A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

What the caretaker said about the old lady's family made Yu Lingling next to her feel even more guilty. Upon seeing this, Zhang Lan hurriedly asked the old lady where the old lady lived.

The caretaker of the place where I live is really not familiar with it. He does know the original place. But as the old lady became ill and the three grandchildren later went to school, the family has moved to the suburbs. The houses in the ring are for rent. To subsidize the household expenses.

However, the old lady set up a stall in front of a nearby school to earn some money while picking up and dropping off her children.

According to the address mentioned by the uncle, Zhang Lan led Yu Lingling and two people to find the old lady's stall.

As soon as she saw the old lady, Yu Lingling hurriedly stepped forward to apologize. Zhang Lan was a little surprised at first. This old lady set up a stall to do business, and there was a piece of paper with a QR code to scan next to her. Why did she need Yu Lingling to help her scan the code to buy things.

Yu Lingling took out her mobile phone and scanned the QR code to give the old lady money. The old lady quickly stopped her and said that she knew the milk tea Yu Lingling bought was at that price and there was no need to give her any more money.

Under the obstruction of the old lady, Yu Lingling still scanned the QR code and paid. The other party took out the money and wanted to give it to Yu Lingling. Yu Lingling quickly pulled Zhang Lan and ran away.

Before leaving, Zhang Lan had a thought in her heart and cast a 'Save All Beings' on the old lady. Everyone has different situations. Since she encountered someone who is particularly miserable, let's help.

In this society, parents can help their sons more than they can bear. It is a very common characteristic to work hard and go all out for your children.

But Zhang Lan feels that sometimes when children become adults, after doing their best as parents, they should exit gracefully and let them face the ups and downs, pressures and setbacks of life on their own.

Parents suffer all the hardships and leave sweet things to their children. They will not learn to take responsibility, have no responsibility, and cannot grow.

The saddest thing for parents is to carry everything for their children, but leave their children unable to face the world.

All love in this world has the purpose of gathering together, but the love of parents for their children has the purpose of separation. If you are reluctant to let your child suffer, he will suffer in the future, and the people around him will also suffer.

On this road of life, we must eventually learn to let go freely, and our children must also learn to live independently.

Help is okay, but it’s almost enough. Being able to buy a car or a house for your children is something you should do, but if you don’t have that ability, you should live your own life well.

Previously, Zhang Lan met two couples who came to see him for medical treatment. The woman was a teacher for many years and earned five to six thousand yuan a month.

The man works in a state-owned enterprise, and his salary alone is more than 6,000 yuan, not including other daily income.

Together with their part-time jobs, the couple can earn more than 20,000 yuan a month. They bought a house with a loan in Kyoto and have finally settled down.

But how do you earn part-time income? Zhang Lan heard the woman’s description. She went to the adjacent community after get off work every day to cook two meals for an old couple. Their family was in good condition. Their son was in business and settled abroad. My daughter lives in another district.

No matter it was their son's home abroad or their daughter's home in China, the old couple were unwilling to go, so they had no choice but to hire her to cook lunch and dinner for the two old people every day.

After the woman got off work, she had to rush home. She had obtained the elderly's consent for the week's menu and planned it in advance. Fortunately, there was a supermarket at the door of the community, so it was very convenient to buy food.

At noon, her husband ate in the workplace canteen, and she prepared a meal for the old man. Then she went home and made some noodles, and then it was time to go to work in the afternoon.

After work in the evening, she was the first to rush out of the office. She went to the elderly's home first to arrange for them to eat, and then rushed home non-stop. Most of them still ate the simplest noodles, because they couldn't waste time.

Because in the evening, she had to go to a restaurant near the community to do some work. She works until 12 midnight, five and a half hours, and the salary is average, but it still depends on the acquaintances, otherwise people won't like to use part-time workers like her.

When I got home in the middle of the night every day, I was so exhausted that I didn't want to wash my face or feet, so I just fell asleep on the bed.

And when she was too busy and exhausted, her husband was not idle either. After getting off work, he took a bite of food and drove a night taxi from 7 o'clock to 12 o'clock, which lasted for five hours.

Their income as a couple is already very good, so why are they so exhausted? It’s not that they are greedy for money, but they are forced to do so. Even though they have a combined monthly income of more than 20000 yuan, they still cannot make ends meet.

She and her husband have an older child and a younger one. After buying the house, they thought about creating a better life for their children in the future. Although she has now settled in Kyoto, there are no good schools in the area where their community is located. She even weaned the child early and sent it to her grandparents in her hometown.

I just want to take advantage of these few years to work hard, and when the time comes for my children to go to elementary school, I will strive to replace them with a more suitable house and have a suitable school for my children to attend.

Originally, what the woman wanted was that she and her husband would work hard for a few years to give their children a better future.

But when they found Zhang Lan, both of them were suffering from ailments. The man often worked overtime and had to drive late at night on weekdays. He had pain in his waist and it was difficult to walk.

Not to mention the woman, who has accumulated a lot of diseases due to her hard-working three-mother approach. She is not particularly tired at night and has difficulty falling asleep.

And with the development of society, two people can no longer take care of their part-time jobs. How can there be so much time to work part-time? The development of the Internet makes people unable to clean up after get off work.

When they found Zhang Lan, the couple no longer had a part-time job, and they couldn't even take care of their own jobs.

Time is a train that keeps moving forward. No matter you are poor or rich, it will bring you to the end of your life sooner or later, allowing you to go from a baby waiting to be fed, to staggering through youth and middle age, to where you are destined to have countless lives. Regretful old age.

When some people look back on their lives as they get older, they realize that they have done so many wrong things and regretted decisions that were too late.

The generation of parents has always been the most sacrificial. When they begin to play the role of parents in their lives, everything about their children will be higher than everything in their lives.

They can give up another possibility in their lives for their children, they can contribute all their savings for their children, and they can work hard for their children's happiness without any complaints.

But such efforts are usually expected to be rewarded.