The Buddhist lady travels through ancient times to live a leisurely life

He was the one who chose Madam Xie, so he has to swallow the bitter fruit himself.

As the old saying goes, the more a person lacks something, the more he cares about it. My old wife cares so much about family background, power and status, probably because these are exactly what she lacks.

Lord Xie sighed deeply in his heart. His wife was only the eldest daughter of a fifth-rank official. She was not valued at home and was treated worse than a concubine's daughter. What did he say? If he valued family background as much as she did, he would never have married her!

He was young at the time, and when he saw her being provoked by her half-sister on the street, he felt that she was very pitiful, so he rushed forward to help her. After that, he met her from time to time, and they fell in love with each other.

At that time, my mother firmly disagreed. She wanted the eldest daughter of the Minister of Revenue, but he was young and hot-headed at the time and insisted on his own way. My mother could not persuade him and had to compromise. The condition was that if a child was born in the future, it must be given to her to raise.

He agreed with this. His wife's family background and her position in the family meant that her vision would not be too high, and the education she received might not be suitable for raising a son of an aristocratic family. She only needed to play the role of a gentle wife. He had discussed this matter with his wife in advance, and she agreed at the time.

Therefore, not long after Xie Lang was born, he was brought to his grandmother's side and raised by his grandparents. He thought this was all agreed upon, but he did not expect that his wife would be greatly devastated by this and would cry every day.

At that time, he was still young and soft-hearted. Seeing his wife like this, he felt very distressed. After his daughter was born, he could not stand his wife's crying and begging, so he went to ask his mother to give his daughter to his wife to raise. His mother probably thought that a daughter's family was not so important to the rise and fall of the family, so she did not insist and agreed. She immediately put all her energy into training Xie Lang.

Later, he regretted his soft-heartedness countless times. His daughter's personality was like his wife's, and she couldn't stand up. On the surface, she looked dignified and generous, a qualified lady from a noble family, but inside she was sensitive and weak.

When the mother was still alive, she sensed something was wrong and wanted to take her granddaughter to raise her more than once. However, not only did her wife disagree, but her daughter herself also disagreed. She was taught by her wife to be wary of her grandmother.

After marrying Mu Sheng, although her husband was not around, all the Mu family members were straightforward and treated her very well. As long as she could stand on her own feet and study hard, she would be the head of the Mu family and her life would be good.

But she just insisted on being sad and depressed, staying at home all day long, and forcing herself to smile in front of everyone. In the end, she failed to go through the stage of giving birth, so not only did they lose their loved one, but they also left behind a newborn baby.

If the daughter had been given to her grandmother to raise, the outcome might have been different. Which qualified clan woman would be so fragile?

A qualified clan wife should be like his mother, no worse than a man, or even more resilient than a man. Even if something happens to the men in the family, they can support the family by themselves, cultivate excellent offspring, and continue to bring glory to the family.

Alas! Unfortunately, there is no regret medicine in the world.

Fortunately, he had a clear mind and did not take concubines or have illegitimate children. Therefore, even if there were some conflicts in the family, they were not too prominent and superficial harmony was maintained.

He believed that if he took a concubine, there would never be a peaceful day in his family.

Old Madam Xie was still wiping her tears, crying while observing her husband's reaction. She saw him frowning, closing his eyes and saying nothing, and his face becoming increasingly uglier, before she gradually calmed down.