A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

(This chapter has no plot advancement and can be skipped.)

As for those who are just looking for excitement, how many of them want to destroy their families? They are always worried that the affair will be exposed and the family will be broken up, and those who love their children deeply are worried that the accident of extramarital affair will cause shock and harm to their children.

Of course, there are also people like Zhang Hu, who want to keep the red flag flying at home while the colorful flags are flying outside. But this kind of thing is easy to say. For example, Tian Qingyong now knows better than anyone whether the colorful flags are flying outside or not at home.

In the eyes of most men, there is a clear difference between a wife and a lover.

In the eyes of men, their wives are their families. Family means a sense of responsibility, so when men are with their wives, they feel pressured by the heavy responsibilities on their shoulders.

Being with a woman outside only costs a little money and time, and a man will feel relaxed without having to bear too much responsibility.

It is this relaxed state of getting along that makes men addicted to it. Although they know that it is like the moon in the water and the flower in the mirror, which is destined not to last long, they still cannot extricate themselves.

Also, no matter how delicious the food is, you will get tired of eating it every day; no matter how beautiful the clothes are, you will get tired of wearing them every day; no matter how good a person is, the feelings will fade after being together for more than ten or twenty years.

Some people feel that when they are with their wives, they discuss either the house, the children, or daily necessities. The trivial matters of the family are even more boring, either they have to do endless housework or help the children with their homework. Day after day, year after year, the relationship is worn out.

When you are with your lover, you either go to a hotel, go shopping, or go to the movies. How can a man not indulge in such a happy and carefree state of being together?

People are born selfish, and most people will choose people and things that make them happy. Most people find it hard to resist escaping from reality and pursuing temporary pleasure.

A long time ago, people could only love one person in their lifetime, because transportation and everything was slow.

Nowadays, everything is fast-paced, and getting to know each other is just like adding a friend.

Today's third-party platforms, live broadcasts, short videos, can be downloaded at any time, and there are young, cute and energetic young men and women. In today's online temptations, cheating has become easier and the cost is also very low.

The flag is flying at home, and the colorful flags are flying outside. It seems to be a joke, but it has really started to be implemented in the current social software. So many people are trying various excitement and novelty. For the wife at home, as long as she is guaranteed not to know about this, everything will be fine.

Zhang Hu was very open-minded about this kind of thing. He smiled and said to Zhang Lan, "There's nothing to regret. The two children are growing up slowly. Even if they hate me as they are now, I will still be a good father to them when I save enough money. As for when I'm old, I'll have children and money, so I can at least have something to eat."

"It's different now than it was before. When we were kids, when some families got married, if the woman was not a virgin, the two families would fight. But now, not to mention not being a virgin, even being pregnant is not a problem. As long as you are willing to get married and have children in the future. This is the society we live in now."

Zhang Hu felt that he saw things much more clearly than Zhang Lan. In Zhang Hu's opinion, a nerd like Zhang Lan, who joined the company right after graduating from school and got married and had children in his thirties, was still far behind in the ways of the world, no matter how different he was.

For example, today at Third Aunt's house, Zhang Aiping asked them to keep an eye out for Li Ming and introduce him to a partner. Zhang Lan was often not at home so she didn't mention it, and Zhang Hu just laughed it off and didn't respond to Third Aunt's words.

The reason was that he had asked Li Ming before, and Li Ming told him that he hoped his girlfriend or future wife would give herself to him for the first time.

After hearing this, Zhang Hu was too lazy to say anything. It's not that Li Ming's idea is wrong, there is nothing wrong with having such an idea, but in Zhang Hu's opinion, such things also have to have a premise.

If Li Ming has the ability, then there is nothing to say. It is his ability to find anything.

But if he was introducing a blind date and still held this idea, Zhang Hu felt that he did not have that ability.

If you spend more time online, you will find that people talk differently online than in real life. There is no cost to posting opinions online. If a person has an idea, there will always be someone who has the same idea as him.

But it’s different in reality. Although no one will object in reality, those who disagree will distance themselves from you without any prior agreement.

In Zhang Hu's opinion, Li Ming's idea requires a core premise, which is how good are the personal conditions?

If the conditions are good, then you can naturally ask yourself to find someone who has never lived with others.

But if the conditions are not good, then you have to accept your fate. It is good enough for a poor person to have a wife. Don't have any dreams about love. It is difficult for poor people to get love.

If a poor person is looking for a wife, he only needs to check whether the person is ready to settle down and live a stable life. Anything else is false.

As for the idea that true love is invincible, everyone has been through a period of youth, and no one wants to marry a rich and handsome man.

But if the conditions are not good, it's good to have a job offer. If you don't accept it, others will rush to take it. In the public opinion on the Internet, everyone is a proud single aristocrat, but in reality, if anyone is suitable for marriage, there are countless neighbors watching before they reach adulthood.

Zhang Hu used to hang out in the town. In this circle, Zhang Hu knew better than anyone what kind of wife would be most suitable for a man if his conditions were not good, and how many of these people married what kind of wives.

Some of them are more concerned about their reputation and are afraid of losing their dignity, so they like to brag to others that they have dated many people. But they just want to save face and balance their mentality.

But what's the use of this actually? In Zhang Hu's opinion, a pitiful person becomes even more pitiful by trying to deceive himself that he is not pitiful.

If marriage is not for love, then it is for life after weighing the pros and cons. Since it is for life, don't deceive yourself that it is for love.

As the saying goes, a man lives by his face and a tree lives by its bark, but in today's society where people laugh at poverty but not at prostitution, the more you put on airs, the more you will be laughed at by others.

There is nothing wrong with having your own ideas when you are young. If you don't get hurt, how can you know your naivety? You can't wait until you are old enough to afford to lose, and then think about fighting all day long, and end up messing up your life.

This is Zhang Hu's opinion, and Zhang Lan has a similar view, but this view is directed at strangers. As for his relatives, Zhang Lan still thinks it is better to go as smoothly as possible.