with your girlfriend."
"How can I have a girlfriend? I'm alone now." Zhang Zhipeng replied with a smile.
"Some time ago, I heard from my aunt that Zhipeng you had a girlfriend outside. My aunt really wanted you to bring her home to visit her during the New Year. How come you are single again now?" Zhang Hu asked with some surprise.
"Don't mention it. It was fine at the beginning, but after a while I found that it wasn't working. I, from a poor family, couldn't afford the consumption of their wealthy family. Later we broke up." Zhang Zhipeng sighed and waved his hand.
"If it's a matter of money, as long as the two people have feelings for each other and understand each other, they can overcome it through some adjustment." Zhang Hu said.
"What is there to overcome? I can't overcome it. Brother Hu, you don't know the actual situation here..." Zhang Zhipeng explained the reason for the breakup.
When they first met, she lived in a single room that cost 1,000 yuan. Later, when they got to know each other, she said she wanted to move, so she moved. She started by looking at a house that cost more than 3,000 yuan for decoration, and her monthly salary was only more than 4,000 yuan.
"Three thousand is three thousand. If there are two of you living there, it's not expensive in Jiangcheng." Zhang Lan interrupted.
"The problem is that she didn't tell me to live there, and since she didn't tell me, then so be it. When I was showing her the house, she didn't mention money at all. She said the environment was great and it would be nice to live there. She didn't tell me how to pay, and was waiting for me to take the initiative to negotiate the price and pay so she could live there," Zhang Zhipeng explained.
"I'm not a sucker. I paid three months' deposit and three months' payment for that house, more than 10,000 yuan all at once. They didn't even give me a clear answer as to whether they were going to live there or not, leaving me guessing what they were thinking. I just followed suit and praised the good environment and said it was a good place to rent. I didn't even mention the money, and we didn't even rent the house until we broke up." Zhang Zhipeng was still a little proud.
Zhang Hu and Zhang Lan looked at each other. Zhang Lan laughed in silence. Zhang Hu couldn't help but ask Zhang Zhipeng, "Didn't they say you didn't ask?"
"What are you asking? What's there to ask?" Zhang Zhipeng didn't quite understand.
Zhang Hu took a deep breath and said helplessly: "Just rent the house. If you don't have money, take a night off and ask the other party if they can rent the house and live together."
“Is it okay to ask that?”
"Can't you ask this? You don't have enough money, but you still want to find a girlfriend, and you also need face. Can you find one?" Zhang Hu asked back.
"Even if the other party doesn't plan to let you live there, it doesn't mean that you think they will do so. You have to ask. If you don't ask, how do you know that they plan to live there by themselves and not share with you?" Zhang Lan couldn't help but say something.
"Making a girlfriend or getting married costs money. It's understandable that we can't afford it, and it's also understandable that we don't want to waste money, but it's not appropriate to think that they are all scammers because of this."
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