Siheyuan: I am a big capitalist after the founding of the People's Republic of China
Chapter 192 Grandma's Advice
Li Zihang looked at her receding back, standing there like a sculpture. The impulse in his heart receded like the tide, and his thoughts gradually calmed down.
Then he murmured softly.
"Don't worry~"
"I will arrange everything. I will carry you home in a sedan chair with eight bearers, in a formal ceremony."
For Li Zihang, love is so far away, just like the stars in the night sky, which are bright but unattainable.
Qiu Tong's frequent visits have already made his grandma and grandpa see through everything in their experienced eyes.
No matter how clever their cover-up was, they could not escape the eyesight of these two old men.
In this family, especially in the marriage of the head of the family, there is no freedom at all.
There are only marriages of intertwined interests, like puppets bound by golden threads.
Li Zihang knew this very well, but he was neither a saint nor a heartless person.
Even though he has been through a lot, he still has trouble fully controlling his emotions.
After calming down, he immersed himself in studying the information again.
However, within two minutes, there was a knock on the door from grandma.
Grandma's rosy and shiny face revealed her deep worry about her grandson's emotional problems.
She sat on the sofa in the hall with a slightly sad look on her face, staring at Li Zihang opposite her.
Grandma said with a hint of sadness in her tone.
"Grandson, grandma doesn't want to interfere in your emotional affairs."
"But you have to understand that in a family like ours, there is no free love, let alone freedom of marriage~"
"Not just any woman can step through this door."
"Everyone was young once. My grandma was also your age~"
"Love that is not suitable for each other is like a mirage in our family. It will never come true~"
"Grandson, listen to grandma's advice, don't let yourself get too deep, and don't make things difficult for your grandfather and me~"
"Otherwise, in the end, more than just us will be hurt."
Li Zihang understood what his grandmother meant by these words.
But everyone has seven emotions and six desires.
There are gains and losses. Li Zihang was born in such a family.
While having no worries about food and clothing, one also has to shoulder the responsibility of the family's rise and fall.
People like them often have to marry a woman they don't love or even dislike for the benefit of the family.
Grandma continued.
"I don't object to you dating, but you should be careful about your behavior."
"In the end, don't hurt yourself, and then hurt the girl."
Grandma's tone was full of worry. Regardless of whether Li Zihang listened to her or not, she couldn't help but want to persuade the grandson she had raised with her own hands.
"Back then, my mother's family was considered a prominent family in Qiantang."
There was a hint of melancholy in grandma's eyes.
“My father planned to marry me off through an arranged marriage for the benefit of the family.
At that time, I was completely reluctant, but what could I do since I was born in such a family?
I had no choice but to follow my family's instructions and meet young talents who were well-matched with me."
There was a hint of helplessness in grandma's voice.
"But in that era, which powerful man didn't have three wives and four concubines?"
A bitter smile appeared on grandma's face.
"Because I am full of desire for love, every time I go on a blind date, I will put forward the condition that I can only accept the condition that I don't take concubines or have extramarital affairs."
When grandma said this, she couldn't help but laugh at herself.
"But there is no man who is not unfaithful. Even your grandfather is no exception."
“At that time, your grandfather returned to his hometown to do business and happened to meet me when I was on a blind date.
After a few visits, we got in touch.
Later, when your grandfather was planning to marry me, he encountered considerable opposition from my family. "
The memories of grandma seem to drift away.
It was the first time that Li Zihang heard his grandmother talk about the past between her and his grandfather.
His curiosity was instantly aroused.
"Grandma, can you tell me in detail?"
Grandma was brought back to reality from her memories by Li Zihang's questions.
"That time, after your grandfather and my father had talked it over."
"Take me back to the capital and prepare to confront my family."
"But at that time, your great grandfather had already arranged your grandfather's marriage."
"Fortunately, your great grandfather had only discussed it with those people and had not yet posted the invitation to officially get engaged."
"Otherwise, for the sake of the reputation of both families, I can't enter that door."
"After your grandfather and your great grandfather broke down their talks."
"Your grandfather forced me to stay at home."
"At that time, your grandfather had a big quarrel with the family."
"Just think of it as a discussion between me and your grandfather. I'll move out temporarily and come back after he's done talking to my family."
"I didn't expect that at that time, I happened to run into the young master's friends, who were humiliating your second grandfather."
"Although at that time, our family's secret power was not much different from that of the main family."
"But in that era, the master was the master, and the servant was always the servant."
"I looked at your Second Master being humiliated, and I couldn't help but stepped forward to help him."
"This also made the young master of the main family unhappy at the time."
"I have repeatedly used various words to bully and ridicule your great grandfather."
"Later, your grandfather was sent out by the family to do business. I had no choice but to follow him and travel all over the country."
"We have experienced life and death together and returned to the capital again."
"At that time, your great grandfather knew that I accompanied your grandfather through the difficult times, and my mother's family was in Qiantang, and they were also well-known figures."
"That's it, agree with me and your grandfather."
"It's not easy to be the mistress of a big family."
"If the woman does not bring benefits to the family, then she can only use her own abilities to help her man, protect the family, and create benefits for her man."
"Only in this way can I stand firm and gain recognition from my family."
"After all, our rise and fall concerns the lives of too many people."
"In the first few years after I married your grandfather, I attended various banquets and was often ridiculed by the women in the family."
"Until one day, your grandfather went out to do business, gambled with someone, encountered danger, and then disappeared."
"At that time, there were sworn enemies of our family, people who took advantage of others, and some who wanted to take advantage of us."
"They all come to our house to get money or take advantage of us, and some even want to put our family to death."
"At that time, they would come to my house from time to time to get my opinion."
"Some people also started to make shady moves behind the scenes."
"I used tough measures to counter these attacks."
"In the end, he even fought the head of a family to the death.
Until the end, I held a gun and shot at them in the street."
"Until they were scared and couldn't afford the price. Finally, I negotiated with them on behalf of my family."
"The mistress of a family like ours has no less worries than the man in charge."
"Not only do I have to help my husband run the business, I also have to help him with ideas. When he needs to take the blame, I have to take the initiative to take the blame for him."
"Men are the face of a family. If their reputation is humiliated or they bear some infamy."
"Then he will never be able to hold his head up again when he goes out, let alone do business or discuss business matters."
"So there are some things that only the mistress of the house can do."
"Another point is that if she is the mistress of the house, she has a good background and a prominent family."
"Even if something happens at home, others will be more or less afraid of the mistress's family."
"Marriage is not only about combining interests, but also about being prepared for any eventuality. If something happens at home, there will be an extra force to help~"
"If the mistress of the house has no background, then she must have enough means and brains to help manage the family business and take responsibility when something happens to the family."
"I can protect this home~"
"Let others know that even if the man in charge is not here, our family cannot be bullied by others."
When grandma said this, she stared into Li Zihang's eyes and spoke every word.
"Grandson, do you think your partner can do what I said?"
"There are so many people following us. We have to consider them in every move we make."
"So grandson, think about it more~"
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