When the jungle is full of fruit trees and animals, survival does not depend on ability. When the environment deteriorates and wild animals swarm, only those who survive are strong. This requires every species in the jungle to constantly evolve, adapt to the new environment, and change themselves. Only by constantly evolving can we survive for a long time!

When a person is in his twenties and before getting married, he should make more girlfriends and good friends. If there are skills to learn, learn more skills. If you are good at talking, get to know more people.

You can’t see it when you are young, but as you get older you will find that true friends are selected, they don’t just stand there and wait for people to come by.

What kind of friends a person can make often depends on who your neighbors are when you are born, who your desk mate is when you go to school, and who your dormitory is when you live on campus.

Some people can endure it, avoid useless socializing, and save a lot of time for learning. Some people can't endure it. When they were young, they went out drinking and wanted to kowtow to any dog ​​they met, and made many "brothers" who were not related to them at all.

I regretted it when I grew up, but I didn’t regret it later. Even if I squeezed out time to make friends, it was nothing more than playing a few more rounds of mahjong.

Everyone has their own characteristics.

Before they knew it, the cousins ​​drank more and more. They had originally been thinking about talking about something, but later they simply gave up on it.

You have to walk your own path. If you get stuck, just get someone to pull you out. Zhang Lan now has the ability to do so.

As for the rest, everyone has his own way, it all depends on God.

Zhang Lan was awakened by the ringing of the phone in the morning. She picked up the phone and saw that it was Zhang Hu calling.

"Zhang Lan, are you free today?"

"If you have something to say, please tell me. I'm free now." Zhang Lan replied.

"If I'm free, I'll come to see you later. Let's go to our third aunt's house together. There's something going on there and we have to go over there." Zhang Hu said.

"What is it?"

"Let's talk when I get there. I'll drive to your place now, and you come out and wait for me at the door." Zhang Hu said.

"Okay, I'll get up, wash my face and go out."

After getting up, getting dressed, washing his face, and taking two boxes of milk and some bread, Zhang Lan hadn't gone out yet when Zhang Hu walked in from outside.

"Have you eaten? I took two boxes of milk, you take two boxes too." Zhang Lan said.

"I'll just take one box to help me get over the alcohol. I've already had something to eat this morning."

After getting in the car, Zhang Hu drove out of the village. Zhang Lan asked, "What's the matter?"

"Our third aunt and uncle had a quarrel over the issue of elderly care. My third uncle called my dad and said that the two of them were quarreling at home and asked us to go over and try to mediate," Zhang Hu explained simply.

"What does our third uncle mean? Asking us to go over and persuade her does that mean he thinks our third aunt is being unreasonable?" Zhang Lan asked with some confusion.

"I don't know yet. I called Li Ming and he told me something. But how can I explain such family matters..." Zhang Hu sounded a little helpless.

Zhang Lan’s third uncle Li Baogui has three brothers and two sisters, and Li Baogui is the youngest.

The old man has passed away for many years, and now there is only one old lady, who is 92 years old. Originally, it was said that the eldest son was responsible for the elderly, and the property of the old man and the old lady belonged to the eldest family.

After Li Baogui married Zhang Lan's third aunt, the old man and old lady presided over the division of the family property. Until a few years ago, Zhang Lan's third aunt's side was taken care of by the old head.

It was not until the year before last that Li Baogui’s eldest brother passed away, and the issue of retirement was raised again.

Because Li Baogui's eldest brother's wife was in poor health, the old lady was already 90 years old at the time and had some difficulty moving around. It was obviously a bit too much to expect an old lady who was almost 70 years old and in poor health to take care of another 90-year-old old lady.

It's hard to say about the grandchildren. The second uncle and the third uncle are still alive. Letting the eldest grandson and his wife take care of two old ladies will make people in the village look at them with disdain.

Moreover, the son of elder brother Li Baogui also said that as the eldest grandson, it’s not that he doesn’t want to take care of the old lady, but that he really has no ability to do so.

There are children below who are about to get married, and there are two elderly people above. He and his wife are also responsible for the family's lives. They can't just ignore everything in the family.

Later, several families sat together to discuss. The old lady was in her 90s. Among her children, the eldest son had passed away, the second son was in his 60s, and the third son, Li Baogui, was in his early 50s. The two daughters were also in their early 60s, and one was almost 60.

The second family has two daughters and two sons. The youngest son is not married yet. He was fined to the point of bankruptcy for having children, and he still hasn't recovered.

Li Baogui has a son and a daughter, and lives the best life.

At the beginning, it was discussed that the three sons' families would move during the New Year, and the two daughters would come back from time to time to help the old lady with cleaning.

Because the eldest family can't take care of the old lady except for feeding her, and the second family is busy making money, so they have no problem taking care of her, but they don't eat on time at noon.

After much calculation, Li Baogui is the most suitable one. Li Baogui is only in his early fifties. Zhang Lan's third aunt has never gone out to work in her life and has always lived at home. No matter how you look at it, she is the most suitable person to take care of the old lady.

At the beginning, the old lady was still able to move, and she only needed to prepare meals for her and put them there, and she didn't have to worry about anything else. Her clothes and daily necessities were taken care of by her two daughters from time to time.

So even though Third Aunt Zhang Lan had been used to living without her parents-in-law for decades, she never said anything. Even if the old lady occasionally said a few words when she was not happy with something, Third Aunt Zhang Lan just pretended not to see or hear anything.

No matter what happens, Li Baogui will be the one to handle it.

At the end of last year, the old lady fell down in an accident at her old home. She was injured quite badly. After she was discharged from the hospital, she could only move in a wheelchair.

This is a problem. The old lady in the wheelchair needs someone to take care of her eating, drinking, defecating, urinating and sleeping. The elders immediately raised their objections and said that they could no longer take care of her.

After being discharged from the hospital, we sat together to talk about elderly care. The old lady's son and daughter-in-law said one thing: we can't expect the grandson and granddaughter-in-law to take care of the old lady's eating, drinking, defecating and urinating. My mother is still in the hospital every day, and we can't take care of the old lady.

The old family was also very direct. The old man and the old woman left all their property to my father, so we can take out the few acres of land under the old lady's name. We will also pay for the old lady's hospitalization and medicine, but there is only one thing, and our family really cannot take care of her.

Turning my attention to the second son, he is also single. I am over 60 years old, and my husband and I still go out to work every day to earn money for our son. It is not realistic to send someone to take care of the old lady.

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