Male protagonist, you are targeting the wrong person

This was the first time that Jiang Wenbai and Yan Wenmo had quarreled in the strict sense. Before that, the two of them could never quarrel, whether because of their status or other reasons.

So this time, both of them had no scruples and used quarreling to express their opinions directly. It was also this time that both of them faced their differences with each other and started the running-in mode.

In fact, the relationship between people is not something that can be achieved overnight and is not particularly harmonious.

If you feel particularly comfortable getting along with him, it is just that he is trying to please you and satisfy you, not that he is right for you, because people are different. There is no such thing as a perfect fit, let alone someone who understands you very well.

Therefore, from the perspective of the long-term development of a relationship, pleasing someone cannot maintain a long-term relationship, just like wealth that is spent without any effort, it will not last forever.

No matter how much wealth one has, it will disappear after squandering it. Similarly, patience to please others will gradually disappear if it is not cherished, and then completely go away.

People cannot just give all their lives, just like an unequal relationship, which will always consume the lower-ranking person. If the lower-ranking person stops giving and if the higher-ranking person continues to ask for things, then this relationship, no matter how beautiful it starts, will fall apart.

It’s not that I don’t love you, but it’s too tiring. Compared to the continuous consumption, everyone hopes that they can get it without paying any price, but that is impossible.

No matter how noble a relationship is, there is always a purpose. It could be fame or fortune, emotional value, or something else that the other person finds important.

Therefore, an equal, mutually beneficial relationship is the only way to achieve sustainable development. No one wants to be in a lower position all the time. Everyone knows that being in a higher position is comfortable, but those in a higher position also need to pay a certain price in order to make those in a lower position willing to pay.

Not to mention, if the person in a lower position is not satisfied with the relationship one day, he can naturally leave, but a relationship is completely declared over when one party leaves.

Therefore, the most important and long-lasting relationships are those that respect each other, give to each other, and communicate with each other, rather than one party being superior and the other being humble and flattering. Such relationships will eventually end in separation.

Therefore, when Yan Wenmo and Jiang Wenbai discovered that there were indeed differences between them, they did not choose to escape, because escape would not solve the problem.

I didn't choose to compromise because compromise can't solve the problem. What can really solve the problem is communication. Even quarreling is a kind of communication. Then we weigh the pros and cons and reach a result that satisfies both parties.

What made Jiang Wenbai angry was that when he finally had the ability and strength to protect Yan Wenmo from harm, she still chose to risk her life.

What made Yan Wenmo angry was that she had worked so hard to pave the way and plan, and finally reached the end where she could take revenge, but Jiang Wenbai stopped her from taking revenge because he was worried about his own safety.

In a way, both of them are right. Jiang Wenbai is worried about Yan Wenmo because he loves her and is afraid that she will be hurt. After all, it has not been easy for her along the way, and he sees it.

Yan Wenmo was not wrong either. Whether she endured humiliation or lingered on, it was the price she was willing to pay for revenge. Therefore, she felt that she had nothing to be wronged about for having come this far. As long as she could get revenge, nothing else mattered.

But Jiang Wenbai couldn't help but not care. He liked her and loved her. It wasn't just love that he said, but he really wanted to protect her, guard her, and make sure everything was fine for her.

But she didn't seem to appreciate it, at least not now, so the quarrel between the two seemed particularly fierce.

"I'm just worried about you, not making excuses for others! Swords have no eyes on the battlefield, what if I hurt you?! Didn't I tell you?! Just leave your affairs to me!!"

Jiang Wenbai spoke with great confidence, and he obviously didn't understand why Yan Wenmo was angry. Yan Wenmo got angry when he saw his self-righteous look, and couldn't help but roared:

"In their eyes, you are you and I am me. How can we be the same?! If you behave like this, not only will you make me and Qianyang Sect get smeared, but you will also cause Haotian Sect to get scolded as well?!"

Jiang Wenbai also got angry. He subconsciously raised his voice and looked at Yan Wenmo angrily:

"What do you mean by lumping them together? Can husband and wife's affairs be lumped together?! I am your husband, not an outsider. What's wrong with me taking on some responsibilities for you?! Can an outsider control him?! Besides, do those people have the right to say anything about you?!"

"They have the right to speak, so how can you stop them? Not to mention, they are already dissatisfied with me because of this hero list I made, and they want to find an excuse to attack me. You want me to retreat to the back. Isn't this just handing them a target?!"

"That bunch of rubbish has allowed the Demon Lord to do evil in the cultivation world for nearly twenty years, and they still have the nerve to criticize you. How can they be qualified to criticize you?! If they really have the ability, why don't they kill the Demon Lord? Instead, they are here to complain about you. Aren't they just thinking that you are easy to bully?"

"Does this have anything to do with being easy to bully?! They are not strong enough, didn't we also avoid their sharp edge and survive in the beginning?! Now that we finally have some teammates, can you be more united and don't make things difficult for me?"

"How can I be ununited? You see, I never refuted your opinion from the beginning to the end. Besides, you and I both know that it doesn't matter whether we have teammates or not."

"How can they be the same?! Although they are weak, at least they can help, which is better than the two of us fighting alone. The Demon Lord has many subordinates. If we rely on just the two of us, I'm afraid we will be exhausted to death. Now that we have external help, you have offended them all and left. What can we do alone?! The soldiers alone can wear us out."

"Anyway, I just don't want you to go. The scene is too dangerous. You've suffered so much. I'll fight this final battle for you. You can take this opportunity to rest."

.........

The quarrel between the two lasted for a long time. Jiang Wenbai refused to agree to let Yan Wenmo go to the battlefield. Yan Wenmo was so angry that she had a headache. She rubbed her temples subconsciously, and her head was buzzing.

Finally, she took a deep breath, looked at Jiang Wenbai who refused to retreat, and decided to take a step back and said to him directly:

"Aren't you just worried that I'll get hurt on the battlefield?! How about this, I'll just follow you and pick up the slack, and let you protect me, okay?! Let's stop arguing, and just take a step back. I'll go to the battlefield and you'll protect me personally, how about that?"

Jiang Wenbai wanted to refute, but Yan Wenmo punched the desk and glared at him, threateningly:

"Don't be such a jerk. It's true that your Jiang family has a grudge against the Demon Lord, and so does my Yan family. If you dare not let me go to the battlefield, believe it or not, I will tie you up and take you back to the Haotian Sect tomorrow, so that you can't kill our enemy?!"

Jiang Wenbai looked at Yan Wenmo's unquestionable face and knew that it was impossible for him to force her not to go to the battlefield, not to mention that Yan Wenmo was a person who would keep her word. If she was really annoyed, she could really do something that would prevent him from taking revenge.

Therefore, he looked at Yan Wenmo with resentment, and muttered quite aggrievedly:

"I care about you, too. Look at you, you act as if I'm forcing you."

Yan Wenmo was too lazy to argue with him, so he lowered his voice and asked:

"Just tell me if it's okay, don't talk nonsense"

Hearing this, Jiang Wenbai looked even more aggrieved, and said:

"Okay, I'll listen to you. All right, okay? Really, you don't understand my good intentions at all. I'm doing this for your own good, you..."

He grumbled a lot and was still not satisfied with Yan Wenmo's arrangement, but Yan Wenmo was too lazy to pay attention to him. He just rolled his eyes and left the meeting room.