Rebirth 90: The Long Road to Finding a Son

The physical and mental damage that Sun Xiaohao caused to Yuan Sihan is irreparable, and Yuan Heng and Yu Lili are heartbroken.

If Yu Lili hadn't seen that Yuan Jie and Sun Aimin were really mean to the child this time and beat him severely, she would have wanted to rush up and teach him a lesson herself.

Seeing Sun Xiaohao roll his eyes and faint, Yu Lili just watched without going forward to ask a single question.

However, Yuan Heng was quick to catch the slap from his brother-in-law Sun Aimin, and ordered his sister and brother-in-law to pinch the child's Ren Zhong point, and finally took him to the hospital for a check-up.

Yu Lili hugged her daughter and comforted her until she calmed down, then she took her out for a haircut. Seeing her beloved long hair falling off bit by bit, Yuan Sihan burst into tears again.

Yu Lili was so angry that she had no place to vent it and felt very depressed.

You say that among all the people in the Yuan family, from the old to the young, apart from Sun Xiaohao, there is no other person without quality.

I don’t know if Sun Xiaohao has had a genetic mutation. Not only does he not look like anyone from the Yuan or Sun family, but his character is also very different from that of his parents.

If she hadn't seen Sun Xiaohao being carried out of the delivery room with her own eyes, she would have really suspected that someone had switched her sister-in-law's child.

Not to mention Yu Lili, even Yuan Rui often felt strange about this idea.

When Sun Xiaohao was very young, she felt that the child was not like her sister, brother-in-law, or anyone else in the family.

Both Yuan Jie and Sun Aimin have very decent and dignified looks.

Niece Yuan Sihan looks most like Yuan Jie, with big, watery and lively eyes, crescent-shaped eyebrows, and a nose that is not very high, but it is definitely not flat.

Not to mention my brother-in-law Sun Aimin's appearance. He is 1.8 meters tall, with thick eyebrows and big eyes. He used to be a well-known handsome guy.

Even now, Yuan Rui has never seen anyone whose appearance can compare to Sun Aimin.

If you say Sun Aimin is a hotel chef, everyone will think you are joking.

In everyone’s impression, chefs generally have big heads, thick necks, and big round bellies. How can a chef have a figure and looks like a model?

But what about Sun Xiaohao? Although he has double eyelids like his parents, his eyes are bulging outwards, or what is commonly known as "toad eyes".

The bridge of her nose is a little sunken and flat, and her lips are thin, wide and flat.

Sometimes adults joke and say that this child has inherited his parents’ shortcomings.

But the more I watched, the more I realized that he didn't resemble Yuan Jie or Sun Aimin at all.

When the child was younger, although he was not very attractive in appearance, he was the child of the most favored daughter of the Yuan family after all, so everyone liked the child.

Perhaps it was the influence of Yuan Jie and Sun Aimin that showed that he had received a good education from his words and deeds in front of his elders at home and outsiders.

For example, when eating, a five-year-old child will not smack his lips, which is a good habit.

For example, when his parents take him out, he will take the initiative to greet the elders he knows in a friendly and affectionate manner, making those elders happy, and sometimes they will buy him some delicious food and toys.

Therefore, outsiders who do not understand the conflicts among the children of the Yuan family think that Yuan Jie and Sun Aimin are quite good at educating their children.

After the Mid-Autumn Festival incident, Sun Xiaohao, who was "unconscious" after being beaten, was transferred to the hospital in time.

After a series of examinations, there was nothing serious, but Yuan Jie and Sun Aimin were still a little worried, so they asked Sun Xiaohao to stay in the hospital for observation for another day or two before being discharged.

In the past two days, in addition to worrying about Sun Xiaohao's physical condition, they also seriously reflected on the issue of Sun Xiaohao's education.

The next morning after being admitted to the hospital, Yuan Jie asked Sun Xiaohao while feeding her nutritious porridge: "Can you tell mom why you treated Sister Sihan like that?"

Sun Xiaohao rolled her eyes cunningly, and then said a little aggrieved and resentful: "I don't like my mother being so nice to my sister. You are my mother, not her mother."

"But sister is my uncle's daughter, and she is my relative. My kindness to sister does not affect my love for you!"

Yuan Jie tried to explain to Sun Xiaohao patiently, hoping that he could understand the meaning of this sentence.

Sun Xiaohao still had a drooping mouth, and continued: "But my aunt won't be so nice to me. Why should you be nice to her children! You bought my sister a gift that she liked so much, but my aunt didn't give me any gift this time. Isn't our family at a disadvantage?"

After hearing this, Yuan Jie understood a little bit that her son had such little thoughts in mind.

She didn't understand why a child who grew up surrounded by love would become like this.

The word "calculating" suddenly flashed through my mind, and I couldn't help but shudder.

She, Sun Aimin and other family members had never instilled such ideas in Sun Xiaohao.

After this conversation with her son, Yuan Jie felt deeply frustrated.

Prenatal education during pregnancy, early education after giving birth, and early childhood education in kindergarten cooperating with teachers, I devote all my energy to every stage of education.

But the final result was not satisfactory, and it could even be said to be a failure.

What exactly went wrong?

She really couldn't understand: as an advanced educator, couldn't she even educate her own children?

How can she continue to be a teacher in the future?

But there is no point in being anxious. Correcting a person's thoughts and character takes time.

In any case, the "stick education" strategy still has some effect.

After the Mid-Autumn Festival incident, Sun Xiaohao, who was beaten up, did not cause any trouble for a long time.

Because their eldest daughter Yuan Rui accused the old couple of "spoiling" their grandson Xiaohao, they simply moved back to their hometown Jiangjin City from their youngest daughter Yuan Jie's home to take care of their grandchildren.

In this way, Yuan Jie and Sun Aimin lived as a family of three for the first time since Sun Xiaohao was born.

The couple usually discuss things with each other and take turns to take Sun Xiaohao to kindergarten and interest classes. Their days are busy and fulfilling.

This year, Yuan Jie taught the new first-year students at Qingyang No. 1 Middle School. The teaching task was much easier than the senior class of the previous year.

The arrival of the second child added a lot of joy to this small family, but this joy only belonged to Yuan Jie and Sun Aimin. For Sun Xiaohao, it seemed like she was under a lot of oppression invisibly.

He has mentioned to his parents more than once that he doesn't want any younger brothers or sisters, and he would reveal his insecurity from time to time, trying to attract more attention from his parents.

Of course, his sensitivity did not escape the eyes of Yuan Jie and Sun Aimin. For this reason, the couple also gave him more patience, hoping to eliminate their son's anxiety through the transmission of love.