Siheyuan starts from a good life

Naturally, Jiang Yan didn't see Liu Zhaodi's little move. After he came to his senses, he hurriedly looked for his grandma. The courtyard was so messy. If the old lady bumped into her, it would be a big deal.

After looking around, he saw the old lady sitting peacefully in front of the first master Yi Zhonghai's house. In front of him stood the two humming generals Lou Xiao'e and Yu Li. Seeing this, Jiang Yan felt relieved.

"Stop it." Seeing that the middle courtyard was in such a mess, Jiang Yan yelled.

Perhaps after hearing Jiang Yan's words, the two people who were fighting stopped fighting and stood up from the ground.

Since ancient times, people have not fought with officials. This is the survival rule of ordinary people. Naturally, he dare not say anything.

After hearing Jiang Yan's words, the two of them gave up. Jiang Yan thought for a while and said directly to the second aunt: "Second aunt, this Jia Dongxu has just passed away. Aunt Zhang is a little impatient. You, sir, have a lot of money, so please forgive her." ”

Under the chatter between the two people, Jiang Yan finally understood the cause of this matter.

When the second aunt saw Liu Guangfu like this, she went to Jia Zhang and said, "Jia Zhang! I won't take you like this. This courtyard is not yours alone. Even if you listen to the spirit, you can't completely block the door of our house. Look, you scared the child, if you scare one of them, I will give you endless punishment!"

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So they wanted to send the body back home. But Jia Zhang refused to let the body in, saying it was bad luck. Finally, a bier was set up in the yard and the body was parked in the middle courtyard. After Jia Dongxu's body was laid out, Liu Zhaodi's family went to buy all the funeral supplies.

As a result, after buying the coffin, the coffin and the person were parked directly in the middle courtyard. Naturally, the mourning hall was erected directly in the middle courtyard.

This rule handed down from our ancestors is really practical and reasonable. It is not only a reflection of human touch, but also avoids misunderstandings between each other and hurts the feelings between neighbors and fellow villagers.

"He is Jiang Yan, who lives next to the backyard. He is a high-ranking official, but he doesn't care about the affairs in the courtyard. I think he was disturbed today. Dad, please don't talk nonsense for a while." Liu Zhaodi explained and then warned. One sentence.

If someone doesn't invite you, but you take the initiative to help, it will be awkward for both parties.

Nowadays, the rule of "uninvited for red events and uninvited for white events" is still adhered to in other places in the Four-Nine City.

"Don't worry! Dad understands, understands."

The second aunt was excited by Jia Zhang and said, "Just try it! I'm afraid you, an old widow, won't make it."

"Then his mourning hall cannot block the door of my house." The second aunt said.

Second Aunt: “This is a public place, and you don’t do this.”

After all, compared to red weddings, white weddings are larger in scale and take longer, often lasting two or three days, so they require more manpower.

The literal meaning of this proverb is that if the host does not invite you to help at a wedding, there is no need to take the initiative to help. Of course, it also means that if someone else’s family doesn’t invite you to a wedding banquet, try not to take the initiative to share the money, otherwise others will gossip about you.

This suddenly shocked the people in the courtyard, especially the second uncle's house. The door opened facing the mourning hall. The key is that there are corpses inside. This suddenly made the second aunt's family miserable, especially Liu Guangfu. This boy was still young, so he was so frightened that the cat stayed at home and did not dare to go out.

If you say Jia and Zhang, just cry! This also caused snot and tears to stain my legs, which was really disgusting.

"Aunt Zhang, please get out of my way. If you have something to talk about, there's no need to do this." Jiang Yan spoke while struggling.

Just when the second aunt was about to step forward and tear down the mourning hall, Mrs. Jia Zhang screamed and went up to fight with the second aunt. This was what Jiang Yan saw next.

Jia Zhangshi "There is no green grass by the river, so where can a talkative donkey come from? I want you to take charge of it! This is a public place."

"Xiao Jiang! There is nothing you can do about it, Aunt Zhang. Jia Dongxu just passed away, and now we are the orphans and widowed mothers. You have to make the decision for me!"

We attach great importance to weddings and weddings, and preparations often start several months ago to purchase all the things needed for the wedding. By the time the wedding is approaching, the preparations are almost complete. When the day of the wedding comes, there is often a shortage of manpower.

Give advice to those who need help, and work to those who need help. On the one hand, this can share the sorrow and fatigue of the master, and on the other hand, it is also a manifestation of human touch.

"White things come uninvited" means that if someone dies in the village, even if the host does not invite him, he still has to take the initiative to help.

Because the host has already planned who to ask for help. It is very likely that you want to help with good intentions, but the other party does not have this idea, and it is difficult for the person to refuse directly. Therefore, this rule of the ancients is to avoid This kind of thing happens.

Before Jiang Yan could notice, he saw a man as fat as a pig running up to him, hugging his legs and crying.

"Daughter, who is this young man?" Liu Ergou, Liu Zhaodi's father, secretly pulled his daughter and asked.

In this regard, people from the family usually come to help. After all, the scale of the Hongxi event will not be too big, and members of the family can handle it if they have time to help.

"Mr. Jiang, don't listen to the nonsense of Jia Zhang, an old pious woman, who bullied their orphans and widowed mothers. They are bullying our family." The second aunt also walked up to Jiang Yan and pointed at Jia Zhang's Nose cursed and then opened his mouth to explain.

Jia Zhang: "Why are you still messing with me? Let me tell you, when it comes to fooling around, I, Jia Zhang, have never been afraid of anyone. Now I'll leave it at that. Which one of you dares to try?"

Jia Zhang: "I'm happy, but can you take care of it?"

Second Aunt: “Believe it or not, I demolished your shabby shed.”

It turned out that after Liu Zhaodi completed the formalities, he, his father and brothers pulled Jia Dongxu's body into the Sihe courtyard. Originally, Jia Dongxu could not go home to rest after he died in the hospital.

Jiang Yan nodded after hearing this. Then she turned to Mrs. Jia Zhang and said: "Aunt Zhang, you are the same. The mourning hall is placed at the door of other people's homes. This is somewhat against the rules! No one has done this, so you have to give in. Give way to the mourning hall. If others understand you, you should also understand that others don't. Besides, Jia Dongxu's funeral affairs will depend on the neighbors. Think about it, is this the truth?"

This is actually "I am for everyone, everyone is for me". If others invite you but don't help, others will not come to help you next time something happens to your family.

"Okay, okay, you two should stop arguing." Seeing that the two were about to fight, Jiang Yan quickly spoke up to stop them.

Actually! This Jia Zhang family just wanted to make a fuss. To be precise, she wanted to test the bottom line of the people in the Siheyuan. As for the fight with the second aunt, she just wanted to take the opportunity to cause trouble and let the people in the Siheyuan know that there was no man in their family. It was not a good idea. Bullying families are afraid that others will take advantage of their family. Now that Jiang Yan has spoken, she will naturally give Jiang Yan some face. She still knows quite a lot about who can and cannot be offended in this courtyard.

Or the smartest person in the world is a widow.