A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

Under normal circumstances, the easiest way is to transfer back to Shangshi to go to school. No matter how hard the teachers and principals in Kyoto are, they still don't care. If it were the shopping mall where Li Xinning was treated like this, Zhang Lan estimated that Li Yuan would dare to point at the teachers and principal of the school and scold them bloody, and then support the child in the end.

Education is an eternal topic, and no one can say what is the most correct approach. Same approach, but different kids.

Everyone's living environment and psychological situation are different. There is no way that it will definitely work for your child.

Zhang Lan is thinking about how to cultivate Li Xinning's self-confidence. If Li Yuan does not transfer to another school, the best way is to make Li Xinning mentally strong enough to face it.

Then as time goes by and you make enough friends, things will naturally change.

But Zhang Lan is not sure whether a child can fight against isolation. Even adults fear nothing more than loneliness.

Some things have not been experienced personally, and simply standing aside and watching, it is difficult to understand and experience nothing.

Easier said than done. No matter how much an adult breaks some truth into pieces and tells it to a child, the child may not be able to understand or do it.

When I was ten years old, I didn’t understand why my father couldn’t take time off to come to his parent-teacher conference.

When I was fifteen years old, I didn’t understand why my parents were laughing so hard even though the jokes told by the boss were not funny when they were having dinner.

When I was sixteen years old, I didn’t understand why my parents had to spend so much money to force me to attend cram schools even though they didn’t earn much. With this money, why not eat some delicious food and buy a better mobile phone?

When I was twenty years old, I felt that I was a talent and would definitely earn a million dollars a year in the future. You can buy a car or a house within minutes of graduation. I don’t understand why so many people call themselves poor, thinking they are just stupid and lazy.

When I was twenty-five years old, I didn’t understand why my parents didn’t want to go out to eat. Take them to eat spicy hot pot or barbecue, but they actually say they have no appetite for such human delicacies.

When I was an employee, I didn't understand why my boss would rather get rid of the eliminated products than distribute them to himself after get off work.

After becoming a boss, I realized that if the eliminated products were distributed to employees, the elimination rate would be greatly increased.

It is difficult for people to understand if they have not experienced it.

After understanding the cruelty of society and the complexity of human nature, the various actions of adults seemed to be reasonable and reasonable.

I also found that as I get older, if I eat a greasy meal, I may not be hungry for a whole day. As for spicy food, you will get angry as soon as you eat it. At this age, porridge, side dishes, and home-cooked meals are my favorite.

As I get older, I don’t want to go out to eat, or worry about things that have little to do with my actual life.

As I get older, my old friends all have their own affairs, and it’s hard to talk them out just by calling them out. If you invite someone frequently, you may be rejected.

Just like young people are often urged by old people to get married and have children, it is normal for young people not to understand what old people think. Because they haven't reached their age yet.

The logic of the old people is very simple. They just weigh the pros and cons based on their experience and give you the best direction. But some people don't understand or accept it, because some things can only be understood after experiencing them.

When people reach middle age and old age, without a spouse or children, they are basically lonely outside of normal social interactions.

Life is becoming more and more hopeless.

Old age is often accompanied by frailty and illness. Being frail and sickly brings fear and despair to people.

Moreover, if there are no spouses and offspring, the old and frail elderly will feel more malice in society.

After all, the evil of human nature is sometimes beyond human imagination.

The richer the lonely elderly person is, the more miserable their life may be. Because they are weak people carrying treasures, and everyone around them is watching them with eager eyes.

Although modern society has progressed and civilization has developed, the elderly in their old age are actually like babies. When their physical functions deteriorate to a certain extent, they also need personal care.

However, they are more miserable than babies because their ability to feel pain is stronger.

At this time, I hope that having a spouse or blood relative around me can become my hope. You don't have to understand why the old man is like this, but don't doubt human nature.

The laws of nature arrange human reproduction, and it has its own reasons. It’s okay to go against the laws of nature because it may not suit your personality. But don't think it's wrong.

The most severe punishment for prisoners in prison is solitary confinement in a small dark room where you are not allowed to interact with others and have no entertainment facilities. Therefore, loneliness can actually punish these extremely evil people.

In school, it is painful to isolate a person because no one can communicate with him and he is isolated from the class.

The same is true in the workplace. Cold violence in marriage is even more criticized.

No one cares, no one talks, no one communicates, it is a devastating thing. Because the social attributes of human beings have disappeared.

People who have never experienced the true feeling of loneliness cannot understand it.

Staying at home by yourself for a few days, playing with your mobile phone, is not lonely. It is difficult to understand the feeling of loneliness even after you reach a certain age.

Most of the people who ask online whether they should have children are young people. Because when you are in your 20s, your physical strength, mental strength, and career are all at their peak, so you can hang out with friends and play around every day, and you feel that there is nothing wrong with living like this for the rest of your life.

After the age of 35, everything is going downhill. Most of the friends in the past have their own lives and their own affairs, and they can no longer be as available as they used to be.

Moreover, body functions and various desires are also in a state of decline. I don’t want to go out to play that much, I don’t have that much appetite, and my illnesses are slowly increasing. At this time, true loneliness will slowly come.

When I was working, there were still people communicating with each other, so it wasn't a big problem, but when I got home at night, when I opened the door, there was silence.

Especially during the holidays, I feel tired when I look at my mobile phone. After I wake up, no matter what time it is, the house is quiet. When I turn on my mobile phone, there are no calls or messages. If I suddenly get sick, it will be even more difficult. In a quiet house, I want to drink water, but I don't have the strength to drink it. There is no one around me, so I feel helpless.

Therefore, at this time, a stable relationship is very important. When people reach middle age, their spouses and children are even more reliable than their parents, because parents are old and begin to rely on their children.

Therefore, those who have not entered into marriage and have no children will be accompanied by loneliness after returning home.

Of course, marital violence and unfilial children also exist, but they are in the minority after all. Opening your eyes wide before marriage and being less love-minded will reduce many risks after marriage.

Without marriage or children, you should be carefree when you are young and relaxed in middle age, but you must be able to withstand the fragility of old age, especially loneliness.